Question for the guys

[bailadora]

Third, there is no age limit (well, okay, a legal one at the bottom end). Wendy Malick is in her fifties and still hot. Likewise Renee Russo, Jane Seymour and others. Hell, Halle Berry is 40, and she's just hitting her stride. And who could forget 60 year old Cher? Very attractive lady (but NOT sexy...see above).

Jaime - rarely have I seen a man express this sentiment. My perception was that all the men wanted the sweet, young thangs. As a (ahem) more mature lady - this made my heart go pitty pat - .

 

[JamieB]

My perception was that all the men wanted the sweet, young thangs. As a (ahem) more mature lady - this made my heart go pitty pat - .

Not me. I could say something cheesy about wine right now, but the simple truth is sexiness is something you learn. Sexy eighteen year olds, TRULY sexy, not merely attractive (which again is different from sexy), are in short supply. Sexy fifty year olds are a lot easier to find.

Hell, look at Madonna now versus in 1984. Back then she was like a little girl playing dress-up and making kissy-faces. Now she's sex on a cracker.

J

 

[Hanon435]

i like fit, healthy, not overweight, not skinny, a few extra pounds is ok and that's healthy. too much muscle is kind of guylike and a little gross, too much like a man or machine and not very feminine in my opinion.

it's not like i decided that. that's just what i like. there is room for a wittle belly.

it's not like you can really control that. it's just body type. someone who worries about body weight and everything they eat isn't attractive either. or the women who are in fine shape but starve themselves. that's not attractive either. healthy, fit, and then have the right genes.

guess i'm attracted to nice genes too then.

 

[Texguy84]

I've said it before, but my tastes at least can vary wildly from one moment to the next. The only surefire way to describe it is that I prefer the kind of woman I am interested at any given moment. At this moment, sad to say, is I want a slim, athletic girl with a spunky attitude and a drawl (a girl who drawls when she cusses is just unbelievably cute). Mostly cause this happens to be the girl I'm currently interested in.

At various other times I'd say "Short redhead", "curvey curley-haired brunette" and "well curved slim church-going brunette", all in the last few months.

 

[bailadora]

I could say something cheesy about wine right now, but the simple truth is sexiness is something you learn.

- S'OK- I happen to love wine....

Hell, look at Madonna now versus in 1984. Back then she was like a little girl playing dress-up and making kissy-faces.

Ha - so was I! But I get your drift.

 

[Colton_White]

I don't have any physical preference for the lady

as long as she loves and cares for me.

 

[deaflepperd]

I don't have a body type as much as I have a personality type. A lady that's funny, kind, sweet, and does not walk all over me is beautiful in my eyes. Body type is superficial. If you think you are beautiful, chances are...you are.

 

[deaflepperd]

Jaime - rarely have I seen a man express this sentiment. My perception was that all the men wanted the sweet, young thangs. As a (ahem) more mature lady - this made my heart go pitty pat - .

Being that I am 44 years myself, its a little unrealistic to think I'd snag a 21 year old hottie.
I have found that older ladies are more mature, and more "experienced", shall we say. I agree with Jaime completely.

The young ones look out for number one. The mature ones look out for number 2. That would be me. And that didn't come out right.

 

[lltking]

Q for guys

I like my girls to be shapely and fit. Let's just say athletic built. Even though thick is always a plus as long as see is thick in all the right places and not over weight.

 

[darkknight2007]

I guess ideally I like girls to have some curves. My last girlfriend was petite but had a full ass that I found really hot. I think there is such a thing as too skinny, but I also am not attracted to very large girls. So I suppose you could say I would be into the average sized girl.

 

[structure]

I strongly prefer woman with curves. I want something to hold onto, there is just something about the feel of a full breast or her ass cheek in my hand. I am not into the ultra thin, super model, Kate Moss type.

 

[N_B]

Healthy. That's hard to pin down in words, but a good size for your natural build is good. Some people have thicker body types with larger hips and rib cage structure, and they hold it well. Some women naturally have a slim build. I dated a girl who was 5'10" and 120 lbs. She did not skip meals, or anything dumb to attain that, it was just what nature made her. And she looked good. I also have dated a girl who was 5'00" and 130 lbs. Again, it's what nature decided her to be.

Now, it should be noted though, that that's not an excuse to either become anorexic, or dive into the twinkies. You should always try to stay healthy, and keep yourself up. Not only for your significant other, but for you own health and well being to boot. And that goes for women -and men...

 

[phantom_goddess]

well this was pretty informative!

 

[Schwenker]

It's about sex appeal

For me it's not about age or looks, it's about how a Woman carries herself and how she makes me feel about myself.
That being said, most of my past Lovers have been on the chubby side and weighed between 140lbs and 200lbs and between the heights of 5'2 to 5'8.
What always mattered most to me was how they carried themselves, and that would be with undeniable confidence.
Maybe it's because I'm a Husky male that they reacted to me the way they did in the bedroom (always comfortable with their body) but it was always their reactions towards me that made me feel good about myself that mattered to me the most.
Being an "average" male that was made to feel like a God was always tops on my book!

Now I'm married and it's always same'ol same'ol.....SIGH!

 

[Dreamliner]

My ideal woman:

It is all dependent on the person herself. Does she walk with confidence, does she carry her "look" off well. Each is different yet all have the ability to be "the one". I have partnered many different types of woman, both in body size/shape and demeanour. All with different types of jobs and positions.

So for me there is no one type or better 'asset'. I do appreciate a nice looking woman, as woman enjoy a handsome man.

Younger v older. Not too interesteed in the "younger" set perse as it tends to be all about Older more mature women are more relaxed with their sexuality and more open to exploring, and I have found this relaxed attitude hs them having more orgasms.

My thoughts.

 

[soxel]

i'm 18, from since i was little, to the age that i am now, i was, and still am encouraged to be with a skinny girl by todays society.

though i would not mind if she was not perfectly skinny, but close enough would do, tbh.

 

[BlueTriton]

I was wondering how do you guys like you girls body chubby, skinny, or what?

yes

 

[BlueTriton]

I know what you mean girl. I'm a chubby girls too. I'm not fat but I'm not skinny either. I'm glad not all guys like the skinny girls. Plus I like what I look like. And if a guy has a problem with it he can kiss my ass.

Charlsie

umm, i have a poblem with it then






which cheek should i start with?

 

[BlueTriton]

Well, I am a woman with some curves. Some guys say it doesn't matter what kind of body a woman has, but let's get real here.

If a man has a chance to choose, believe me, he will choose the "trophy girlfriend or wife". Why? Because he can. Sad but true

that is NOT always true

some guys would, but for many of us, the attitude that comes with the trophy just isnt worth it!!!!!!!

 

[SirLicksAalot]

gdag

that is NOT always true

some guys would, but for many of us, the attitude that comes with the trophy just isnt worth it!!!!!!!

Doesn't that go both ways?
It's a status simble - like a good car - it strokes the ego.





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[SirLicksAalot]

Doesn't that go both ways?
It's a status simble - like a good car - it strokes the ego.





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But after a while . . . bye bye.




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[carlisme]

I love petite women. Not the boyish, starved model types, but dynamite in a small package! Not really a breast man; nice hips and ass are wonderful though. The lady I am with is exactly what I am looking for!

 

[Nelicquele]

My best sexual experience yet was with a girl about 5'4, 90 or 95 pounds, with very little muscle mass. I'm not very muscular myself and am 5'9 130 so it was nice to be able to easily overpower her. Also, I'm not sure what the other guys in this thread are discussing about skinny girls and cunnilungus - I've found that skinnier girls taste better and are easier to perform on.

 

[slarsit]

Horniness

Basically it all boils down to just how horny, sexual, sensual, a woman is. It is what goes on inside them that makes them great to have sex with. Finding truly horny women who love sex, love to satisfy and be satisfied are not that easy to find. It seems many of them have found their way to these boards, but in the outside world to find women who are truly satisfied with their sexuality, and can enjoy all aspects their sexuality and the sexuality of others are rare.
In my long life time of having been fortunate enough to have know some wonderful women, the best of all of them was a very unattractive art teacher in a building in which I taught. No one could figure out why she always seemed to act so confident. From her perspective it was because she knew, in her words, she was the best fuck any man will ever have and she knew all their uppity wives could never compete with her. Thirty years later, she is still right.
I have found with many women, they will have sex with you because you want them to, but if you create a safe environment and take your time, and consider their feelings and pace, they will discover parts of themselves they never knew existed. Damn, I'm getting turned on just thinking about it.

 

[IsabellaKing]

Nice post, Slarsit

My husband said he would still be attracted to me - even if I was as ugly as sin. I thought it was a lovely compliment...and the 'even if' managed to feed my vanity