Penis Size Dilema

[solid_]

Ok, if it matters somewhat, that means that passionate, caring guys have to work even harder than they should to please someone they really care about.

And if they aren't nearly as good as the big 10 incher she had last time, she moans about 'pindick is shit in bed' & all that.

Females can't understand that about it, breasts are useless in sex, so that doesn't matter, so they can't compare or tell how it feels for guys, and then they give them advice & tell them it doesn't matter, not knowing the guy knows & has been told different & he will never believe it

Size is only a issue if you make it one ladies fall in love for what you are not what you have swinging between your legs.

More to life and love then sex.

Ladies that orgasm from penetrative sex alone are in a minority so in regards to that how can size make any differnce. ?

 

[SlickTony]

Ladies that orgasm from penetrative sex alone are in a minority

That's good to know. I used to be able to do it, but I had to be in this one particular female-superior position, and I had to be stoned; and now the stoner period of my life is far behind me. I've got to have my clit stimulated, and since I know exactly what feels good, the stimulation is mostly done by me. I hate to think of finding myself out in the field again--I have this notion, which I hope is irrational, that the world out there is full of women who can achieve no-hands orgasms, and the next guy I fuck is going to think it's weird that my clit needs some direct action. I'd like to think that women who don't need any "help" are no more common than 10" dicks--and really, truly, I'll believe one if I see it.

 

[nike]

Do him a favor...

If you really care for him you are not going to do him any favors by denying him the truth. In the event that things dont work out for you guys, you leave him with the possiblilty of finding it out in a much crueller way, especially if the next woman doesnt have feelings for him. You dont have to directly tell him that he is small to get the point across.

 

[nike]

Re: truth

Tell him the truth in a nice but honest way and move on to creating a great sex life. Fretting over inches is pretty shallow even for humans. You can't build a relationship around a 10 inch dick or D cup breasts. If you want something huge in you, go buy a squash.

Sally

Well put!

 

[nike]

I have to agree

Based on my experience, I can say that if it's exceptionally long, you can't mount the man while sitting straight up, because it pushes at your cervix too much; I'd sooner rub and grind in a sort of elliptical pattern on a wide one.

There was one guy I knew during my college years that was pretty big, he might have been 9" or so; I'm certain that of all of them, he had the biggest one. I'm here to tell you, he not only HAD a big prick, he WAS a big prick, so really while size might matter somewhat, it doesn't matter that much.

My boyfriend is pretty decently sized (between 7 1/2 to 8 1/2 inches) and he doesnt believe me when I tell him that I'm glad he's not any bigger. He's very good at what he does, but I swear if he was any bigger I dont think I'd want to have sex with him very often. I think it would kill me.

Dont get me wrong, deep is great. But a lady has her physical limits...

 

[Wickywoowoo]

Re: I have to agree

My boyfriend is pretty decently sized (between 7 1/2 to 8 1/2 inches) and he doesnt believe me when I tell him that I'm glad he's not any bigger. He's very good at what he does, but I swear if he was any bigger I dont think I'd want to have sex with him very often. I think it would kill me.

Dont get me wrong, deep is great. But a lady has her physical limits...

This is what I mean, "My boyfriend is pretty decently sized (between 7 1/2 to 8 1/2 inches)", pretty decently sized?? What is big in your opinion then??

 

[Wickywoowoo]

[*]all things being equal between men they prefer the guy with the largest cock. (As a lady from lit posted some time back, "that is seldom the case" - that they are equal. So there is hope for the less endowed

Ok then, what happens if a guy is really shy & can't act himself around a person he really likes?? Cause he has a small penis, he has to lose out on someone he REALLY likes.

If what you said is true, women are more shallow than men & if that is the only way I can 'get hope' about meeting someone, I don't want anyone.

If females are like that, no wonder guys turn gay

 

[russell]

It's not the motion of the ocean or the size of the ship it's the ability of the captain to remain in port until all pasengers have gotten off

 

[SlickTony]

Aw, c'mon, Woo! If the Gay Male stories I've read in this place are any indication, they're worse than the women.

 

[Wickywoowoo]

Aw, c'mon, Woo! If the Gay Male stories I've read in this place are any indication, they're worse than the women.

I don't read gay stories. All I would like is a female who doesn't judge people, but that will never happen

 

[SlickTony]

Take my word for it!

 

[SlickTony]

I don't read gay stories.

You'll have to take my word for it then...seems like most of the cocks in Gay Male stories are waaaaay bigger than life.

 

[Wickywoowoo]

I don't read gay stories.

You'll have to take my word for it then...seems like most of the cocks in Gay Male stories are waaaaay bigger than life.

Well, it seems like no one will be interested in me then

 

[SlickTony]

Sometimes there is a difference between what entertains us in fiction and what we're willing to deal with IRL.

 

[solid_]

Ok then, what happens if a guy is really shy & can't act himself around a person he really likes?? Cause he has a small penis, he has to lose out on someone he REALLY likes.

If what you said is true, women are more shallow than men & if that is the only way I can 'get hope' about meeting someone, I don't want anyone.

If females are like that, no wonder guys turn gay

I never heard of a guy being shy round ladies because he has hang ups about penis size, before.

If your shy round ladies I honestly cant see how being hung like a porn star will make you more confident round them.

Do you seriously believe that ladies when chooseing a partner are only going to be intrested in you if you have a huge bulge in the front of your pants.

 

[wellnow]

There is a thread in amateur pics with 1761 posts
and 43,506 views:
"looking for pics of tiny titties, post here"
You don't see a
"looking for pics of tiny cocks" now do you? I doubt that you will.

 

[solid_]

There is a thread in amateur pics with 1761 posts
and 43,506 views:
"looking for pics of tiny titties, post here"
You don't see a
"looking for pics of tiny cocks" now do you? I doubt that you will.

You never see a thread called 'looking for pics of huge cocks' either.

Nobody cares about penis size if you get down to the nitty gritty, well only insecure young guys worry about it.

A cock is a cock be it small, long, thick, fat or thin.

 

[nike]

Re: Re: I have to agree

This is what I mean, "My boyfriend is pretty decently sized (between 7 1/2 to 8 1/2 inches)", pretty decently sized?? What is big in your opinion then??

Well Wickywoowoo
I'm sorry if I offended you. To be honest I was just trying to avoid being the girl who comes on and brags about how big her man is. I think that he is very big. As far as what is adequate or big enough, I think that that is up to the beholder. I'm definitely a big believer in the whole "It isnt the size but the motion" ...

 

[SlickTony]

I would say that 7.5 to 8.5 was fairly big. I don't think my husband has that much length, and lengthwise he is in the upper 30 percentile of the men I have known, which I will admit, is only just enough to count me as experienced.

Just outta curiosity, Woo, what is your overall size--your height, build, etc.? Because if I am meeting a man who is only about 5'6" I am not going to expect him to have a seven- or eight-incher--not unless I am in Greece or Italy, and he is standing in a state of permanent erection in the middle of my garden, i.e., he is a marble representation of Priapus.

 

[Wickywoowoo]

I will answer all the replies in this message:

1. If a guy is small, of course he will by shy about women, cause IF she wants to have sex with him, do you think he is gonna be confident about himself??
2. I think I have seen a thread for big penis, hell, there was a contest for the biggest, that is really nice
3. If you go for the motion, don't you need a decent sized one to feel the motion??
4. I am 6 feet tall, quite large build. Take from that what you will.
5. Size IS in the opinion of the beholder, but if someone doesn't like it (being too big or too small), what gives them the right to go around telling people they both know he was shit. He is NOT shit, he just was not the type of person that person needs.

That is another thing I am on about, woman always think they are right, I just can't one thing going right in my life, if I had a decent size, I would at least feel a tiny bit more confident

 

[fanzee1]

I would say that 7.5 to 8.5 was fairly big. I don't think my husband has that much length, and lengthwise he is in the upper 30 percentile of the men I have known, which I will admit, is only just enough to count me as experienced.

Just outta curiosity, Woo, what is your overall size--your height, build, etc.? Because if I am meeting a man who is only about 5'6" I am not going to expect him to have a seven- or eight-incher--not unless I am in Greece or Italy, and he is standing in a state of permanent erection in the middle of my garden, i.e., he is a marble representation of Priapus.

build and penis size are not related.

 

[Guest]

I will answer all the replies in this message:


3. If you go for the motion, don't you need a decent sized one to feel the motion??

5. Size IS in the opinion of the beholder, but if someone doesn't like it (being too big or too small), what gives them the right to go around telling people they both know he was shit. He is NOT shit, he just was not the type of person that person needs.

3. you have to remember that a womans vagina expands and contracts. There is not a set depth or width that a woman will be dilated to. Contrary to what most people want to believe, most women are able to physically adjust to the mans size. The only reason that i can think of that a woman cant "feel" the man is if she is too wet or he is not hard enough. Other than that she should be able to feel every inch of him because of the natural friction. And if you are worried about your size you can always hold the base of your penis or wear a penis ring to make yourself fully engorged.

5. The 1st amendment gives her the right. But I dont think that it is right. I agree with your last sentence. In most cases the man probably wasnt what the woman was looking for. And I'd be willing to bet that the same woman that is tactless enough to discuss her lovers "inadequate" size with everyone she knows, probably complains about most of her lovers anyway. There are just some women that are never satisfied. But you cant let that bring you down because there are plenty of women (like me) that honestly dont care what size a man is. Now, not minding a smaller sized man doesnt still mean that we wouldnt like it if our man was bigger. Its almost the same as still liking your lovers body, but knowing that you wouldnt complain if their waist was a little smaller or their breasts were just a little bit perkier or if his arms were more muscular. But the point is, if we care about our lovers, we will be willing to work with the equipment that they have. So any woman that would complain about a man's size (or any other assets) is, in my opinion, not worth wasting any one's time on. Just my 2 cents

 

[nike]

grrr

that last post to wickywoo was mine. I'm not sure how I keep logging out before I post

 

[Wickywoowoo]

3. you have to remember that a womans vagina expands and contracts. There is not a set depth or width that a woman will be dilated to. Contrary to what most people want to believe, most women are able to physically adjust to the mans size. The only reason that i can think of that a woman cant "feel" the man is if she is too wet or he is not hard enough. Other than that she should be able to feel every inch of him because of the natural friction. And if you are worried about your size you can always hold the base of your penis or wear a penis ring to make yourself fully engorged.

5. The 1st amendment gives her the right. But I dont think that it is right. I agree with your last sentence. In most cases the man probably wasnt what the woman was looking for. And I'd be willing to bet that the same woman that is tactless enough to discuss her lovers "inadequate" size with everyone she knows, probably complains about most of her lovers anyway. There are just some women that are never satisfied. But you cant let that bring you down because there are plenty of women (like me) that honestly dont care what size a man is. Now, not minding a smaller sized man doesnt still mean that we wouldnt like it if our man was bigger. Its almost the same as still liking your lovers body, but knowing that you wouldnt complain if their waist was a little smaller or their breasts were just a little bit perkier or if his arms were more muscular. But the point is, if we care about our lovers, we will be willing to work with the equipment that they have. So any woman that would complain about a man's size (or any other assets) is, in my opinion, not worth wasting any one's time on. Just my 2 cents

I hope what you say about feeling all guys is right. But, what you said got me thinking about the last bit, you said even if you like your guys thing, that doesn't mean you wouldn't mind if it was bigger. Doesn't that mean you want it bigger then??

If you don't mind if it was bigger, then that means the one you have is not the size you would choose, thus not totally what you want. Size for breast, belly, ass size, anything.

Doesn't that mean that you are just putting up with your lover cause you love them?? You should be totally satisfied with your lover, you shouldn't have to put up with small things not being what you want.

The more I read, the more I believe that love is just a fairy tale, I am not even gonna look for a partner anymore, it isn't worth the hassle & misery of having people always insulting me when I never insult them.

No one is worth years of misery

 

[nike]

I hope what you say about feeling all guys is right. But, what you said got me thinking about the last bit, you said even if you like your guys thing, that doesn't mean you wouldn't mind if it was bigger. Doesn't that mean you want it bigger then??

If you don't mind if it was bigger, then that means the one you have is not the size you would choose, thus not totally what you want. Size for breast, belly, ass size, anything.

Doesn't that mean that you are just putting up with your lover cause you love them?? You should be totally satisfied with your lover, you shouldn't have to put up with small things not being what you want.

The more I read, the more I believe that love is just a fairy tale, I am not even gonna look for a partner anymore, it isn't worth the hassle & misery of having people always insulting me when I never insult them.

No one is worth years of misery

Please dont take this the wrong way, but perhaps you are reading too much into my statement. Or perhaps I tried to hard to make my point. I'll try to give you a good example of what I meant. Let me give you a little info about me...I am a bigger girl, I could stand to lose 40-60 pounds. It doesnt look bad on me (my frame supports it well)but you can tell that I'm meant to be a bit smaller, although from just looking at me, you wouldnt believe me if I told you how much I weigh. My boyfriend of 5 years (and if he sees this thread he is more than welcome to introduce himself and correct me if I'm wrong if he wishes)has seen me at 60 pounds lighter. He knows what he had and could have again (as far as my body goes) but he is still not displeased by me. He doesnt tolerate me or put up with me just because he loves me more than anything. He actually enjoys the way my body looks and is very turned on by it. But I can guarantee you that if I woke up tomorrow 60 pounds lighter, you wouldnt hear a complaint from him. And if I woke up the day after that and I was the same size that I am today, he wouldnt complain either. That is what love does for you, it comes with the territory. What I do for him mentally, spiritually and emotionally are more important to him than what my body looks like. You dont put up with someone, you accept their imperfections as such because you love them and quite frankly who honestly wants to be with someone who is perfect? Most of us would wind up developing an inferiority complex if all of our mates were perfect.

And i agree with you... No one is worth years of misery. If you dont or cant love someone for all that they are, then what kind of relationship is that?