Older/Younger

to each his own...

You're so right Prime!!! (re: the ideal) although I have had an 'older' lover or 2 that were great!! Still, the fact that the younger ones can actually deliver 2 to 5 times in an evening (or morning) what the older WISH they could do...... it's a fact of life that eventually everyone cannot physically do what they mentally wish they could!!!

The way I see it, 'to each his own'....... I have a cousin that is married to a man 18 years older than her. That's not for me!! lol And my best friend cannot understand how I can fuck someone younger than her son!!!

dickE - I know EXACTLY what you are talkin about, I don't mince words with the young'uns when I'm flirting with them, its fun to make 'em blush!! A sport?? mmmmmmmm I like that idea....:p
 
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GypsyHeart said:
You're so right Prime!!! (re: the ideal) although I have had an 'older' lover or 2 that were great!! Still, the fact that the younger ones can actually deliver 2 to 5 times in an evening (or morning) what the older WISH they could do...... it's a fact of life that eventually everyone cannot physically do what they mentally wish they could!!!

The way I see it, 'to each his own'....... I have a cousin that is married to a man 18 years older than her. That's not for me!! lol And my best friend cannot understand how I can fuck someone younger than her son!!!

dickE - I know EXACTLY what you are talkin about, I don't mince words with the young'uns when I'm flirting with them, its fun to make 'em blush!! A sport?? mmmmmmmm I like that idea....:p

Now wait one darned minute...I have yet to have a young one keep up either....let alone do it more than once>>>>>must be living in the wrong *f*ing state...:p
 
AWWWW n-erasmus - this is not a 'bash the older man/younger woman relationship forum'........ lol i personally KNOW women with older men that would not trade them 'for 2 younger models'!!! They're out there!!!

AND WildRose!!!!! thand you sooo much for responding!! You GO GIRL!!!!! I'm gonna be right there with ya!!! lol I'm 46 and mine have ranged from 23 to 52!!! '52' is fun and cuddley!!! but my FAV age is about 27 to 31... lol Although that 23 yo ROCKED!!!! when I PERSONALLY want some hard-body, kick-ass, long-lastin, open-minded, sloppy-wet, give and take SEX........ I want a YOUNGER MAN!!!

Now get this!!! I'm a BBW and 97% of my lovers have been VERY good looking, tall and lean and hard-bodied!!! Go figure!!! I've even asked them why not a 'thinner' woman, they tell me they love my 'softness' (of course I have HUGE tits)!!!! lol BUT there are also men that will not even talk to me ONLINE much less meet me BECAUSE I am bbw!!! lol oh well, their loss!!!:p

Happy weekend everyone, I'm going out of town!!! :D More on Monday......:cathappy:
 
Dammm girl yu go...you know how old I am 71 and my youngest one has been 28 but I have them all the way to 73...but my fav little sweetie is 18 yrs younger...
 
OH yeah!!!!

WildRose......... just last week I sucked my young one off TWICE within 20 minutes!!! lol And I mean 'soft' to 'hard' to 'soft' to 'hard' again!!!! Must be all the sunshine down here!!! lol You gotta find one that can 'arrive' so often!!! :devil: but I must admit, he IS the exception and you KNOW what they say about every rule!!! lol
 
GypsyHeart said:
This is an age-old question I know, would love to know if most YOUNGER men are interested in OLDER women...... any experiences?? how young did you start/how old was she?? and a RL meeting is not out of the question!! :p Curiosity has gotten the best of me...... love to hear from you 'older' guys/women too!! Is anyone in an older/younger relationship/marriage now?? This could be a fun conversation!!!

I was a very lucky 17yo and attracted the attention of a 38yo barmaid and moved in with her and had my sexual awakening and education by her, to this day she remains oneof the hottest lovers I ever knew.I have many,many fantastic memories of this sexy lady.

AGE has never been an issue with me although the lady above remains the high in older age group and the youngest was a beautiful young lady 22 years younger than me.:D

I have been one lucky guy:devil:
 
Glad to contribute, Gypsy Heart. I'm over 50 now, but remember almost to the day when I first discovered older women. I was outside late at night taking a walk and spotted a woman standing at her back screen door totally nude. I had never seen a women in her 50s nude before and it really put the hooks in me. Also, I read about these 50 year old knockouts, but she was round stomached with sagging breasts and a plump bottom. I realized in an instant that I was attracted to her more than any woman that I had ever seen. I was 26, but it was a couple of years before I met my first older lover. She was 57, divorced and a childhood neighbor. She had spent her years holding back her sexuality because of her husband and children. Being older now, I can understand our lengthy erotic conversations. She was aging and wondering what pleasure life had to offer her yet. We shared the initimate details of each other's complete sexual experience from early masturbation and teenage dating to marriage and lovers. Her lack of inhibition led to mutual nudity during our conversations and eventually to a sexual relationship that lasted over a decade.
 
Vigor and age

While it is true that sexual vigor declines with age, I'm past 50 and good for 3 times in a single session still. When in my early 20's ... well I never called it off.

So it *IS* an individual thing ladies, not a simple matter of years. But there is a social thing about older/younger, one that makes it easier for older F and younger M than vice :D versa.

I don't feel bashed, btw. Just horny. ;)
 
You're right about the social perception that an older man and a younger woman means she loves him for his money and an older woman and a younger man means she love his sexual stamina. I heard of a 50 year old couple that split up and found 25 year old lovers and she boasted of having more fun and could prove it with math, "25 goes into 50 more times than 50 goes into 25."
 
Younger men

I wish some of the younger men around here felt that way. Or even some of the older ones. I'm 41 and I haven't been with anyone since my divorce 4 years ago. And yes I like looking at the younger men. Nice tight bodies and the energy to keep going. :devil:
 
First things first - MrNiceGuy is back after being gone a while - HIYA!

Second - ooo... I looooove older women. They really do get better with age, in my opinion.

I'm 22yo and I just can't hold a stimulating (heh) or intellectual (sp?) conversation with most of the girls my age. I need a relationship both in and out of the bed, and it seems that I really click on both angles with more mature women. Problem is, finding an older woman here in San Diego - it's a city for the young. :)

(Just to clarify, "older woman" in my book is any woman over 30 - you ladies ticklin' 50 are A-OK in my book :D )
 
been on both sides of the ..............

question, and older women w/ younger me was the better of the two. young women who are looking for daddy and don't know or are not comfortable with sex, well, it is for another to show them the rope{s}.older women know what they want, very little bullshit about it, and there you have it. I have had a few younger gals, now that I have reached my dotage, and except for one or two exceptional girls, I would rather not.

ol warpy, his cranky ol' self.lol;-))

hurry up and suck this will ya, honey, it"s almost your curfew:p :rolleyes: :rose:
 
The Older, the better....

Well, I am an 18/m from Toronto and I also have the older woman fever :)

It is a goal for me to finally one day meet one who is actually willing to be with someone so young, but somehow i just don't see it happening....Bu the fantasy will never die! (even when I'm an old man myself :D )
 
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Claypool_84 said:
Well, I am an 18/m from Toronto and I also have the older woman fever :)

It is a goal for me to finally one day meet one who is actually willing to be with someone so young, but somehow i just don't see it happening....Bu the fantasy will never die! (even when I'm an old man myself :D )



I AM an old(er) man, myself! At 55!........and the "older woman" I've pursued and bedded all my life is now my age or very close to it and I still lust after a woman in her early 40s and up! I have no use for the so called "trophy g/f". The "high maintenance" of a younger woman is no bargain and neither is the same requirement of the mature woman but there's a "high maintenance" demanded by a mature woman that's much, much more rewarding. When she's "on her game", she'll convince you that you've died and she is as close to heaven as you'll ever get. Her thighs ARE the pearly gates!
 
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Claypool_84 said:
Well, I am an 18/m from Toronto and I also have the older woman fever :)

It is a goal for me to finally one day meet one who is actually willing to be with someone so young, but somehow i just don't see it happening....Bu the fantasy will never die! (even when I'm an old man myself :D )



I AM an old(er) man, myself! At 55!........and the "older woman" I've pursued and bedded all my life is now my age or very close to it and I still lust after a woman in her early 40s and up! I have no use for the so called "trophy g/f". The "high maintenance" of a younger woman is no bargain and neither is the same requirement of the mature woman but there's a "high maintenance" demanded by a mature woman that's much, much more rewarding. When she's "on her game", she'll convince you that you've died and she is as close to heaven as you'll ever get. Her thighs ARE the pearly gates!
 
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Claypool_84 said:
Well, I am an 18/m from Toronto and I also have the older woman fever :)

It is a goal for me to finally one day meet one who is actually willing to be with someone so young, but somehow i just don't see it happening....Bu the fantasy will never die! (even when I'm an old man myself :D )



I AM an old(er) man, myself! At 55!........and the "older woman" I've pursued and bedded all my life is now my age or very close to it and I still lust after a woman in her early 40s and up! I have no use for the so called "trophy g/f". The "high maintenance" of a younger woman is no bargain and neither is the same requirement of the mature woman but there's a "high maintenance" demanded by a mature woman that's much, much more rewarding. When she's "on her game", she'll convince you that you've died and she is as close to heaven as you'll ever get. Her thighs ARE the pearly gates!
 
when I was 18ish.. I was having sex with my neighbor everyday while her husband was at work... She was mid-high thirties.
Also had fun with a 43 year old woman... that was good. Had a few older women in my portfolio it seems. :)

Im a redhead too Gypsy! ... Now to think of a reason to go to florida....
 
hun if you need to think of a reason to go then you haven't been on a vacation in too long. Sun, beach, surf, and so many older women on the lookout that you might not see the beach the whole time your there. :devil:
 
who needs the beach!!

Kikmosa - you are sooo right!! lol Sterling, there are MANY older, hot women looking for a younger man to..............play with!!! lol take your pick!!

Claypool - think positive baby, the best is yet to be~!!!


Back in my 'youth' I found myself more attracted to the older men than the ones my age, as I look back, I'm not really sure why. LOL But believe me, I certainly DO remember my first experience with a younger man!!! and believe me, I plan to continue!!!
 
MrNiceGuy said:
First things first - MrNiceGuy is back after being gone a while - HIYA!

Second - ooo... I looooove older women. They really do get better with age, in my opinion.

I'm 22yo and I just can't hold a stimulating (heh) or intellectual (sp?) conversation with most of the girls my age. I need a relationship both in and out of the bed, and it seems that I really click on both angles with more mature women. Problem is, finding an older woman here in San Diego - it's a city for the young. :)

(Just to clarify, "older woman" in my book is any woman over 30 - you ladies ticklin' 50 are A-OK in my book :D )

well MrNiceGuy..... too bad you are not in FL!! Perhaps you should cum for a visit!! :devil: but, alas, I personally am not looking for a commitment!!! :D just hot sex!!!!
 
I think MrNiceGuy and I are in the same boat. I've been interested in meeting an older woman for awhile, just can't keep my head from turning and checking them out every time I pass one on the road, SUV/Soccer mom types are especially magnetic. Haven't actually had the pleasure of dating or spending any time with one though. I'm in SoCal too, maybe they're all at the Gym drooling over their personal trainers? =)

Will all the older women in Southern CA please stand up?
 
SoCal

TDRfan said:
I think MrNiceGuy and I are in the same boat. I've been interested in meeting an older woman for awhile, just can't keep my head from turning and checking them out every time I pass one on the road, SUV/Soccer mom types are especially magnetic. Haven't actually had the pleasure of dating or spending any time with one though. I'm in SoCal too, maybe they're all at the Gym drooling over their personal trainers? =)

Will all the older women in Southern CA please stand up?

TDR, if/when I ever move to Cali I will definitely stand up for you!! I was just talking with a 'younger friend' today and he tells me the weather in San Diego is great!! I'm considering a move OUT of Florida, so I guess I should put California on the short list!! lol

But you DO know, there are some soccer moms out there (I'm one too, so I know) that are in search of the likes of you! Unfortunately the EASIEST place to find them is online. I have only had 2 or 3 IRL that approached me, but I was flirting with them to start with. They're there, ya just have to keep looking!!

:kiss: good luck!
 
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