Orgasm Denial

[DeepGreenEyes]

And then STILL don't let her. She'll be in shock. Let that sit for a day. Then do the forced orgasm thing tomorrow night until she begs you to stop. It'll turn her brain inside out. Trust me. She won't forget.

Ahhhh. Thank you for giving me the biggest grin my face has known in several days.

 

[subish2009]

Ahhhh. Thank you for giving me the biggest grin my face has known in several days.

That's what I'm here for.

Ever notice how subs will turn on one another like that? *snaps fingers* Maybe we're all a little switchy...

(And by "turn on" I, of course, mean "turn against." I feel your mind twisting that around already...)

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

That's what I'm here for.

Ever notice how subs will turn on one another like that? *snaps fingers* Maybe we're all a little switchy...

(And by "turn on" I, of course, mean "turn against." I feel your mind twisting that around already...)

You know, I had noticed that that seems to be a relief valve for some subs, yes.

It engenders the same interest in me that I take in attractive women wrestling in lime jell-o.





(Note to self: buy lime jello-o).

 

[FloggingMolly]

That's what I'm here for.

Ever notice how subs will turn on one another like that? *snaps fingers* Maybe we're all a little switchy...

(And by "turn on" I, of course, mean "turn against." I feel your mind twisting that around already...)

My problem is self-sabotage! I come up with horrid things he could do, or clauses in his rules (for example, in the no masturbation rule, I came up with the caveat of 'unless it's only done anally'... though at present, I'm not sure whether he'll use it). But I have to tell him, don't I? My brain is not my friend.

 

[kimuk]

The Dollyrots: Hysteria

DGE;s your avs get sexier and sexier ....is that bod really you?

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

My problem is self-sabotage! I come up with horrid things he could do, or clauses in his rules (for example, in the no masturbation rule, I came up with the caveat of 'unless it's only done anally'... though at present, I'm not sure whether he'll use it). But I have to tell him, don't I? My brain is not my friend.

Oh yes. You have to tell him. Tell him everything. He needs to know. For your own good.

DGE;s your avs get sexier and sexier ....is that bod really you?

Thanks. Yep. All me.

Well, not the Hulk avatar I used for awhile. Or the leaf. Or the statue. Or the shark I used at some point...

Is my droning on and on delaying your orgasm?

 

[subish2009]

My problem is self-sabotage! I come up with horrid things he could do, or clauses in his rules (for example, in the no masturbation rule, I came up with the caveat of 'unless it's only done anally'... though at present, I'm not sure whether he'll use it). But I have to tell him, don't I? My brain is not my friend.

I hear ya, girl. I actually am literally required to tell him that stuff.

My subconscious gives me away all the time, too...I have a lot of sex dreams, involving a lot of filth that I wouldn't normally cop to wanting or liking, but I have to tell him those dreams, so there's the humiliation aspect (which I actually kinda like), but then he's got all these new "horrid things he could do" that my subconscious has fed to him!

I also have to show him any porn I look at/read. And the second I say, "But I really don't want to show you! I've been good! Free pass?" he doesn't make me show him. Then. He files it away for when he can maximize my discomfort with showing him. Like....when I really want to cum and begging just isn't enough. And he won't let me show him, then. He'll make me describe it in agonizing detail along with how much I want it...then he'll let me cum.

 

[kimuk]

Oh yes. You have to tell him. Tell him everything. He needs to know. For your own good.



Thanks. Yep. All me.

Well, not the Hulk avatar I used for awhile. Or the leaf. Or the statue. Or the shark I used at some point...

Is my droning on and on delaying your orgasm?

Arrrrr but when delayed they just get better x

 

[sugra]

I have done this more to myself in the past, than have someone else do this to me. And usually, I can last between 4-6 hours of intense stimulation before I finally allow myself to cum (usually bc I am up too late and need to sleep).

This is how it typically goes for me:
I start out fully clothed, reading some erotica and/or watching some erotic movie or porn at the same time. This is usually for 1-2 hours.
At some point, I may get onto the live chat here - for added fun. Maybe for an hour.
I will continue to read/watch/chat for as long as I can without touching myself.
Then at some point I will drop my pants, letting myself free and continue for another 30mins to an hour.
I will grab on, slowly stroke, and bring myself close three or four times.
At this point, my brain is swimming and my cock is straining from the denial.
I will find something really hot, or if I am in chat I will move the conversation towards my orgasm and then after about 15 minutes I will get myself as close as possible, as slowly as possible
Finally, I will allow myself to cum

I can create about twice as much cum when I do this and the orgasm is super intense.

What I am really wondering is if anyone has any tips for other things I can do to myself while denying orgasm like this?

 

[unknooown]

And then STILL don't let her. She'll be in shock. Let that sit for a day. Then do the forced orgasm thing tomorrow night until she begs you to stop. It'll turn her brain inside out. Trust me. She won't forget.

This worked. And she ended up attending the event with me (I told her I wouldn't let her orgasm if she refused the event; she agreed to the event and, well, you know the rest. Except when she begged me to stop I didn't. Because she fucking pissed me off).

Anyway, thank you. She's been a doll ever since.

 

[subish2009]

This worked. And she ended up attending the event with me (I told her I wouldn't let her orgasm if she refused the event; she agreed to the event and, well, you know the rest. Except when she begged me to stop I didn't. Because she fucking pissed me off).

Anyway, thank you. She's been a doll ever since.

Awesome.

And my pleasure. I'm here to serve.

 

[sexygirlieandguy]

Its just some mean joke to make a person wait.. or is it.. lol..

 

[bone251]

Well, I had been seeing to much of Miss Michigan. And my O's were not charged enough to be good. And I was spending too much time with marginal porn. So I decided that I will have no orgasm on my own for the next month and a half. I see my fuck buddy about twice a week. She has enjoyed my oral skills when I get hornier a lot. So she will have all of my orgasms for the next month and a half.
On the 5th day from my last O I seen her and left horny with a ruined O. She was wishing for a nap I made her cum so many times. I think it was 17 or a few more. Was going to see her Friday for an O but something canceled us. Now I am waiting for Monday morning. But I still don't know if I will get the O. But I really seem to enjoy the vicarious orgasm when she cums.
I am thinking about her a lot.

 

[LisbethElliot]

I've never had someone deny me in person, but I have been given an order by email to masturbate just until I'm almost there and stop for a minute or two before being allowed to resume and come. That was nice. Very nice. But I'm afraid if he did this too often or waited too long to let me come, I would simply be unable to. I suppose that might have it's advantages, too, depending on if I had done something to really deserve punishment.

 

[The_Good_Sub]

i rather enjoy the whole orgasm denial thing. My Wife will usually get me close 5-10 times and then just make me wait till the next day or the day after. Of course She get as many as She wants whenever she wants.

Sometimes when She is edging me and i give her the signal i am close She gets this look in her eyes and she doesnt simply let go so i wont go off, instead She slowly slides her hand up my shaft and squeezes my head as She releases and ends up making me have a bad one. She just sits there grinning at me then tells me "oops" or "oh I'm sorry baby" or "oh, that sucks". i suspect She did it on purpose just to see sit there helpless and frustrated. Maybe it's the way She giggles about it...

Another thing that is fun is to put a small vibrator like the ones that fit into those fancy cock rings up inside me. Then when She gets me close and lets go i just oooze all my cum out slowly without any actual orgasm. there is none of the pulsing contractions at all, just one slow long cum and done.

But my favorite method is to start at day 1 and have Her edge me one time. Then the next day 2 times, then 3 and so on. We work up to 20 days and 20 edges in a row. The problem with this is if any time up to the 20th day i go off accidentally, i end up with a bad (minimized) orgasm. Thats so frustrating and unsatisfying. On top of that i have continune again the next day but we go back one number. So if on day 16 i go off then day 17 turns into day 15.

 

[sugra]

I've never had someone deny me in person, but I have been given an order by email to masturbate just until I'm almost there and stop for a minute or two before being allowed to resume and come. That was nice. Very nice. But I'm afraid if he did this too often or waited too long to let me come, I would simply be unable to. I suppose that might have it's advantages, too, depending on if I had done something to really deserve punishment.

In that case, tomorrow morning while you are getting yourself ready for work you are instructed to get yourself close then put your panties on and go to work. During lunch, head somewhere safe and do it again. Then, once you are home you should walk in the door, immediately strip yourself down and finish yourself off before taking two steps in the door.

Enjoy!

 

[redheadedtxn]

ahh, Master's favorite kink...mine too!

 

[redheadedtxn]

This is pretty amateur stuff but tonight for the first time I'm going to actually completely forbid my wife to have an orgasm. I've delayed and ruined her orgasms in the past but I always eventually let her have one. The only thing that will make this tough for me is if she begs, but she hates showing weakness so I doubt that will happen.

I haven't decided yet if this is just a one day thing or if I want to drag it out. Help me out if you can. The situation is as follows: She's refusing to come with me to an important work function -- and while she's allowed to say no to me it's frowned upon and often met with consequences, though pretty mild. However, she is not allowed to say no to me when we have company, especially when our company consists of our friends that know and participate in the BDSM lifestyle. She's supposed to say yes like a good girl, then tell me later in private if she has issue. We had a similar problem last week which was resolved with a few swats to her behind, but this time, especially considering how important the event is and the fact that it's her second offense in as many weeks, I'm looking for something more serious.

So if you were in my position, how long would you hold out for?

Sounds like she wants more control to me, friend!

 

[bone251]

i rather enjoy the whole orgasm denial thing. My Wife will usually get me close 5-10 times and then just make me wait till the next day or the day after. Of course She get as many as She wants whenever she wants.

Sometimes when She is edging me and i give her the signal i am close She gets this look in her eyes and she doesnt simply let go so i wont go off, instead She slowly slides her hand up my shaft and squeezes my head as She releases and ends up making me have a bad one. She just sits there grinning at me then tells me "oops" or "oh I'm sorry baby" or "oh, that sucks". i suspect She did it on purpose just to see sit there helpless and frustrated. Maybe it's the way She giggles about it...

Another thing that is fun is to put a small vibrator like the ones that fit into those fancy cock rings up inside me. Then when She gets me close and lets go i just oooze all my cum out slowly without any actual orgasm. there is none of the pulsing contractions at all, just one slow long cum and done.

But my favorite method is to start at day 1 and have Her edge me one time. Then the next day 2 times, then 3 and so on. We work up to 20 days and 20 edges in a row. The problem with this is if any time up to the 20th day i go off accidentally, i end up with a bad (minimized) orgasm. Thats so frustrating and unsatisfying. On top of that i have continune again the next day but we go back one number. So if on day 16 i go off then day 17 turns into day 15.

Wow! That is hot!
LUCKY, LUCKY, LUCKY.

 

[bone251]

Monday's visit was wonderful! I was so horny I kept thinking of better ways to make her cum. Well she likes being tied up and let me give her too many orgasms and get her clit too sensitive and keep going. I had a great idea. Beach towel bondage. I laid down a beach towel on the bed. She though I was doing so to absorb the squirting. I started my oral enough to get her wet, then with her arms at her sides i rolled her to the side a little. Then I folded the towel over her arm and smoothed it out under her. Rolled her to the other side and smoothed the towel under her. Now her arms were completely bound I went to it. After her clit was really sensitive from my tongue (~8 O's) I got the vibrator out and went at her clit. Stated on very low and kept upping it after every O. At one point she said she could not take any more and I kept going. This was my fav part She then said "Darn. You know me to well" Yes I kept going. Then after the highest speed I went back to a slow and very gentle oral that did an incredible build and orgasm. Twice I got her to that jump out of her skin point that she loves.
Then it was her turn to play. I really thought I was going to get to cum. I was as horny and went as long as we ever have. I was on the brink in no time. She played me so my dick just throbbed and swelled incredibly. She polished the tip. I was taken to the edge over a dozen times. I really though I was going to cum. She pinched off my dick and let me throb against her thumb. My balls felt crushed.
She said she is having so much fun she just wanted to do it again.
I am hoping for an O later this week. I am having trouble just taking a wiz without getting excited. And I never realized how many girls there are to see around town that really need to be looked at.



I this girl.

 

[bone251]

Whooohooo! She made me cum today!
12 days with several teasing and ruined O's the build up was incredible. She teased and edged me a lot before I came. I felt like Oatmeal erupted. She was amazed. She usually keeps it in her mouth to kiss me but there was too much and she had to swallow. Said it was really sweet. Probably from fermenting in the balls for 12 days.
This all happened after I licked her silly. Made her cum three more times after she said she didn't think she could again. I was proud of myself.
And such an incredible cuddle afterglow. She say she is really getting into seeing how far she tease me. It really turns her on to be in control.

 

[timreh]

I hear ya, girl. I actually am literally required to tell him that stuff.

My subconscious gives me away all the time, too...I have a lot of sex dreams, involving a lot of filth that I wouldn't normally cop to wanting or liking, but I have to tell him those dreams, so there's the humiliation aspect (which I actually kinda like), but then he's got all these new "horrid things he could do" that my subconscious has fed to him!

I also have to show him any porn I look at/read. And the second I say, "But I really don't want to show you! I've been good! Free pass?" he doesn't make me show him. Then. He files it away for when he can maximize my discomfort with showing him. Like....when I really want to cum and begging just isn't enough. And he won't let me show him, then. He'll make me describe it in agonizing detail along with how much I want it...then he'll let me cum.

Like you, I have to answer any direct questions she asks me. Right now we're trying a new round of denial. I have to wear a jelly cage during intecourse. I feel nothing, literally nothing, she gets filler by a "fatter" cock and loves it. If she lets me orgasm she makes a point to ruin it. When we're apart I am required to edge and not cum. And I have to edge however many times she requires each time.

I'm a bit of a masochist, so I may think up an idea that sounds erotic, but is also undesirable / painful (frustration <> humiliation / blue balls etc.) and if she asks, I have to tell her what my idea is.

I can be too creative for my own good.

Is there a PYL / pyl to our relationship, yup there is. But darned if either of us know what PYL / pyl fits either of us beyond her being the PYL and I am the pyl.

 

[kimuk]

Am currently in a period of orgasm denial in preparation of our play date in 9 days time !
Coping ...just about coping lol
So I guess I'll soon find out what the end result feels like!

 

[timreh]

It's been about 2 weeks this time. I am expected to edge multiple times a day (3-12 times).

It is so worth it to me.

 

[Younginlondon]

so then

i think its more men that like women to do the denying than women that enjoy denying