BlackShanglan
Silver-Tongued Papist
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Personally, I would like to see more emphasis on making adult education available and encouraged. Many kids are too young to realize what they are losing when they drop out of high school - and that's not surprising. How many of us made our best and most informed choices when we were 16? As Colleen points out, it's nearly impossible to force people to stay in school, and fruitless as well. If they aren't interested in learning, forcing them to flunk a couple of years of high school while they seethe with resentment isn't likely to help. I'd rather see a system that is more flexible and more open to giving people the chance to learn when they are ready for it - that is, one in which people who have had a few years behind the counter in the food service industry can get themselves back on track and into a better life.
I recall that when one of my siblings was grumbling about whether to go to college or not, my parents had the perfect and most simple solution. It was quite acceptable not to go to college, so long as one didn't mind moving out, finding a job that required only a high school education, and paying rent and making a living that way. If one later decided that that didn't seem like a good idea, parental support in attending college was always available. As it happened, my sibling learned enough about the sorts of jobs available during high school to realize that they did not present an attractive view, but perhaps for some it's necessary to try it - and perhaps for some high school would-be drop-outs as well, the best cure might be a dose of reality. So long as there is education to return to, perhaps we could do worse than to let them go.
Shanglan
I recall that when one of my siblings was grumbling about whether to go to college or not, my parents had the perfect and most simple solution. It was quite acceptable not to go to college, so long as one didn't mind moving out, finding a job that required only a high school education, and paying rent and making a living that way. If one later decided that that didn't seem like a good idea, parental support in attending college was always available. As it happened, my sibling learned enough about the sorts of jobs available during high school to realize that they did not present an attractive view, but perhaps for some it's necessary to try it - and perhaps for some high school would-be drop-outs as well, the best cure might be a dose of reality. So long as there is education to return to, perhaps we could do worse than to let them go.
Shanglan