Pleasure in Pain.

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Welcome to the thread.

Sometimes the play rape is hard to act out. It's much easier to write into a story (or act out online for those into cyber). I know, for me, when I'm cumming it's hard to say "no, please stop!"

Also, when your partner is/was vanilla (I've noticed) it seems harder on him to take on a more dominant role. Especially if he has to act like he "doesn't care" during it.

Thanks

Yes, the rape is easier to write in a story and I've not cybered a rape scene, phoned one yes, but not cybered one.

He's getting there, its been a long road. He is however researching something for our bedroom, because he told me he was, plus he's also asked what type of bondage I want... ropes, cuffs, restraints. He does not want black leather, he just is very opposed to that. He does enjoy spanking and is easing into the "name calling" during sex. Which believe me for a man that I have only heard say "Fuck" twice in the 13 years we've been married is a big deal! lol

 

[Samael]

Fantasy wise. . . Oh my. . .*sigh* There are several things I fantasize about and online play out too, and over time, he'll probably do them, well the knife play and rape fantasy he won't. But I'll live.

Knife play can be a lot of fun, especially if you trust the person you playing with. I also love to "rape" scenarios and agree that it is much easier to do online and cyberly then in person.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

I will clarify as far as period sex. . .it is NOT oral. . . lol . . . not going there.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Knife play can be a lot of fun, especially if you trust the person you playing with. I also love to "rape" scenarios and agree that it is much easier to do online and cyberly then in person.

Not sure how a cyber rape play would effect me, never did it. I know how phone does.

Knife play fantasies just make me shiver.

 

[Samael]

Have done period sex in the shower, but not oral!!!

 

[SexSweetheart]

period sex helps to get through the bad moments http://www.addis-welt.de/smilie/smilie/comik/superman.gif http://www.addis-welt.de/smilie/smilie/comik/animermaid.gif

 

[LustfulOne50]

period sex helps to get through the bad moments http://www.addis-welt.de/smilie/smilie/comik/superman.gif http://www.addis-welt.de/smilie/smilie/comik/animermaid.gif

I find sex anytime gets me through any moment

 

[BedtimeStories77]

I find sex anytime gets me through any moment

 

[SexSweetheart]

Happy Halloween

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[Samael]

Happy All Saint's Day.


Wishing a belated Happy Anniversary to Eve.... hope you had a nice time and got laid too!

 

[BedtimeStories77]

Thank you very much, Dunchad.

 

[LustfulOne50]

Thank goodness those leaves covering eve..Hallowed Eve.. are not poison ivy, for it would give Adam some sure pain with his pleasure.

 

[Samael]

Thank you very much, Dunchad.

Your very welcome, did you have a good anniversary?

 

[BedtimeStories77]

Thank goodness those leaves covering eve..Hallowed Eve.. are not poison ivy, for it would give Adam some sure pain with his pleasure.

That it would.

 

[BedtimeStories77]

Your very welcome, did you have a good anniversary?

Yes, it was nice. Hubby surprised me.

 

[SexSweetheart]

Thank goodness those leaves covering eve..Hallowed Eve.. are not poison ivy, for it would give Adam some sure pain with his pleasure.

Hallowed Eve I agree with Lusty http://bestsmileys.com/drinking/22.gif

 

[Yang4yin]

Thank goodness those leaves covering eve..Hallowed Eve.. are not poison ivy, for it would give Adam some sure pain with his pleasure.

Sandpaper wouldn't feel so great, either.
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[BedtimeStories77]

Yeah... Sandpaper would fall under the bad pain category.

 

[SexSweetheart]

Yeah... Sandpaper would fall under the bad pain category.

that sounds very painful
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[littleone77]

*Small blush* I have tried sandpaper and enjoyed it alot. (I am female btw)There was just something about the incessant rubbing and rough scrapping which drove me insane. I actually keep some just for that purpose.

 

[Samael]

*Small blush* I have tried sandpaper and enjoyed it alot. (I am female btw)There was just something about the incessant rubbing and rough scrapping which drove me insane. I actually keep some just for that purpose.

I am curious to know exactly where you use the sandpaper?

 

[BedtimeStories77]

Ditto. And what grade used?

 

[football_stud]

i have never had really any sexual contact with the opposite sex but i am interested in recieving and giving

 

[BedtimeStories77]

Well, if you're an anal virgin it can be painful...but, the male G-spot is located in the rectum. Not to mention, there are many nerve endings in that canal. If you have a parter that goes slow and takes his/her time opening you up anal can be a lot of fun!

 

[football_stud]

Well, if you're an anal virgin it can be painful...but, the male G-spot is located in the rectum. Not to mention, there are many nerve endings in that canal. If you have a parter that goes slow and takes his/her time opening you up anal can be a lot of fun!

well it would only be a girl