Oral on bf...

[Ex Princess]

Echoing the "tunnel" advice. What helps with the tunnel is plenty of saliva to lubricate the motion of your hand.

The juicier the better!

 

[RunningJib]

A Great Blowjob

I'd recommend that you let him know that you enjoy giving and this is exactly what you want to do here and now.

First girl that went down on me was lousy. She didn't want to taste cum and it was obvious.

First great bj was in college. She took hold of me by my shaft and rub it on her face. Right there she proved that she was worshiping my cock and she loved doing so.

Go slow and explore. Explore with your hands, fingers, tongue and mouth. Tell him what a great cock he has. Tell him that you been thinking about his cock and what you want to do with it, etc., etc.

Also, you aren't some hoover vacuum. There's more to giving head than sucking. Deep throat if you want to--show him that you want to devour him--not to prove you can take all of him

In a nutshell, don't be tentative, be confident.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

A lot of the guys I have been with have enjoyed me doing lots of various lickings all over them and sucking whatever I can. I think just changing up the textures (lips, tongue, hands, etc) can make it exciting. It's not all about cramming it into your mouth for hours at a time. Sometimes just a sexy glance upward to them while you run the flat of your tongue all the way from the base to the tip of his cock is enough to send them over the edge. Especially when you can just lock your eyes in on them while you do it...

Correct me if I am wrong, but in my experience it seems that most men are more into the visual part of oral sex. Looking up seductively, licking your lips, leaving a trail of saliva on their more sensitive areas might be hotter than shoving their entire member down your throat anyway...

Sage wisdom. I see your teachings sweeping the planet.

 

[thirty]

You were to show off the size of your bf's dick?

 

[quietinpublic]

When I started dating my now-husband, I'd only gone down on one guy before, and it was one of those things where I was "if you loved me, you'd do it" talked into it, WAY before I was ready. It really effed with my head, and I didn't let myself get to that point in a relationship with any guys until now-hubby.

I so know where you're coming from! The first guy I was ever with pulled that one on me, and I was 16, with braces. Bad idea. I didn't get very far but was properly nervous from then on. Tried it with a guy after him but couldn't do it much.............now I finally feel comfortable with this one and we're doing well!

I'm liking the 69 advice, definitely thinking we'll try that one x

 

[justlookingin]

To echo others I wouldn't worry about trying to cram as much length as possible into your mouth. Most of the sensitivity is in the head anyway so concentrate your efforts there. You can always use your hands on the main shaft. Just enjoy it and that (your noises/eagerness) in itself will be a turn on for him. If he's anything like me he'll enjoy watching you do it, eye contact and your tongue seeking out his most sensitive areas.

Enjoy.

 

[Ex Princess]

I think the best blow job I ever gave was in the shower. He loved standing there while I was on my knees, make-up and water running down my face with my mouth buried against him. He said it was immensely sexy.

 

[Tmmldr]

Correct me if I am wrong, but in my experience it seems that most men are more into the visual part of oral sex. Looking up seductively, licking your lips, leaving a trail of saliva on their more sensitive areas might be hotter than shoving their entire member down your throat anyway...

Learn a dozen moves, and surprise him. Yes if a woman was working a guy with her fingers and lips, and sensed when he was on the verge, and at that moment plunged that cock down her throat, looking up at him with adoring eyes and holding it deep until he came, that'd be a woman a guy'd never leave.

But vary the routine, always.

 

[Tmmldr]

I think the best blow job I ever gave was in the shower. He loved standing there while I was on my knees, make-up and water running down my face with my mouth buried against him. He said it was immensely sexy.

Let me guess.

You didn't even take your dress off, just jumped in and went at him?

 

[klippert]

deep-throat....GAG eh

Cumming from the 'MANS' point of view..... it is, an increadable feeling when a woman takes you deep.....all that said.... MrsK has a quick Gag-reflex, so this inhibits her or any attempt at a DEEEEP-Throat. I think this ide'r of deep-throat has become a complex do in part to web porn.

Honey, don't worry about the Deep-Throat, though partice makes perfect. Just your enthusim make the difference. We men are visual animals, we like too see your mouth wrapped around out cocks, licking and sucking our balls....and if you have it in you, rimming us....

Relax, and enjoy as much as we do. Mrsk likes sucking my cock and I like watching her suck my cock and balls....she trys, but only goes as far as she can.... I appreicate her attempt at a throat, but, I don't loose sleep like some of my friends that can't get their wives too give head, even on there birthdays

 

[Daniel1492]

Correct me if I am wrong, but in my experience it seems that most men are more into the visual part of oral sex. Looking up seductively, licking your lips, leaving a trail of saliva on their more sensitive areas might be hotter than shoving their entire member down your throat anyway...

Heck yes that will drive me over the edge

 

[quietinpublic]

Thanks everyone! I'm getting better - less nervy... the guy seems to be enjoying it muchly

 

[simplegirl]

I can't deep-throat and hubby LOVES my blow-jobs. Deep throating isn't the be-all and end-all of a great blow job. He loves it when I rub his shaft all over my face, or let my hair drag over his cock. mmmmm. Licking up and down like an ice cream cone, sliding the tip of my tongue in the eye at the tip. Running my tongue all along the crown, giving little nibbles to the shaft and even playfully (and very carefully!) grabbing his shaft in my teeth sideways and giving a gentle shake and growl. Moaning while he's in your mouth gives a nice vibration to him...etc... just play, have fun and pay attention to his responses. You'll quickly learn what he likes.