Pussy slapping/spanking

Genuine question, I never really understood pussy spanking. Maybe it's how it has been done to me, but I get giggly and think it's funny, it's never been a turn on for me. Ass spanking I get, I like it when I have a big red print on my ass, and there a nice big surface to give you that spank. But how hard do you get spanked on your kitty cat? Because when I've had a pussy spank, it's like these little love taps. I'm not sure I'd want it harder, but I just don't get it. I'd love to hear why from a female perspective, I'm not wanting to yuck a yum, just to understand and maybe I've been doing it wrong.
I am not sure. But you should come over and we can experiment until you pass out from orgasms and my balls are dry!
 
Genuine question - how hard do you spank? is there a technique? I'm trying to understand because I just never have gotten into it, but wondering if I am missing out. Is it a full hand spank? is it like a slap? or a tapping hard on my clit area?
I honestly think its more enjoyable if you have a partner to do it than you on yourself
 
Genuine question - how hard do you spank? is there a technique? I'm trying to understand because I just never have gotten into it, but wondering if I am missing out. Is it a full hand spank? is it like a slap? or a tapping hard on my clit area?
Huh i never thought it through too much… I’d say a light slap with my whole hand. Just enough to sting a bit. No specific focus on the clit, just that whole area. It’s like playing drums, gotta snap your wrist lol.

FWIW she’s not super into pain either, just likes some light spanking, especially there.
 
No I do, but whenever my husband does it I giggle and think it's funny. So I'm always like wtf are we doing this wrong? I'm just trying to understand lol

Don't laugh, but whenever he does it, I think of Adam Sandler in Happy Gilmore, "tappy, tappy, tappy" if you know you know!
Its ok. Everytime my wife sucks on my balls i start giggling and laughing. It really tickles. I feel really bad because I know thats not what she wants to hear
 
We have experienced some really bad reproductive trauma. I never understood why he had a hard time, but he told me a few years ago and I get it. The idea of eating my pussy takes him back in trauma moments. Sometimes I miss a wet face there, we'll get there one day! He has a beard and I used to love when he'd go to town and he'd come up sopping wet and his beard drenched in me.

Also it's totally funny, I was on all fours and he was eating me out and smashed into his face pretty hard. EEEK!
Mmm, I have a beard. I would happily have it glistening and dripping as I eat you out to orgasm. I get so turned on licking and eating pussy
 
My wife and I discovered this on the way home from a very romantic date night. It was dark out and the trip was about an hour long on country roads. She was wearing a low cut blouse that showed lots of cleavage, so I started by playing with her breasts while I drove, sticking my hand into her shirt and exposing both of her tits. My hand worked it's way down to her pants and I began to rub her pussy through her pants at first. I unbuttoned her pants and slid my hand into her panties and started playing with her pussy. I told her to slide down her pants so I could reach better, but instead she took all of her clothes off. So, there she was sitting completely naked, legs spread apart while I played with her tits and pussy. At that point, for some reason I gave her pussy a sharp slap. The cry and whimper from her was something I had never heard before. Her moans as I rubbed her pussy were suddenly louder, so I slapped again and again she let out the same wonderful cry and whimper. I asked her if she liked that and she moaned, "God, yes.". I was so aroused that I pulled the car off to a side street and parked. I proceeded to play with and slap her pussy until she had the most intense orgasm. She repaid the favor by giving me an incredible blowjob and swallowing, something she has only done about 10 times in our marriage.
 
Like for titty spanking or flogging, I like it right on my nipples.
How frequently do you let your partners do that? Briefly or until marks appear?

I've recently (seriously, it just--for want of a better expression--"turned on" for me) begun enjoying watching porn shorts of it, hoping to find a private club or group where it goes on. For me, it's all about the watching (not doing) the girl's face throughout.
 
How frequently do you let your partners do that? Briefly or until marks appear?

I've recently (seriously, it just--for want of a better expression--"turned on" for me) begun enjoying watching porn shorts of it, hoping to find a private club or group where it goes on. For me, it's all about the watching (not doing) the girl's face throughout.
Well, you can't do it every night lol. Although i do enjoy a man slapping or "spanking" my breasts whenever I have sex.

If using a "punishment" device on my boobs and nipples, I think the key is, it has to be playful. There are toys you can get in sex shops that sting nicely without doing any real harm.

I wouldn't want to be whipped or caned for real. For me, it's mild to moderate pain that will make my boobs and nipples come alive in ecstasy, not extreme pain. And the idea is to get turned on for wilder sex, so i don't want to do it for too long.
 
Yes or no? I personally love it when my legs are “forced” open and my pussy is spanked over and over with a whip or some hands. It gets me insanely wet. Bonus points if you can get me to cum just from spanking my pussy.
Get over here so I can get started
 
Well, you can't do it every night lol. Although i do enjoy a man slapping or "spanking" my breasts whenever I have sex.

If using a "punishment" device on my boobs and nipples, I think the key is, it has to be playful. There are toys you can get in sex shops that sting nicely without doing any real harm.

I wouldn't want to be whipped or caned for real. For me, it's mild to moderate pain that will make my boobs and nipples come alive in ecstasy, not extreme pain. And the idea is to get turned on for wilder sex, so i don't want to do it for too long.
I would love to let you enjoy some spanking whilst we go through a LONG and HARD workout
 
Never spanked a pussy with my hand, but do love slapping my cock hard on a willing ladies clit and pussy, prior to rubbing my cock head up and down and sliding inside
I enjoy this also hehe. I have found I like my pussy and clit tapped with fingers. And the cock hehe. Not hard spanking or hitting. But a firm tapping when I am aroused is more arousing.
 
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