Oldest loss of virginity

[davenjenn]

The older guy I escorted with

I tried that a couple of times too. At the other end of the scale, I had a nice but inexperienced boyfriend who I made out with but could never bring myself to fuck. Should I have felt bad about it?

 

[Filipinawife]

Hey no it’s all about you!

 

[davenjenn]

Hey no it’s all about you!

I guess and it was fun cheating on him with other guys -- not sure he ever guessed. I told him I was saving myself

 

[tristantrotsky]

I can remember chatting with a woman in her 70's who told me she was a virgin. She was still a virgin last time I saw her, about 30 years ago.

The least you could have done was offered to help her out of that predicament...
She was obviously up for it, or why else would she have told you...?

 

[PantiesAndPies]

I was 31. And she’s still the only woman I’ve fucked. I’m so glad I waited for her instead of going to an escort like I thought about doing. If they hadn’t wanted to charge me extra because I wanted to be wearing lingerie I probably would have done it.
instead I lost it while I was naked as I hadn’t admitted my panty fetish to her, but it didn’t take her long to find that out and take me shopping ….

 

[gtnlynn]

I was 22. I promised my girlfriend that I would wait until then. She was not even close to being a virgin, and her experience helped me. I wish I had not waited.

 

[Neddie37]

My second wife was virgin at 26; mainly because her mother despised sex and fed her old wives' tales. She didn't even know that sexual excitement made her wet – she thought it as an unhealthy discharge. Once virginity gone she enjoyed sex but never allowed me to finger her.

 

[SAILOR954]

I’m not trying to put anyone down but some of these stories are just so sad to me.

The shit society puts on girls about sex is just shameful.

I’ve seen kids that are growing up in family’s where their questions get answered honestly. Sometimes mom has to take little Susie to her bedroom to “answer” a question, but never is sex depicted as evil or dirty.

And the kids grow up just fine.

Sorry for the rant but it just seems to me that these parents are doing more damage than good.

Sailor

 

[HoldYouDown]

As I've gotten older I've come to believe two things:

1 - Virginity is a human construct and doesn't mean much;
2 - Loss of it can be any consensual sexual contact or experience

Generally I think it's an overrated binary concept.

 

[cdstefi]

I was 27 and wondering if I was ever going to get any. Unlike most horny teens I'd always kind of pedestalled women rather than trying to get into their knickers, despite wanking myself stupid with the thought of what my first time would be like, so it was sort of a self-erected barrier.

On the plus side when I did lose it I was already on very good friends/going out/falling in love terms with my first wife so it felt nice and natural, and we had four kids fairly quickly so I guess I caught up

 

[Corbie]

I was 26.

 

[live4thebj]

Isn’t late relative to one’s point of view? Well I lost mine at 18. Others I know from those days lost it a lot sooner.

 

[Scotchlander]

I lost my virginity a lot younger than I care to admit.

I met a woman 50+ who told me she was still a virgin. When she went for her pussy medical check, the Doctors were amazed she was still a virgin.

I offered to help her out, but before I could she said she was saving herself for her wedding night if she ever got married

 

[wifewatcher1997]

I was 22 for full penetration sex. Had received a few blow jobs and hand jobs prior.

 

[Stromer]

I’m not trying to put anyone down but some of these stories are just so sad to me.

The shit society puts on girls about sex is just shameful.

I’ve seen kids that are growing up in family’s where their questions get answered honestly. Sometimes mom has to take little Susie to her bedroom to “answer” a question, but never is sex depicted as evil or dirty.

And the kids grow up just fine.

Sorry for the rant but it just seems to me that these parents are doing more damage than good.

Sailor

Lets add religions to that as well.
My first date with my first wife was on her 20th birthday. She truly was a good Catholic girl and believed all the crap about masturbation, etc.. She told me, and I believed her, that she had only made out with two guys and shut the first guy down when he tried to feel her tits over her bra, she never saw him again. After a few adult beverages, she let the second guy feel her tits under her bra but she shut him down as well. Again, he ghosted.
After several weeks of dating, me reassuring her that I wouldn't pressure her and telling her how much fun we could have without intercourse, she got naked in front of someone for the first time. After lots for finger play and exploring her body, I went down on her which resulted in her first orgasm. She turned into a horny nypho after that, but still wouldn't give up her virginity.
She finally asked me to take cherry five years later.
So 25 for my first wife.

 

[Bellinah]

Welp… I lost mine at 14. I do not belong in this thread.

 

[bobb_sledd]

Welp… I lost mine at 14. I do not belong in this thread.

And you also don't understand the rules about posting events that took place before you turned 18. An infraction that can have an independent impact on you or a wide-ranging impact on the thread depending on the mood of the moderator.

 

[SinjohKaiser]

Welp… I lost mine at 14. I do not belong in this thread.

There's nowhere on this site that you don't belong, honey.

 

[magicalmoments]

I had a distant relative die recently, female, aged 82 at death and a virgin. How do I know, she told my wife a few years before she died when they were having one of their late night wine drinking chats. We never had any reason to disbelieve her.

 

[Trubbycat]

21st birthday. Not crazy late but I was embarrassed to be that old.

 

[Lady2020]

I was 24. I don't regret waiting.

 

[JiminNC]

66, up my bum… I hope early next year!

 

[curioustxn]

There are many reasons why a woman may wish to remain virgin. For example: there are lesbians who have no use for men, and therefore, may remain virgin throughout life. Not everyone needs or wants intercourse.

 

[Trubbycat]

There are many reasons why a woman may wish to remain virgin. For example: there are lesbians who have no use for men, and therefore, may remain virgin throughout life. Not everyone needs or wants intercourse.

I would imagine that we'll have to redefine virgin because of these lifestyles.

 

[ericalauren]

Update: I’m 36 years old and still going strong with the virginity thing.