On the Naughty List . . .

[dirtyolman68]

Sadly, no pics of me on this device.

Does said device have a camera function?

 

[kissntell43]

Damn device!


So, what was on your wish/naughty list this year?

The continuation of my explorations. I learn something new about myself almost every day.

 

[Lone_Wanderer]

The continuation of my explorations. I learn something new about myself almost every day.

That's quite interesting. So, what have you learned about yourself today?

 

[kissntell43]

That's quite interesting. So, what have you learned about yourself today?

Today I learned that I am conflicted about my latest interest.

 

[dirtyolman68]

Today I learned that I am conflicted about my latest interest.

Please do tell. Sorry for intruding.

 

[curious_me]

Today I learned that I am conflicted about my latest interest.

And what's your latest interest?

I'm sure we can provide some perspective.

 

[dirtyolman68]

Today I learned that I am conflicted about my latest interest.

Please elaborate if you feel comfortable. Your among friends.

 

[kissntell43]

Please do tell. Sorry for intruding.

And what's your latest interest?

I'm sure we can provide some perspective.

First a little background. I experimented with BDSM for a little while, under the assumption that I was submissive. It became clear to me that was not really the case. More recently it has become clear to me that I am a switch that leans more to the Domme side of the spectrum. Now, to explore further or not to explore and just back away and ignore?

 

[Pervy_Sage]

First a little background. I experimented with BDSM for a little while, under the assumption that I was submissive. It became clear to me that was not really the case. More recently it has become clear to me that I am a switch that leans more to the Domme side of the spectrum. Now, to explore further or not to explore and just back away and ignore?

Life IS exploration, thus would you truly be living if you did not explore?

 

[kissntell43]

Life IS exploration, thus would you truly be living if you did not explore?

There is also the search for a toy to "play" with.

 

[Bluespark]

I'm flirty and a bit of an exhibitionist. I also like to share . . .

We'll start off with a preview to bikini season.

Beautiful! Love the smile.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

There is also the search for a toy to "play" with.

Tis the struggle of a dominant type...finding the right toy.

 

[kissntell43]

Beautiful! Love the smile.

Thank You!

Tis the struggle of a dominant type...finding the right toy.

I dislike regular partner searching let alone unusual partner searching.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

UOTE=kissntell43;52167591]Thank You!


I dislike regular partner searching let alone unusual partner searching.[/QUOTE]

I'm in agreement with you...which is why I've not had a pet in a long time.

 

[dirtyolman68]

Perhaps you could begin by simply having some conversation about these issues? There are so many avenues and variations to explore, you certainly wouldn't get bored, and you may discover some enjoyable distractions in the meantime? one nice thing about bdsm is that the boundrys and limitations can be reimagined at anytime. Maybe there is an alternative you haven't thought of yet?

 

[kissntell43]

Perhaps you could begin by simply having some conversation about these issues? There are so many avenues and variations to explore, you certainly wouldn't get bored, and you may discover some enjoyable distractions in the meantime? one nice thing about bdsm is that the boundrys and limitations can be reimagined at anytime. Maybe there is an alternative you haven't thought of yet?

I am sure about what about the scenario "blows my skirt up". The active participation of the other party is what I am not sure about. How do I really know their limit? To go past that would be so wrong . . .

 

[Pervy_Sage]

I am sure about what about the scenario "blows my skirt up". The active participation of the other party is what I am not sure about. How do I really know their limit? To go past that would be so wrong . . .

I've found that frank conversations go a very long way towards establishing comfort and boundaries.

 

[kissntell43]

I've found that frank conversations go a very long way towards establishing comfort and boundaries.

Now to find a man that wishes to be my toy . . .this could be so difficult.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Now to find a man that wishes to be my toy . . .this could be so difficult.

Lol. Um....good luck. They're out there, and you're beautiful. may not be as hard as you think.

 

[sh60fh]

First a little background. I experimented with BDSM for a little while, under the assumption that I was submissive. It became clear to me that was not really the case. More recently it has become clear to me that I am a switch that leans more to the Domme side of the spectrum. Now, to explore further or not to explore and just back away and ignore?

According to Socrates "The unexamined life is not worth living." Explore away and in the mean time have a happy Christmas.

 

[kissntell43]

Lol. Um....good luck. They're out there, and you're beautiful. may not be as hard as you think.

I hope you're right!

According to Socrates "The unexamined life is not worth living. " Explore away and in the mean time have a happy Christmas.

Happy holidays to you as well!

 

[Lone_Wanderer]

Lol. Um....good luck. They're out there, and you're beautiful. may not be as hard as you think.

I was just thinking the same thing. I think she can afford to be choosy. LOL.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

I hope you're right!



Happy holidays to you as well!

Btw, this is one sweet thread. Kudos to you!

 

[curious_me]

First a little background. I experimented with BDSM for a little while, under the assumption that I was submissive. It became clear to me that was not really the case. More recently it has become clear to me that I am a switch that leans more to the Domme side of the spectrum. Now, to explore further or not to explore and just back away and ignore?

YOLO - You Only Live Once!

So, I say explore and see where it leads you.

Did you enjoy it?

 

[curious_me]

Now to find a man that wishes to be my toy . . .this could be so difficult.

Or not....