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Nerd4Milfs

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I'm lookin for some feisty older ladies, or maybe just one, to help spice up this monotonous drag of a life. And exciting mind is more important than an exciting life.
 
I'm lookin for some feisty older ladies, or maybe just one, to help spice up this monotonous drag of a life. And exciting mind is more important than an exciting life.
Welcome to Lit. I'm not sure what is prompting me to respond, but I'm going to offer an observation. Maybe because i like Lit and want people here to ahve a good experience. Although I most want there to be more women who are having a good time and come back.

Anyway.

The first fact about Lit you should recognize is that the number of men far outnumber the women. So, to attract women (which many others are much better at than I am), you have to make yourself interesting to them, and you have to show an interest in their interests. It is also very helpful to be able to look at things from their perspective.

So, what is a "fiesty older lady" going to learn about you from reading your message. (There are lots of feisty mature women on LIt, by the way). From what you wrote, a woman is likely to conclude that you are a boring person with a boring life with little to offer who is looking for someone to fix things for you. Not even much of a suggestion as to how she could do that.

So, may I suggest you step back, take a look at yourself, and figure out something about yourself that might be of interest to a mature woman. Okay. You are dissatisfied with your life. But don't lead with that. There must be things about it that you do feel good about. And taht someone else might interesting. What are your interesting, positive good qualities. Put that in your ad and your profile.

And then, read some posts from women in the age range you are looking for. Find out what they are looking for. This may take some time, but anything good does take time and effort.

An old fart
 
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