susurrus
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This from someone who doesn't understand how erotic an idea licking up that cum will be... until it's out of your body. After that, it isn't a sudden disgust for the notion or any thoughts of, "But will it make me... insert spurious reason here"Oh you guys with the "I really wanna, til I cum then I don't"...
If your partner said you were never going to cum in her mouth again til you'd tasted it, I bet you'd change your mind.
No after you've cum, you just don't care anymore. What sounded so hot and so naughty is just... eh.
And while I'm sure threats would work, that approach would also potentially engender negative thoughts toward the person making the demand.
For most of us, all it would take is an encouraging word from the woman. Most of us love women enough that if they'd like us to do something, especially sexually, then all it takes is the knowledge that she wants it to happen. Particularly if she's genuinely turned on by it.
Like several of the men who have responded, my woman didn't get it. It didn't turn her on, she was one of those women who was somewhat embarrassed about my getting my face between her legs. She was afraid it smelled too strongly or tasted funny and was just uncomfortable with the concept of cunnilingus. Oh, she liked it plenty once I got there, and I assured her that I was wired to find that scent and that taste arousing, but I'm not sure she was ever completely convinced.
How I got her to to encourage me was: I asked her to request I clean her up after I came in her. Unfortunately, by this time, sex had become very sporadic, so it only happened a few times, but the flavor was unlike that of my cum by itself. It was like the combination of the two of us changed what it tasted like, made it more palatable.
Anyhow, what I wanted to say: threats aren't really necessary... for most of us. Just the idea that our women would like us to do something so taboo in our uber-macho society would be enough to get us down there.
And if the guy thinks it'd make him gay, then you need to find yourself another man, because he's more concerned with what people other than his woman think of him, and how would others find out anyway?