Please help me,i need a Master

[daddysxxxlilxxx]

I'm new here and I'm not sure how all of this works,I'm 18 and submissive and id really like a master.I'm not sure how to go about it at the moment,any feedback is really appreciate....Thankyou

 

[CutieMouse]

I'd suggest slowing down a bit. Life is a journey; not a race.

What does submission look like to you?
Why do you need a Master?
How'd you develop your ideas of BDSM? (pron? erotica? life?)
What do you want to accomplish from D/s?
How many people into kink/BDSM have to talked to, who weren't interested in getting in your pants?

(BTW - there are kinky people, Tops/bottoms, Dominants/submissives, and Masters/slaves... one doesn't need to jump into a particular defined spot on the kinky chess board, right off the bat.)

I'm on my way into work, but I'm sure someone will be along shortly to recommend utilizing Fetlife.com to find a local munch/BDSM group to make friends, etc. Lit is a great resource for information and discussion, as well; welcome to the forums.

 

[bambikiller]

Yep. CutieMouse is right on.
Listen to her I seen many of her posts she knows a thing or two.

18 your a kid, I know you know everything.
But take it from people who have been there and done that.
Buy a vibrator or use your hand to settle your self down.
Hang out here for a while to get to know what you are even asking for before you jump in.
Take your time.
You will find what you want if you take your time.
Rush into things and you may find your self in nothing but a whole lot a trouble.

 

[subwannabe]

I'm not sure this is a legitimate post. Either a troll or a cop trying to lure some unsuspecting idiot. Starts out by saying is 18 then when they start corresponding they confess that they're not really 18 and the next thing you know you have a date with Chris Hansen.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

I'm not sure this is a legitimate post. Either a troll or a cop trying to lure some unsuspecting idiot. Starts out by saying is 18 then when they start corresponding they confess that they're not really 18 and the next thing you know you have a date with Chris Hansen.

I had a date with Chris Hansen. Trust me: he's deliciously hot, bound, with a ball gag.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

And, since your post history shows that you managed to find not only this forum but also the F&S forum, you're probably ... well, maybe, considering your displayed writing skills ... literate enough to find the BDSM Personals forum. Try clicking on "Main Literotica Forums" [sic] at the top of the page, then scroll down that page until you find the area where the Personals fora are, and find the one prefaced with the term "BDSM."

 

[ecstaticsub]

And, since your post history shows that you managed to find not only this forum but also the F&S forum, you're probably ... well, maybe, considering your displayed writing skills ... literate enough to find the BDSM Personals forum. Try clicking on "Main Literotica Forums" [sic] at the top of the page, then scroll down that page until you find the area where the Personals fora are, and find the one prefaced with the term "BDSM."

Please don't send her to the Personals. She needs to stay here, learn a little (or a lot) before being thrown to the cyberwolves.


daddysxxxlilxxx -- Real life is not like 50 Shades of Grey. Don't go signing contracts and letting someone else make all your life decisions for you. At 18 have some fun making your own decisions and your own mistakes.

Find a munch or make some friends here or Fetlife.com and really explore what you want. Try just being a switchy kinkster for a while before turning over your life to a Master of the Universe.

Be safe!

 

[Stella_Omega]

Before anyone can help you, you will have to answer this question: What does a Master do?

 

[daddysxxxlilxxx]

I wanna say thank you to everyone who has replied and offered their feedback,its given me a lot to think about and everyone brought up valid points except for the whole chris hansen thing lol although I wouldn't mind a date with chris hansen haha anyways hopefully ill get to keep discussing these things with some of you seeing as y'all seem more experienced on this subject than I am

 

[Enji]

I wanna say thank you to everyone who has replied and offered their feedback,its given me a lot to think about and everyone brought up valid points except for the whole chris hansen thing lol although I wouldn't mind a date with chris hansen haha anyways hopefully ill get to keep discussing these things with some of you seeing as y'all seem more experienced on this subject than I am

lol just ask things..find about things that interest you...won't know till you ask and try things don't feel forced into doing something usually....you know just follow common sense