hotandhorneyy
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What are the pros and cons of a mff threesome.
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Eilan
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You might want to provide more info. Are you male or female? Are you part of a couple, the third party, or a guy looking for two women to join him?
I should think that the pros and cons of a MFF would vary depending on the people involved and the specific scenario.
I should think that the pros and cons of a MFF would vary depending on the people involved and the specific scenario.
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Speaking strictly as a married man, I see no downside. But I've been told by my wife that if I ever bring it up again she's going to kick me in the junk. Apparently I've over-played my hand in this topic so it will have to stay in fantasyland.
Sorry I have no practical advice to offer.
Sorry I have no practical advice to offer.
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Eilan brings up a good point: which part of the mff are you? What one participant considers an issue may be meaningless to another participant.
That being said, here are three general issues:
1. Finding a willing single bi-female is harder than one would think. Porn videos and erotic literature makes it seem as though they are crawling out of the woodwork and ready to pounce on an unsuspecting couple as soon as they come within range. Such is not the case. They are out there, but there is a lot of competition for their attention. It is a seller's market, and they have a monopoly on the goods.
2. If the committed female has any insecurity issues whatsoever, they will come to the forefront when another female is introduced into the mix. It is inevitable.
3. Unless the male is under 30 or in peak physical shape, he probably will not be able to satisfy two healthy, horny women. Sure, most men can come more than one time in a prolonged session, but they need down time in between bouts, and the down time increases with the number of ejaculations. This means the women are going to have to be willing to spend a lot of time satisfying each other while the male recovers. Sure, he can lick and finger and whatever during the down periods, but his enthusiasm is going to wane as the session progresses and his down time increases. What you are going to end up with is one very worn out male, and two females who could probably keep going long after he is asleep.
That being said, here are three general issues:
1. Finding a willing single bi-female is harder than one would think. Porn videos and erotic literature makes it seem as though they are crawling out of the woodwork and ready to pounce on an unsuspecting couple as soon as they come within range. Such is not the case. They are out there, but there is a lot of competition for their attention. It is a seller's market, and they have a monopoly on the goods.
2. If the committed female has any insecurity issues whatsoever, they will come to the forefront when another female is introduced into the mix. It is inevitable.
3. Unless the male is under 30 or in peak physical shape, he probably will not be able to satisfy two healthy, horny women. Sure, most men can come more than one time in a prolonged session, but they need down time in between bouts, and the down time increases with the number of ejaculations. This means the women are going to have to be willing to spend a lot of time satisfying each other while the male recovers. Sure, he can lick and finger and whatever during the down periods, but his enthusiasm is going to wane as the session progresses and his down time increases. What you are going to end up with is one very worn out male, and two females who could probably keep going long after he is asleep.
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My advice is to never, ever have one girl teach the other how to give better head. Or really, any sort of sex pointers on how to improve. That will never go over well.
Miles Long
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Pros: Twice as many TITTIES!
Cons: Twice as many crazy bitches.
Cons: Twice as many crazy bitches.
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Keep in mind if the two girls are close with each other, it might be better to let the girls settle the drama on their own. At least in my experience, it always worked out better when the other girl and I talked the tension through.
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hapigirl
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You are charming.
I like mff because I get to play with cock, balls, titties and pussy!
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Sounds like you haven't read any of the threads on here about this topic...
Miles Long
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You are charming.
I like mff because I get to play with cock, balls, titties and pussy!
Ain't I just?
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I will try to answer this question from the various perspectives regarding the pros and cons of a mff threesome:
Male:
Pros:
Con:
Primary Female (The one that is married or in a committed relationship with the male)
Pro:
Cons:
The Couple (Male & Primary Female)
Pros:
Cons:
Secondary Female (Invited female to the threesome)
Pros:
Cons:
Male:
Pros:
- Having two females
- Ability to make his partner happy
Con:
- Knowing how to split your attention
- Not forgetting about your partner
- Adhering to agreed boundaries
- Not becoming emotionally involved with the invited woman
- Being able to control feelings of jealousy and anger
- Pregnancy
- STDs
Primary Female (The one that is married or in a committed relationship with the male)
Pro:
- Ability to be with another woman
- Chance to make her partner happy
Cons:
- Controlling feelings of jealousy or anger
- Being able to communicate boundaries
- Not becoming emotionally involved with the invited female
- STDs such as herpes
The Couple (Male & Primary Female)
Pros:
- If done successfully, it can be a relationship enhancing experience
- If done successfully, it can bring the couple close together.
Cons:
- The amount of time needed to search for a woman to join you
- The amount of time needed before the invited woman to join the two of you
- Boundaries may not be clear and may be potentially violated
- Issues of pregnancy and STDs
- Threesome can destroy the relationship
Secondary Female (Invited female to the threesome)
Pros:
- Threesome with a couple means no strings attached and no need for a one-on-one relationship
- Attention from a couple
- Being "courted" by a couple
- A sense of power and being desired
Cons:
- Becoming emotionally attached to the couple
- If the arrangement is ongoing, having a part of your identity tied to the threesome
- Pregnancy
- STDs
SweetErika
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That's a really clear, fantastic post, Room!
Would you mind re-posting it in our FAQs sticky and asking Quoll to create an index link for it? I'm sure it's something people would find useful and some of us would appreciate pointing people to or quoting instead of repeating the info in a less succinct way.
Would you mind re-posting it in our FAQs sticky and asking Quoll to create an index link for it? I'm sure it's something people would find useful and some of us would appreciate pointing people to or quoting instead of repeating the info in a less succinct way.
Mff
Okay, here is my take on it. I am a guy.
I would say that this is one of "our" dreams - having two girls.
There is a reason why I say a dream, at least from my prospective. Your chances are slim, and if your dream comes true, the drama will start.
Talking about drama I mean that most ladies are getting emotionally attached, just how they "work." But also for us guys, watch out, that it just is sex, and no emotions are involved.
MFF - I know two guys who have had the chance to experience this, but in the end there was drama!
Me and my wife, we are very open minded. We never had a MFF, because of the fact that there is no girl clicking with us. We had MFMF and it worked just fine, no drama, set rules. everybody had fun.
MFM, yes, we've done this, too. BUT, it never worked out on the long run. One time, a guy joined and later on came drama from his girl, and the other guy couldn't handle it, that my lady didn't show emotions for him... .
So, Threesomes: Emotions are an issue.
The way to go are secure couples, so the ladies can play if they like, we guys can get heated up by watching them, and last but not least everybody can have some good fun and a great time.
Just to put it out, the best MFMF (actually it was more a MFFM) was when the two couples of us did their own thing, but the girls had some fun. We all had a great time and enjoyed it!
Well, this is my take on this.
Okay, here is my take on it. I am a guy.
I would say that this is one of "our" dreams - having two girls.
There is a reason why I say a dream, at least from my prospective. Your chances are slim, and if your dream comes true, the drama will start.
Talking about drama I mean that most ladies are getting emotionally attached, just how they "work." But also for us guys, watch out, that it just is sex, and no emotions are involved.
MFF - I know two guys who have had the chance to experience this, but in the end there was drama!
Me and my wife, we are very open minded. We never had a MFF, because of the fact that there is no girl clicking with us. We had MFMF and it worked just fine, no drama, set rules. everybody had fun.
MFM, yes, we've done this, too. BUT, it never worked out on the long run. One time, a guy joined and later on came drama from his girl, and the other guy couldn't handle it, that my lady didn't show emotions for him... .
So, Threesomes: Emotions are an issue.
The way to go are secure couples, so the ladies can play if they like, we guys can get heated up by watching them, and last but not least everybody can have some good fun and a great time.
Just to put it out, the best MFMF (actually it was more a MFFM) was when the two couples of us did their own thing, but the girls had some fun. We all had a great time and enjoyed it!
Well, this is my take on this.
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