Online BDSM Test Results Discussion

[AnnieLit]

Seriously????? No true Dom or sub would ever take this stupid test, much less post the results. If you are a Dom, or a sub, you know what you are and don't need a test to tell you that. Apparently, there is way too many people that watched 50 Shades and think this is a lifestyle they would be interested in. If you took the test with the intention of showing your other half, or finding a potential partner, try discussing it with them instead. A good D/s relationship starts with clear communication. Throw the test out.

Seriously??? You come to a thread to tell people who they are (not) without knowing a shit about them? How very domly of you!

These test results are a very convenient way to start that conversation you are so concerned about. If you have a partner and want to bring sonething new up, sure, you can just talk. But if you are looking for a partner and doing it online, you need some starting point, some common interests that might make you two compatible. They might not, but one has to start from something. If you have age play in your top 5, there is no need to waist your or my time -- it is not happening. If I am looking for a rigger and you are absolutely not interested in tying knots, there is not much for us to talk about. If you are not confident enough and would rather stay away from switches, you might be intersted to know that I am 100% that and move along.

Sure, at some point a much more detailed list will come out and be talked about line by line. But to get to that point one has to start somewhere and this is no worse of a starting point than many others.

 

[SimonDoom]

How very domly of you!

Is this an example of domsplaining?

 

[AnnieLit]

Is this an example of domsplaining?

It would have been if what he was saying was half true.
But as it is, it is just an example of being an ass.

 

[cookiecat]

Seriously????? No true Dom or sub would ever take this stupid test, much less post the results. If you are a Dom, or a sub, you know what you are and don't need a test to tell you that. Apparently, there is way too many people that watched 50 Shades and think this is a lifestyle they would be interested in. If you took the test with the intention of showing your other half, or finding a potential partner, try discussing it with them instead. A good D/s relationship starts with clear communication. Throw the test out.

What Please Me and Simon D said.

Come on now!!

You asked us in the thread you started to give you the benefit of the doubt, to see through heavy handed generalizations you were throwing out in order to actually hear you.

I thought you had valid points over there but holy cow. Everyone else was right.

"No true Dom or sub would EVER take this stupid test." Really?

Check yourself.