pregnancy fetish??

[RedSoreBottom]

Is there such a thing? I met a guy who wants to have sex bareback, and he wants to come in me. He's also hinted around about what would I do if I were pregnant, and just other things that make me think that is a huge turn on for him. Plus when we were making out, he was whispering nasty things into my ear, "I want to do this, etc. etc. etc. and I want to cum in you and impregnate you". I've never even heard of such a thing. This guy is not some loser either, drives a great car, has a nice job, and I don't know I guess I'm confused. He's in hs mid thirties and already has two kids. Can someone who is familiar with this explain it to me? Is it roleplaying? Is he for real? What's such a turn on about it? I asked him two questions about it "are you turned on by pregnant women" or "do you want more kids" and he said I was reading into it wrong or something. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

 

[Lynxie]

Yes, there is such a thing as a pregnancy fetish. A lot of men are turned on by the power they have to create life within a woman. Some men don't want to be the impregnator, but are still incredibly attracted to pregnant women. As with any fetish, there are variances and twists to it.

Your guy may or may not be serious about it. You need to have a serious discussion with him (when you're not having sex) about the issue. Think about how you feel towards his fantasy, and honestly tell him. Are you comfortable with the things he says to you? Would you be willing to roleplay with him? What if he wants to turn this fantasy into a reality? Are you using birth control? Would you want children with this man? Think it through and then have a talk with him.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

I've never understood this little fetish myself. I know it's out there and have known a number of men who really get excited about a pregnant woman's body, but it's never been anything that I can fathom.

Artistically, I love the pregnant female form. Sexually, there's nothing good there for me.

Just make sure you think it through carefully with this guy. Him having a few months worth of pleasures with your pregnant body isn't worth the 18 years of bringing up a child that will follow.

 

[SweetErika]

Yes, there is such a thing as a pregnancy fetish. A lot of men are turned on by the power they have to create life within a woman. Some men don't want to be the impregnator, but are still incredibly attracted to pregnant women. As with any fetish, there are variances and twists to it.

Your guy may or may not be serious about it. You need to have a serious discussion with him (when you're not having sex) about the issue. Think about how you feel towards his fantasy, and honestly tell him. Are you comfortable with the things he says to you? Would you be willing to roleplay with him? What if he wants to turn this fantasy into a reality? Are you using birth control? Would you want children with this man? Think it through and then have a talk with him.

I was thinking it's a power thing as well, but I couldn't have said it better than Lynxie! Apart from birth control, make sure you both are tested for STDs and follow your doctor's advice in regards to using condoms if there's a lag time in testing... no fantasy is worth your health.

 

[RedSoreBottom]

Thanks ladies I really appreciate your help. Yes I've totally given thought about if this is for real what does it mean? Getting tested for STD's, pregnancy, being stuck with a kid for 18 years. But really I was still trying wrap my head around the concept, because I was totally baffled!

I was really turned on when he was talking to me about that but that doesn't mean too much because I am really turned on by lots. I'm easy.

 

[JennyRocks]

Oscuridad created a great thread that celebrates the pregnant form. Here's the link.

Belly

 

[Bobmi357]

Few men are capable of looking at a woman they love and seeing her pregnant form and not be moved. Its not so much power as it is wonder. That here's a woman that has agreed to be mother of my children.

I don't think its a power trip.

Having said that, I'm a little concerned because this guy is talking about getting you pregnant without any of the usual agreements for commitments before hand? Sex is a wonderful thing, and sex between two lovers for the express purpose of creating a child is truly special. But what happens after that child is born is equally important. Its too much of a life altering decision to make on the basis of some guys fetish.

 

[RedSoreBottom]

Few men are capable of looking at a woman they love and seeing her pregnant form and not be moved. Its not so much power as it is wonder. That here's a woman that has agreed to be mother of my children.

I don't think its a power trip.

Having said that, I'm a little concerned because this guy is talking about getting you pregnant without any of the usual agreements for commitments before hand? Sex is a wonderful thing, and sex between two lovers for the express purpose of creating a child is truly special. But what happens after that child is born is equally important. Its too much of a life altering decision to make on the basis of some guys fetish.

Agreed. I am turned on by the idea of it, but I am not stupid enough to carry through with this plan of his, assuming it is a plan. I am mainly just trying to figure it out, and yes I do need to talk to him more. It's just all new to me.