Orgasm like a woman

[ecclectic]

Okay, this will sound odd.

I was watching Sue Johanson (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sunday_Night_Sex_Show) and she was giving a young woman advice on either squirting or generally improving her orgasm, I don't recall which it was some time ago.
The advice was to push down like you had to pee.
I was also looking up (it was mentioned in a story i read) prostate milking, where the woman applies pressure to the prostate to increase orgasm in the male.

So I figured, what the hell may as well try something similar.

You need strong keigel muscles: shortly before you reach orgasm (this is pretty much a solo thing, you need some focus and unless she's on top you'll be busy with other things) tense your keigels and push down with your lower abdominals (somewhere between squeezeing your bladder and pushing out a fart... sorry for the visual) do this a couple times leading up to orgasm, then when you peak try to hold it for as long as you can.

I'd never had a solo orgasm that good before.

 

[Pleasure_Fan]

I haven't seen Sue Johanson in a while... I loved her!! Very practical, and not a shy bone in her body. This is a combo that makes for good sex This is why I love Lit! Practical advice without the attached stigma of actually having to speak to a human Love it!

 

[ecclectic]

yeah, she just had a great way of giving the advice. Like a shameless grandmother talking to her favorite grandchild

Lit is great as well, if you have a thick enough skin to realize that the bad advice is often given so that someone else can derive some sort of sexual satisfaction out of it.

 

[Pleasure_Fan]

Your second point is probably true enough, but there are also plenty of good people that will step forward and say - that's a terrible idea, don't do it!! So I would say that those getting bad advice here are either not patient enough to let their question filter through the general populace, or they are just here looking to rationalize poor choices.. Plenty of both those, I would think!

 

[Mr.G]

Most

of the people here are mature and informative. Few stay when they know they are recognized as escaped village idiots and ignored. A few get some sexual satisfaction from the answers no doubt and some of the posts are graphic enough to get a few rocks off I suppose.

I really believe though that MOST of the contributors here get a tremendous NON-sexual satisfaction knowing that passing on the sexual knowledge that they have acquired over a life time is helping others achieve years before they would have reached that point (if ever) from typical ignorant groping and trying stuff on their own. I still get a ton of IM's and notes from my TRY THIS thread and even from the start I rarely thought of that as sexual. I know that sounds strange but it's true. SO often what I get is "Sex was always for him. Now it's for me too and I'm ADDICTED." They also talk of the full range of the relationship has improved and that, really, is what I posted it for in the first place. I wanted to share what Sue and I enjoyed together before the Angels came for her. I'm sure she approves.

 

[ecclectic]

of the people here are mature and informative. Few stay when they know they are recognized as escaped village idiots and ignored. A few get some sexual satisfaction from the answers no doubt and some of the posts are graphic enough to get a few rocks off I suppose.

I really believe though that MOST of the contributors here get a tremendous NON-sexual satisfaction knowing that passing on the sexual knowledge that they have acquired over a life time is helping others achieve years before they would have reached that point (if ever) from typical ignorant groping and trying stuff on their own. I still get a ton of IM's and notes from my TRY THIS thread and even from the start I rarely thought of that as sexual. I know that sounds strange but it's true. SO often what I get is "Sex was always for him. Now it's for me too and I'm ADDICTED." They also talk of the full range of the relationship has improved and that, really, is what I posted it for in the first place. I wanted to share what Sue and I enjoyed together before the Angels came for her. I'm sure she approves.

I was referring more to the General Board than the How To with the bad advice comment.
Most of the boards outside of GB are certainly full of honestly helpful individuals, and I did not mean to detract from that.
I fully believe that the trolls in GB derive sexual satisfaction from their behaviors.

 

[bailadora]

I really believe though that MOST of the contributors here get a tremendous NON-sexual satisfaction knowing that passing on the sexual knowledge that they have acquired over a life time is helping others achieve years before they would have reached that point (if ever) from typical ignorant groping and trying stuff on their own.

Spot on. That's why I'm here. To learn from others and possibly help someone else along the way.