Older-Younger Relationships

[Naked Hunny]

Problem Child, If you look this thread started before the personals began!

 

[nytbrat]

i have to say i agree with skibum...i've never dated anyone younger than me, only guys older that were a few years older...i guess the maturity factor is what i look at...
~brat

 

[Problem Child]

Problem Child, If you look this thread started before the personals began!

Knock me over with a feather! So this shameless self-promoting Ford guy is probably long gone anyway. I never even looked at the dates. (tries to pull foot from mouth)


nevermind....

 

[bluntforcemama]

Personally, I can't stand to date anyone who isn't at least five years older than me. Young boys are not fun toys. Call it a maturity issue, or perhaps experience, I don't know. But I've also dated men who were 15 years older than I am, and sadly, they were pretty damn immature, too. Maybe I should just start dating older women.

 

[Derya]

Many of my relationships have been with younger men and they all really were the most enjoyable. The following come to mind specifically.

One when I was 29; he 20
One when I was 25; he 24 (not so much difference)
One when I was 33; he 24
Most recently I 34; he 24

I don't pick a person based on age, but I tend to prefer younger men kind of like 'prettytits' commented. I think in my situation I tend to meet men that are younger b/c 1)I don't look my age (still get carded regularly) 2) lifestyle (no kids, never been married, live real free spirited independent single life). Age should not be the defining characteristic there are too many other facets to a relationship. Although I dig younger men, I hesitate sometimes when meeting one because I wonder if they'll find me attractive as an older woman, but they always have.

As an aside it is so odd Ford_Racer who started the thread described a 1994 Mustang race car that was a problem to a realtionship, a money drain, but provided a rush better than sex. My last boyfriend the 24 year old had an '88 Mustang for drag racing, another race car that was a real financial drain, and described racing "EXACTLY" the same way or close 'he used to say it was almost better than sex'. Is this a racing phenomenon? Does racing seduce men this intensely?

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[Nicole]

Personally, I can't stand to date anyone who isn't at least five years older than me. Young boys are not fun toys. Call it a maturity issue, or perhaps experience, I don't know. But I've also dated men who were 15 years older than I am, and sadly, they were pretty damn immature, too. Maybe I should just start dating older women.

I'm another 5 year age gapper (is that a word?)

I like my man to be older, guess it's the whole Dom/sub thing, I feel better having someone older to take care of me.

I was in a realtionship with a Younger man, and we got along great, but it was nothing like it is when I'm with an older man. I like him to be at least five years older.

 

[old codger]

I'm 57 and date a 28 yr old mature young lady. We've never experienced any problems and I don't foresee any in the near future, hopefully.

 

[Myrrdin]

Ummmmmm...........

.... under my Xmas tree with nothing but a leather cock harness on?

Your idea of gift wrap ?

 

[prettytits]

Yep, Myrrdin...

I like the package to stay wrinkle-free and hard for a long, long time...the cock harness seems to do the trick!

Let me know if you need a check for your wrapping -- and where to send it. And if you find yourself under my tree early, I wanna warn you, I sometimes cheat and open my packages early. 'Specially those with clever wrappings.

 

[willywanker]

One potential problem with older/younger relationships. I married an 18 year old girl when I was 26. The first years were great and I have two beautiful daughters to remind me of those times. But she took some classes, got a degree and decided that she had grown while I had stayed the same. I was the same, the same guy she married 11 years before but now she wanted different things than we did when we started.

So, make sure the younger one has sown their wild oats, and are at the same maturitey level you are (or above). I know these relationships can work tho, because my parents have a 13 year age difference and they just celabrated their 44th wedding anniversay. Be careful and enjoy.

 

[cherrypop]

One potential problem with older/younger relationships. I married an 18 year old girl when I was 26. The first years were great and I have two beautiful daughters to remind me of those times. But she took some classes, got a degree and decided that she had grown while I had stayed the same.

Hiya Willy! *g*
Willy's thoughts kind of leads up to my own. It depends greatly on which years you are referring to. Eight years...from, say, 45 to 53 may not be so huge, or even 33 to 41...but when someone younger is involved (18-26) it gets harder. I think the older we get..the less age matters. So, the younger the person is, the greater the gap is. Five years can be HUGE if you are dealing with a senior in high school. Five years is nothing, really, in age difference. It's all relevent.

 

[LittleRedDevil]

I prefer older men. I had a relationship with someone who was younger than me, and it didn't last long. I prefer talking to older men. I get along well with most people twice my age. I enjoy the conversation and the intelligence and the experiance gained in a lifetime. Those things can't be gotten by younger men, or younger women. It's something that takes time to aquire.

 

[ericred50]

Age does not matter, several of you will remember by last thread(I have found my True Love) Im 62 she is 15 years younger than me. I was concerned about the age difference but I was assured that it did not matter one little bit. She likes my experience, confidence and patience, plus of course my personality, good charm and most of all she says my sex appeal. !!

 

[willywanker]

Hiya Willy! *g*
Willy's thoughts kind of leads up to my own. It depends greatly on which years you are referring to. Eight years...from, say, 45 to 53 may not be so huge, or even 33 to 41...but when someone younger is involved (18-26) it gets harder. I think the older we get..the less age matters. So, the younger the person is, the greater the gap is. Five years can be HUGE if you are dealing with a senior in high school. Five years is nothing, really, in age difference. It's all relevent. [/B]

Cherry,uhhhh, yeah, what she said. I think thats what I meant, but she said it so much better.