Overcoming My Shyness

BlueDaisy said:
Simply lovely, Melli. I applaud you for posting your pics. I wish I could gather the courage to do the same. I'm bigger than you are. But your pics are wonderful. Very arousing! (hope you don't mind hearing that from another woman!)

Blue I am quite certain that if you ever post pics that you will have fans coming out of the woodwork ;)

We have only talked briefly but from what I can tell you are a beautiful person and I'm sure that your outsides match your personality.

I don't mind at all, I consider it a compliment. Feel free to browse my pics anytime :)
 
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lookn4funruit said:
:D Oh yeah...Could happen...hehehe...*HUGGER*...

*HUGS*

Anything for you hun, glad you approve ;)

Pretty- I am also straight, but I still can see the appeal in the female form. Thank you for your kind words :)

Bertie - After my last few pics I think my shyness is gone. You make me blush. *hugs*
 
melligrl said:
Blue I am quite certain that if you ever post pics that you will have fans coming out of the woodwork ;)

We have only talked briefly but from what I can tell you are a beautiful person and I'm sure that your outsides match your personality.

I don't mind at all, I consider it a compliment. Feel free to browse my pics anytime :)

Aw, thanks, Mel. That's sweet. But like I said, I'm considerably larger than you, so I don't know how true your statement is. But thanks for saying I'm beautiful inside!
 
BlueDaisy said:
Aw, thanks, Mel. That's sweet. But like I said, I'm considerably larger than you, so I don't know how true your statement is. But thanks for saying I'm beautiful inside!

oooh this so tempts me to get up on my soapbox, but I'm afraid if I did these guys here would only try to look up my skirt ;)
 
melligrl said:
oooh this so tempts me to get up on my soapbox, but I'm afraid if I did these guys here would only try to look up my skirt ;)

What gets you up on your soapbox? But you are right...the guys here would try to look up your skirt! lol
 
OH YEAH!!!

melligrl said:
oooh this so tempts me to get up on my soapbox, but I'm afraid if I did these guys here would only try to look up my skirt ;)

;) Well you betcha I would be looking under that skirt...Especially if you were barefoot and had nothing under the skir...WHOOPPI!
Now that sounds like a fun time to me!!!...hehehehe
 
BlueDaisy said:
What gets you up on your soapbox? But you are right...the guys here would try to look up your skirt! lol


okay *gets up on soapbox*

(yes lookn, I'm barefoot)

Your statement about being big and not beautiful. I spent 2 years with a man who made me feel that way. He kept telling me he could find someone prettier and I laughed it off, while I took it to hurt and let my self esteem plunge. Then one day my little sister heard him say it to me and in all her 13 yr old wisdom looked at me and said "Lis . . . you're beautiful and he's no prize. Let him try to find someone better than you, they'll just laugh at him and while he's off being laughed at you can find someone who deserves you" So I dumped him on his ass and my self esteem has risen in leaps and bounds.

Moral of the story: Size is bullshit . . everyone is beautiful. Just because I'm not a size 6 doesn't mean I'm not beautiful and sexy and desirable.

That being said *climbs off soapbox, making sure the guys get a peek*
 
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I'm sorry melligrl what was that?....I was distracted.

Actually I totally agree with you.

<---- ****Applauds melligrl****
 
melligrl said:
okay *gets up on soapbox*

(yes lookn, I'm barefoot)

Your statement about being big and not beautiful. I spent 2 years with a man who made me feel that way. He kept telling me he could find someone prettier and I laughed it off, while I took it to hurt and let my self esteem plunge. Then one day my little sister heard him say it to me and in all her 13 yr old wisdom looked at me and said "Lis . . . you're beautiful and he's no prize. Let him try to find someone better than you, they'll just laugh at him and while he's off being laughed at you can find someone who deserves you" So I dumped him on his ass and my self esteem has risen in leaps and bounds.

Moral of the story: Size is bullshit . . everyone is beautiful. Just because I'm not a size 6 doesn't mean I'm not beautiful and sexy and desirable.

That being said *climbs off soapbox, making sure the guys get a peek*

Yes, you make very good points, and I do agree with you...for everyone else. Not for myself. I felt fat and ugly when I weighed 130 lbs. I look back at those pics now and kick myself for thinking I was fat then. Damn....if I only knew then what I know now about fat.

I just don't like myself this way (ok, I guess I just don't like myself..period. lol), so I suppose it is a moot point.

But thanks, anyway.
 
BlueDaisy said:
I just don't like myself this way (ok, I guess I just don't like myself..period. lol), so I suppose it is a moot point.

But thanks, anyway.

You are very welcome.

You have made me feel more welcome and more at home here on the boards then I can say. Whether or not you like you, I think you're wonderful.

Don't make me unleash Blazer on you again ;)
 
Helloooooo NURSE!

WOW... Mell, I only just met you in another thread, and you threatened to dig up gossip on me so I figured one ill turn deserves another... I saw the link at the bottom of your signature for this thread and decided to take a look and I must say that I nearly had a heart attack! You truly are beautiful! I've got so many things to say, but those things are better perhaps left for private messages.. :D Keep it up girl! Also if you're in need of a photographer......


-Nim
 
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Nimbulan said:
WOW... Mell, I only just met you in another thread, and you threatened to dig up gossip on me so I figured one ill turn deserves another... I saw the link at the bottom of your signature for this thread and decided to take a look and I must say that I nearly had a heart attack! You truly are beautiful! I've got so many things to say, but those things are better perhaps left for private messages.. :D Keep it up girl! Also if you're in need of a photographer......


-Nim

Only just met me and already seen me naked? I feel sooo . . . easy ;)

I didn't dig up much gossip. I think you got way more then me :(

You also made me blush. Heart attack?? I think not. I want a PM now though. I am in need of a photographer . . . I'm running out of pictures I can take alone from my pc. . . but all applications have to be submitted in person. Let me know if you're ever up Amarillo way.
 
HEHEHE...Oh I noticed the barefeet....And the view under that skirt was great......Even better though was the message you gave...I wish more people would read your "words of wisdom" because they are so true!...Glad you finally figured it out for yourself and have moved on with your life...You go girl!!!


melligrl said:
okay *gets up on soapbox*

(yes lookn, I'm barefoot)

Your statement about being big and not beautiful. I spent 2 years with a man who made me feel that way. He kept telling me he could find someone prettier and I laughed it off, while I took it to hurt and let my self esteem plunge. Then one day my little sister heard him say it to me and in all her 13 yr old wisdom looked at me and said "Lis . . . you're beautiful and he's no prize. Let him try to find someone better than you, they'll just laugh at him and while he's off being laughed at you can find someone who deserves you" So I dumped him on his ass and my self esteem has risen in leaps and bounds.

Moral of the story: Size is bullshit . . everyone is beautiful. Just because I'm not a size 6 doesn't mean I'm not beautiful and sexy and desirable.

That being said *climbs off soapbox, making sure the guys get a peek*
:D
 
HHMMMM

BlueDaisy said:
Yes, you make very good points, and I do agree with you...for everyone else. Not for myself. I felt fat and ugly when I weighed 130 lbs. I look back at those pics now and kick myself for thinking I was fat then. Damn....if I only knew then what I know now about fat.

I just don't like myself this way (ok, I guess I just don't like myself..period. lol), so I suppose it is a moot point.

But thanks, anyway.

;) Blue...Definitely listen to what Mel said...I have been talking to you and you seem like a really neat person...Just had to put my two cents in...I like you just the way ur...hehehehe...
 
Latinababe said:
Came in to say hiya and gr8 pics ya posted :D

Thanks Latina . . . I've seen you on the board and now you've visited my little thread :) I feel so special
 
Blue

It seems the guys have decided to team up on you. Sorry if this is annoying you I really didn't mean it to.

*hugs*
 
I've lurked...

so I guess I'd better post...

Nice pics, you are doing well with the "loosing the stage fright" part. I've chatted on another thread, thought I'd check out the person behind the posts...

TC
 
melligrl said:
You are very welcome.

You have made me feel more welcome and more at home here on the boards then I can say. Whether or not you like you, I think you're wonderful.

Don't make me unleash Blazer on you again ;)

Thank you. I think you're pretty sweet, yourself.

Uh...did you put Blazer up to that PM that I got yesterday? lol
 
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melligrl said:
It seems the guys have decided to team up on you. Sorry if this is annoying you I really didn't mean it to.

*hugs*

Well, I do wish I'd kept my mouth shut. I didn't mean to stir up such a hornet's nest. I do appreciate all the kind words, though...don't get me wrong.

Hmm...Nim gonna send you some hot PMs, huh? Better watch out for him....he's a charmer that one. I've been chatting with him for quite some time and he is such a flirt. He's really sweet, though. Although (are you listening, Nim?) I'm still a bit miffed that he left without a goodbye *sniff, sniff* lol
 
BlueDaisy said:
Thank you. I think you're pretty sweet, yourself.

Uh...did you put Blazer up to that PM that I got yesterday? lol

No I didn't, but he did tell me about it. Just had to throw that in there to tease you :)

Hmm...Nim gonna send you some hot PMs, huh? Better watch out for him....he's a charmer that one.

He better after getting me all curious.

*look of dismay*You mean he'll get more charming? I'm already charmed. Not sure I can hold up under more . . . I might be telling Hastings where to shove things and speeding all the way to SA.

Which reminds me, about how long a drive is it from Ama to SA, if you know? I have been getting Sats off lately soooo maybe just maybe if I could get there and back I could haul my little Daewoo down there.
 
melligrl said:
No I didn't, but he did tell me about it. Just had to throw that in there to tease you :)



He better after getting me all curious.

*look of dismay*You mean he'll get more charming? I'm already charmed. Not sure I can hold up under more . . . I might be telling Hastings where to shove things and speeding all the way to SA.

Which reminds me, about how long a drive is it from Ama to SA, if you know? I have been getting Sats off lately soooo maybe just maybe if I could get there and back I could haul my little Daewoo down there.

Blazer, I'm gonna have to have a chat with you.

Hey Mel! What are you doing up so darn early? Me? I've got kids to get on the bus in 45 minutes (crap...I need to get offline and get busy with them! They are still asleep! lol)

Yeah, Nim will charm your pants off. Well, figuratively speaking, of course :D Who knows...if you get to come here on the 26th, he might charm them off literally! hehehehe (smooches, Nim)

I do hope you can get that Sat. off. We'd love to meet you. Pretty please! If you were a guy, or a gal who leaned "that way" I'd say "pretty please with pu**y juice on top", but since your a straight gal, I'll just say "pretty please"....lol I need more coffee. Gonna go try to wake the critters up. I hate this time of the day! lol
 
BlueDaisy said:
Hey Mel! What are you doing up so darn early? Me? I've got kids to get on the bus in 45 minutes (crap...I need to get offline and get busy with them! They are still asleep! lol)

Yeah, Nim will charm your pants off. Well, figuratively speaking, of course :D Who knows...if you get to come here on the 26th, he might charm them off literally! hehehehe (smooches, Nim)

I do hope you can get that Sat. off. We'd love to meet you. Pretty please! If you were a guy, or a gal who leaned "that way" I'd say "pretty please with pu**y juice on top", but since your a straight gal, I'll just say "pretty please"....lol I need more coffee. Gonna go try to wake the critters up. I hate this time of the day! lol

I'm not up early . . . I haven't been to bed yet. Monday, wednesday, and Friday night I work my second job that pays me more then my first job. I work overnights for the local crisis hotline.

I'll know about saturday on *thinks* tuesday I think, should be when schedules come out. I will do my best :)

As for Nim . . . he just has to remember . . . I'm easy to get along with as long as I get my way.

And I'll keep my mouth shut about any leaning (or possible interest in at least trying to lean) ;)
 
lookn4funruit said:
HEHEHE...Oh I noticed the barefeet....And the view under that skirt was great......Even better though was the message you gave...I wish more people would read your "words of wisdom" because they are so true!...Glad you finally figured it out for yourself and have moved on with your life...You go girl!!!


:D

Melli you took that pic down???? :confused: and here I was on the floor waiting in anticipation :(....

you are doing great with your pics.........and i do hope you get some takers on the photographer role... alasss I live way too far away...
 
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