Old flames

[dreamer]

Oh absolutely. There's this gal in B.C. she's a tad on the zaftig side, but I'd still bone her.

ZAFTIG=GOOOOOOOOD!!!

Lets all be sure to practice that little mantra every day!!

As for old flames...the obvious answer is yes. My question is DO THEY KNOW IT??

Which leads to the corollary do we know it when someone feels that way about us??

We all answer yes so quickly, but why is it I can't think of a single one that would want me?

 

[PrincessSalome]

Is there someone in your past you still have the hots for? Someone you would fuck without giving it a second thought?

Do we have to limit it to one? As I page back through my relationship resume, I'd have to say, more so than not.

So many of my relationships ended, not because the love ran out, but because we were just in different stages of our lives. I know it's cliche, but when I love someone, I give him a little piece of my heart forever.

Shit, I just imagined them all in one room. . . . having trouble . . . (gasp) . . breathing . . .

 

[pipercatt]

Yes, I would, and it breaks my heart that I probably won't ever have the chance to, again.

 

[c.fey]

Mmmmmm there are so many who still make my clit all tingly just thinking of them...mayhaps I could have them all in bed at once and get it over with....

P.S. Zaftig = hot hot HOT!!!

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Regardless of where you are now, is there someone in your past you still have the hots for? Someone you would fuck without giving it a second thought?

There was one guy 20 years ago I walked away from cause I knew it would hurt to much to stay....... damn I'd go another round in another time and another place......

 

[shynsexy]

Yes. Gawd, I hate the control a person can have over you, without awareness.

my thoughts too

 

[ksmybuttons]

I married the flame that burned the hottest and brightest.

 

[fallon2]

Memories

Memories are great and I have no desire to go back and try to repeat them. They are all married (most happily) and the one I ran into at a class reunion said and I quote "give me a call, anytime, anyplace," which made my ego soar. I thanked her profusely for the invitation.

 

[VanB]

Yes!
Yes!
Yes!

 

[Horny Hippie Girl]

There was always one person that I could never get over. I compared every woman I met to her. Eventually, I met a man that really did it for me and proceeded to fall in love. Well, after 10 years apart, that first love, first female sex partner came back. Now I have a husband and a girlfriend. All I can say is, thank goodness neither of them has "sharing" issues!! Otherwise, I would have been in a very difficult situation!

 

[iwmggw]

Regardless of where you are now, is there someone in your past you still have the hots for? Someone you would fuck without giving it a second thought?

i have no shame when it comes to the ladies of my past ...........i'd fuck em all,fuck em all,fuck em all.........the short ,the fat ,and the tall!

 

[Jimi]

Too flamin' RIGHT, Sheila!

I've considered it.....but then I start thinking about whether one night of knee trembling sex is worth destroying the love and trust I share with my SO now. It isn't.

You Beaut, Bindii! that is exactly where I'm at now.

Yup. and thank GAWD for wise friends, on and offline - that helped me to focus the blood supply UPWARDS and avoid a VERY "near thing" a few months ago.

 

[Ballboy]

Absolutely... and I hope they feel the same way

 

[tswyk]

Well....there is ONE special guy....but while the craving is still there - (after 20 years, no less) would I really take that chance???

Probably yes. Just throw caution to the wind and DO IT!


Whew! Just thinking about his kisses, his touch, the things he made me want to do.......excuse me for a while - I've got a fire to put out!

 

[riff]

The only people I have the hots for are in my present. I still have some affectionate memories of past girlfriends, even the ones that totally trashed me, but I can't say I have the hots for them.

Would I sleep with them again? In my dreams, maybe, but it's not likely to happen.

What about you, miles?

 

[Hamletmaschine]

No, I wouldn't. There's only one that I'd consider saying yes to, and she's actually told me several times that she'd be interested. But I think it would end up badly, even though the sex would probably be as fantastic as ever. Too much water under the bridge.

 

[lavender]

 

[LukkyKnight]

Nope.

Possibly AFTER some thought in one case, but the past is just that, the past.

Do I still feel affection for them? To varying degrees, yes indeed. So far as I know, in no case has everything I saw and wanted in an old flame burned out altogether.

Dinner and drinks, maybe a movie, even a picnic without hesitation, but... lovemaking is about opening doors, and for those I've let go of I'd have to think hard since closing them once.