Rape fantasy for guys?

[Subs2men]

Would he fuck you?

He would, and he was pretty rough, too.

 

[saintcero]

He would, and he was pretty rough, too.

Pretty rough can be absolutely delicious. I hope that’s how it was for you.

 

[EdgySubMic]

I engage in lot's of consent/non consent play, where a man has my permission to do whatever he wants with me, and I can't say no. Well, I could, but I don't. I've acted out kidnap fantasies, been "sold" or kept captive, and done prison bitch role-play. I love feeling "forced."

Similar for me. I want not to be able to say no (and yes, of course I always can, but I’d prefer not to).

Some months ago, my owner gave me permission to spend several days, including my birthday, in a torture prison. We knew up front that the experience was very unlikely to include sexual activity, but that it was not excluded. Up front, we made sure to describe my (his) desires and my (his) limits such that anything not explicitly vetoed was allowed, and that I/we requested nothing specific to happen, other than that I’d be kept 100% naked and afraid all the time, be humiliated and tortured, and maybe that there might be some sort of special surprise for my birthday.

During the weeks and months leading up to the session, my owner devilishly did his very best to scare me with all sorts of things that might happen. On my own side, I fantasized at lot about those and other things, with rape being one of them.

I’ve never liked the idea of anal. In fact, it has been on my “never ever” list for tens of years as unhygienic and likely very painful. But now I found myself hoping to be raped anally by strangers as a birthday present.

My fantasy went like this: I’d be locked in irons in my prison cell, being regularly whipped or caned during interrogations about something I did not know anything about. On my birthday, I’m once more brought from my cell to the torture room, expecting more of the same. Instead, my leg irons are removed such that I can spread them farther apart – which I don’t on my own. I’m then violently forced to bend over a desk or table. One guy holds my hands down (still in irons), while another stands behind me. The latter suddenly forces my legs apart, grabs my junk, pulls it back, squeezes it hard, and threatens to do more nasty things to it if I don’t cooperate. Which I can’t. After a while he lets go and says “I’ll get something out of you alright, birthday boy.” I hear a zipper zipp and pants being pushed around. I'm scared. He then grabs my neck with one hand, pushes me further down with force, suddenly violently pushes his dick inside me, and goes at it until he cums. It hurts like hell, and I do what I can to resist, but to no avail. Next, he and his partner swap places and I get raped again. Finally, I’m dragged back to my cell, again put in full irons, and left there in the dark to reflect on what happened and consider my future options. Their combined cum slowly leaks out of me for a long time, which is utterly humiliating. I love it.

Not surprisingly, this specific fantasy did not become reality. Sadly. But there were a few moments during the session when, based on what my mind made of what I could hear in preparation for coming events, I expected that it might. I loved that too…

 

[stargame]

I like being slapped around, too. My first master left me alone with his neighbor that we played with a few times and he was very aggressive when he had me to himself. He was bigger and he liked overpowering me. He would order me to resist him, but there was nothing I could do. He was much bigger and stronger than I was and he always got whatever he wanted. Good times, but trying to fight him off always left me sore for days.

Nice, my boyfriend would wrestle me and certainly overpower me as the seduce me. I admit I would be so aroused, specially seeing how hard he was, and knowing I was about to expect his hardness inside every way.

 

[Subs2men]

Pretty rough can be absolutely delicious. I hope that’s how it was for you.

It definitely was. He could toss me around like a ragdoll and put me where he wanted, resisting or not. The complete lack of control was almost overwhelming, especially at first, but I got everything I asked for and more.

 

[Travisspank]

I still have rape/reluctance fantasies. Love it when a top takes me aggressively and physically dominates me

 

[saintcero]

experienced that in RL when I was a kid..It was no fantasy, it was a horrific nightmare

Sorry that it happened to you. Hope you were able to heal and move on.

 

[saintcero]

It was a life altering experience....Even though I try to suppress it, it affects the way I look at life in many ways.

I don’t know the right words to say. I wish it had not happened to you and I hope you can heal.

 

[rogerd200]

Scenarios involving coercion, non-consent, pushed beyond boundaries are intoxicating, a huge turn on. I have a large swath of fantasies centered around those themes and experienced actual encounters that have become some of the most exciting things I've ever done (or had done to me). I love it when a man decides to use me for his pleasure.

Recently I came across a very large guy in a wooded area known for cruising. We both knew why we were there so soon our cocks came out and we had a nice little stroke session. Then he started to get a little rougher, one hand reaching forcefully back for my ass while he stroked me. Soon he was swatting my cock back and forth and lightly squeezing my balls and finger fucking me. I have absolutely no experience with SM and have never been into pain but I loved how he took the lead. I submitted and he got bolder. He swatted my cock harder. He held my balls in a tight grip until the pain made it so I could barely stand up, and when a groan escaped out and I tried to pull away he shushed me, shushed me!, and pulled me in tighter, squeezed a little harder.

My head barely came up to his shoulder. He was huge! It hurt, I won't lie, but it felt so good as I became his plaything. After a while he forced me to cum. I tried to push his hand off my cock before I ejaculated but he wasn't having any of it. I mean, he milked me. He made me shoot all over my shoes and then he kept stroking. I get very sensitive post orgasm and really tried to push him away after I shot my load, begging for him to stop. He was much stronger than me and kept stroking until I couldn't stand. He held me up and kept going until my body was like a limp rag. When it was finally over and had started to recover I couldn't thank him enough for helping me experience that kind of sexual bliss. So, yeah, I love that stuff and would love to swap stories!

 

[theMasterBaiter]

I have a fantasy that I live alone, and share my address here for any of you to show up and use me whenever. I just came so fucking hard thinking about that ...

 

[SPARTAN047]

Perhaps us gangbanging your asshole with a ball gag in your mouth.

 

[theMasterBaiter]

Perhaps us gangbanging your asshole with a ball gag in your mouth.

Or another cock face fucking me, like I am right now with this dildo while I bounce on my biggest butt plug. Spit and drool and I'm gonna cum again!

 

[HotLoadLover]

There's a few non consent stories on lit like "the bear and the jock" that start out as rape and end in full submission that are hot as fuck, but I wouldn't actually want it to happen.

You're totally right - that's a HOT story! Link for easier access: https://www.literotica.com/s/the-bear-and-the-jock

There's that passive, shy, but insatiably horny part of me that wants something exactly like this to happen. All "rape is bad" disclaimers aside, this is a hot fuckin' story!!

 

[Phatfeet]

You're totally right - that's a HOT story! Link for easier access: https://www.literotica.com/s/the-bear-and-the-jock

There's that passive, shy, but insatiably horny part of me that wants something exactly like this to happen. All "rape is bad" disclaimers aside, this is a hot fuckin' story!!

To be fair, Rape is ALWAYS horrific, but non-consent is not rape.

I understand a lot of people do not understand the difference, but non-consent means having sex without verbal permission. But keep in mind 70% of communication is non-verbal. So looks, grins, smiles, time spent together where there is an impression something could be okay... all plays into that.

For a lot of people there is such a thing as plausible deniability. I can't say, "yes" to a specific question regarding having sex perhaps, but then again I am not going to be upset if you just take me because actually... I really want to do it. In so many ways I might have conveyed that yet all without words. That is non-consent.

Rape is not even about sex, it is about power and control and it is downright evil on any level.

 

[mtsnowrider]

Make it seduction fantasy and I'm in

 

[magic_rat]

To be fair, Rape is ALWAYS horrific, but non-consent is not rape.

You need a rethink. If there is no express consent. it's rape. None of that 'non-verbal' bullshit. If the other party is unable to respond, is coerced, too drunk to give informed consent... rape.

 

[Phatfeet]

You need a rethink. If there is no express consent. it's rape. None of that 'non-verbal' bullshit. If the other party is unable to respond, is coerced, too drunk to give informed consent... rape.

Nope...

The problem is, the other person has no way of knowing it is okay.

Life is not always so black and white.

 

[SPARTAN047]

To be fair, Rape is ALWAYS horrific, but non-consent is not rape.

I understand a lot of people do not understand the difference, but non-consent means having sex without verbal permission. But keep in mind 70% of communication is non-verbal. So looks, grins, smiles, time spent together where there is an impression something could be okay... all plays into that.

For a lot of people there is such a thing as plausible deniability. I can't say, "yes" to a specific question regarding having sex perhaps, but then again I am not going to be upset if you just take me because actually... I really want to do it. In so many ways I might have conveyed that yet all without words. That is non-consent.

Rape is not even about sex, it is about power and control and it is downright evil on any level.

Yes, pretending to force someone into sex when they actually want it is fun.

 

[magic_rat]

Nope...

The problem is, the other person has no way of knowing it is okay.

Life is not always so black and white.

No, that's making excuses. Life can be black and white. If you don't have express consent, you get it or you stop.

I play a lot in the swing and BDSM arena. Consent is EVERYTHING.

 

[Phatfeet]

No, that's making excuses. Life can be black and white. If you don't have express consent, you get it or you stop.

I play a lot in the swing and BDSM arena. Consent is EVERYTHING.

What you are saying makes no sense... I am into BDSM and in that you you have a safe word just for that reason.

Who here has not watched a sex scene in a movie, looked over at the spouse, grinned a mischievous grin, watched her flash one back, the movie is paused and then in a burst of passion had wild sex? No words were spoken, but you knew it was okay.

THAT is non-consensual sex.

You never asked her if it was okay, and she never said you could have her; you just knew. THAT IS NO WAY RAPE.

The same thing happens in other bursts of passion, heavy petting leads to groping, groping leads to clothes coming off, then as the guy looms over her, shaft ready to enter, he looks at her in the eye and the look is there. He slides it in and the two have passionate sex.

Again, that is NOT RAPE, that is non-consensual sex.

A person does not always have to say no. In non-verbal communication not saying no; just might mean yes, as in these two examples.

 

[RobLivesInTexas]

I'm going to chime in here and maybe get roasted for it.

I posted earlier on this thread about a fantasy that came true twice in a massage situation. The masseur went far beyond a professional massage, but I certainly did nothing to stop him and played along, so while I didn't actually give "consent," I really gave my consent by my actions (or lack of actions). Was it a "rape" situation? Absolutely not. I was not taken advantage of at all.

On the other hand, I was sexually molested as a boy. Not only was it non-consensual and illegal, but I was also too young to know what was happening, and I was intimidated. It was traumatizing, to say the least, and it is something from which one never really fully recovers. One's childhood innocence, once lost, is gone for good. That experience makes me look at the idea of "rape fantasies" with suspicion. I understand those of you into BDSM and the use of safe words, etc. I'm not into that at all, and if that's your thing, I'm not going to criticize you. It's just something I don't understand.

Putting this all into the context of Literotica, I get the fact that there are a lot of stories on Lit dealing with non-consensual sex, and at least recently, most of them include warnings up front about that. I read those warnings and just skip those stories. I'm not interested in a rape fantasy that's really a rape fantasy. But as long as it's really a fantasy and stays a fantasy, okay. But as a victim myself, I look at the consent/non-consent issue differently from most.

 

[Phatfeet]

@RobLivesInTexas

I was going to send this to you in a private message but honestly it deserves to be seen by all, and especially those who have been sexually abused in the past like you have.

Regarding that, I never once gave it a thought that people who have endured what you have; and thus might have taken offense to my statements. I never meant any disrespect to ANYONE who endured that despicable violation. I even have ideas on how that forever should be dealt with that cannot be typed out here but let's just say it has to do with brutal vigilante justice.

I am fortunate/misfortunate myself that I have never been subjected to that but was subjected to severe physical child abuse. Having said that, being in foster care for much of my childhood I know many of my foster-siblings had to deal with such nonsense, and I am sorry an adult felt they had a right to do that to you, and others. Obvious they DON'T!

I certainly should have reconsidered the affect my wording might have on those subjected to abuse. I do apologize for my poor choice of words. Please forgive me for that blatant oversight and be assured I will keep it in mind for further replies.

Again, my apologies.

 

[magic_rat]

THAT is non-consensual sex.

I think you need to look at what consent actually means.

Yes there are times when you go with the flow, and your partner is taking an active part, and consent is most obviously implied even if not explicitly given verbally. That is not non-consensual.

Even under those circumstances I do, and one should, check in with your partner; Is this ok, do you like that, can I...

It makes for better sex. Comminucation is cool. The alternative is a scenario where you flip her over, fuck her ass so hard it hurts (or whatever) and just assume it's ok.

 

[RobLivesInTexas]

@RobLivesInTexas

I was going to send this to you in a private message but honestly it deserves to be seen by all, and especially those who have been sexually abused in the past like you have.

Regarding that, I never once gave it a thought that people who have endured what you have; and thus might have taken offense to my statements. I never meant any disrespect to ANYONE who endured that despicable violation. I even have ideas on how that forever should be dealt with that cannot be typed out here but let's just say it has to do with brutal vigilante justice.

I am fortunate/misfortunate myself that I have never been subjected to that but was subjected to severe physical child abuse. Having said that, being in foster care for much of my childhood I know many of my foster-siblings had to deal with such nonsense, and I am sorry an adult felt they had a right to do that to you, and others. Obvious they DON'T!

I certainly should have reconsidered the affect my wording might have on those subjected to abuse. I do apologize for my poor choice of words. Please forgive me for that blatant oversight and be assured I will keep it in mind for further replies.

Again, my apologies.

Thank you for your kindness and thoughtful words, and no, I didn't take offense. I just wanted to underscore the necessity of clear communication, even if it's not verbal. The few times I've organized a men's group, one of the clear rules I've laid out in advance and enforced is the No means No.

As I explained above, consent isn't always necessarily verbal. But a decent person will always take the stance of, if in doubt, don't do it. Otherwise, you're on the edge of becoming a monster like those who took advantage of me.

There is also the consideration of relative power and vulnerability. Someone mentioned above that true rape isn't about sex. It's about asserting power through sex. I wonder if people's "rape fantasies" may sometimes be more about submission to power more that hot sex.

My going along with a hot masseur who was making my naked body feel awfully good as he pushed beyond the professional boundaries, that was me getting horny and giving in to my last, not to his domination. I could have stopped it at any moment, although I would have had major blue balls. But I read about in some other folks' rape fantasies horrify me if they had any possibility of becoming true.

 

[Phatfeet]

But I read about in some other folks' rape fantasies horrify me if they had any possibility of becoming true.

While I understand it is easy to think this, the truth is we have to be careful with this kind of ideology. We really would go crazy if we do not take things as face-value sometimes and try to impart our experiences in trying to figure out what motivates others.

An example might be a medical diagnosis. In telling someone else who had the same thing, they suddenly go on and on about what you should do about it because they did this and that and was prescribed this medication. The truth is, how they overcame the condition might be COMPLETELY different from how you deal with it. No, the medication you were prescribed is appropriate even if it is not the same medication your friend had. But people do that; they think what they experienced is what you will experience, and that is NOT the case.

And so it is with this. While you encountered a person with nefarious motivations, others who like non-consent stories, or even write them, most likely do NOT have any ill intent within them. In fact, it is probably the exact opposite; they are overly kind.