pleasing guys...tips, positions, etc

moonoversoho

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hey everyone! i've been going out with my boyfriend, who i really love, for a couple of months now. we have a great sex life, but i'm always looking for new things to do for him. if you have time, let me know what really turns you on - give me tips, positions, just tell me about the most sexy, indulgent experience you've ever had. i want some ideas!

thanks xxx
 
You might peruse the 'Blank Manual' at the top of this forum.
Excellent source!
 
Food foreplay - whip cream, champagne, chocolate syrup, etc. Use your imagination, you'll find more things.

I find nothing more erotic than my girl being shaved. Since she isn't up to the task, maintenance, or ( initial ) discomfort, it is a rare delicacy for me. If you aren't up for complete shaving, how about sculpture ( selective shaving and grooming ) or general grooming ( close trim, but not shaved ). My girl compromises for the latter, keeping things trimmed to less than 1/2 and inch.

Erotic massage - for you or for him, either way you both benefit.

Butt play and anal - I personally like butt play, for me and her, and loving her anally is a treat. She's mixed on it, but indulges me periodically.

How about your foreplay to him? My girl tends to just get to business with me, when I'd rather she take her time tantalizing my nipples and loving my body before she goes after the prize. A lot of guys don't talk about what they like in foreplay for themselves, but for me, it's just as important as the cookie, no different than women, it's all about the pregame show! :p
 
Jenny_Jackson said:
Shaving :p
Every room in the house :p
God I did it at a bus stop once. What a fucking rush :)
You shaved at a bus stop!?! :eek:
 
Two things that definitely do it for me:

1) Anal play - I had an ex who used to love to give long BJ's, and she'd mix in playing with my ass with her tongue. She would lick under my balls and then push my legs up and start rimming me. Occasionally she'd push her tongue inside and it felt amazing! :p

2) Masturbate for him. Get into a confortable position where he can see everything, spread your legs nice and wide, and show him what you do to yourself when he's not there. Make yourself come while he watches, then he can lick you clean.

Sure wish I was your boyfriend!
 
""God I did it at a bus stop once. What a fucking rush ""

... you have no idea what it was like for me though sitting in the fucking BUS waiting to see if you'd get on or GET OFF.

******

There is an ENORMOUS resource in the BLANK MANUAL at the top. If you can't get his toes curled up like a bad cramp doing some of the stuff in there then - he's dead!

Here's a fav.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=98657

If he sez he doesn't like it, tie him up and do it anyway.
 
Porn. Watch (or read) it together. It's fun in itself, plus it should give you some pretty good ideas about what turns him on, and vice versa.
 
as far as positions go, personally, woman on top is amazing...rocking back and forth.... :p
 
Blow him while he's watching "Caddyshack." It will be the best experience of his life. Just don't block his view.....Carney
 
Keep him happy.

Tell you how to keep him happy,
do the dishes keep the house tidy let him watch the football, and no moaning.
Oh your talking sex - no idea.
 
NippleMuncher said:
How about your foreplay to him? My girl tends to just get to business with me, when I'd rather she take her time tantalizing my nipples and loving my body before she goes after the prize. A lot of guys don't talk about what they like in foreplay for themselves, but for me, it's just as important as the cookie, no different than women, it's all about the pregame show! :p

in terms of foreplay, i try and do quite a bit - i kiss him all over in non erogenous places, then kiss/lick his thighs, his nipples, then i touch his cock, or lick it, then finally we start having sex. i've also just invested in a silk blindfold that i'm going to use as part of foreplay. thanks for the help!
 
moonoversoho said:
i've also just invested in a silk blindfold that i'm going to use as part of foreplay. thanks for the help!

No, honey, you shouldn't use a blindfold. You really need to see what you're doing!

Oh, wait, you meant for him ... :eek:

;) ;) :D :D :D
 
My favourite thing to do is cuddle naked while watching TV. Just slowly rub your hands all over his body, especially his inner thighs, and then start to rub your body up against his. It'll get him going, and probably you too ;)
 
really, the more the girl shows me how much she likes it, the more i like it. personally.
 
And again I stumble out from lurking the halls. Hi there, this has happened a few times and all times have been quite stimulating to me.
Message, doing all the good spots, getting your sences heightened. Shaving, letting the lady shave the male, then the male shaving her, then as each other are freshly shaven, they bring each other off to orgasm (maybe try for the G spot on the lady, great for mamoth orgasms for the lady). Then off to the shower for more play, wash each other, stimulate each other, dry each other, touching and fondleing as they go. Then to some mutual oral sex, work each other to closeness, but don't go completely, know his needs as well as he should know when your about to cum. Now for positions, lady on top, great, plenty stimulation for the lady, and the view for the guy, just great. From there, all fours, kitchen counters, table, coffee table, couch, stairs, floor(just watch for rug burns ;) ). Keep em guessing, try things, TALK, let each other know just what's up.

Oh well that's my 2 cents worth, I'll go back to lurking again, just rembember, try things, and above all ENJOY. :)
 
For a unique experience, need to start by gathering the following:

one pound of jalapenos, a hot water bottle, car battery and jumper cables, a Great Dane (male), Teletubbies DVD (first season) ...

yes, I did say unique ...

OK, so I'm just entertaining myself.
 
moonoversoho said:
hey everyone! i've been going out with my boyfriend, who i really love, for a couple of months now. we have a great sex life, but i'm always looking for new things to do for him. if you have time, let me know what really turns you on - give me tips, positions, just tell me about the most sexy, indulgent experience you've ever had. i want some ideas!

thanks xxx
Deep throat him,ask him to take you anally.Remember the way to a mans heart is not through his stomach.It is be a lady in public and a whore in the bedroom.
 
77Cobra said:
Deep throat him,ask him to take you anally.Remember the way to a mans heart is not through his stomach.It is be a lady in public and a whore in the bedroom.


My thoughts exactly. Let him walk around hearing compliments about how sweet , nice and smart you are. All the while knowing he has a dirty little slut with a very open mind.
 
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