Relationship

[Christy2311]

Need an intentional man I build a life with and have fun together, fun I mean naughty fun
I value deep connection, mutual respect, and affection, and I’d love to meet someone who enjoys both giving and receiving love and intimacy in a natural, genuine way.
Serious and intentional man can write me directly

 

[Noor]

You might have more luck in the personals.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Need an intentional man I build a life with and have fun together, fun I mean naughty fun
I value deep connection, mutual respect, and affection, and I’d love to meet someone who enjoys both giving and receiving love and intimacy in a natural, genuine way.
Serious and intentional man can write me directly

Sweetie get ready. Your going to get a lot of messages. If you ever thought guys were full of crap in real life you haven't seen anything like LIT guys.
LIT is a place for fantasy and thats it. There are numerous other ways to find what your looking for.
Good Luck !

 

[Noor]

Sweetie get ready. Your going to get a lot of messages. If you ever thought guys were full of crap in real life you haven't seen anything like LIT guys.
LIT is a place for fantasy and thats it. There are numerous other ways to find what your looking for.
Good Luck !

Lots of players and ghosters here.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Lots of players and ghosters here.

I get the players. Not a fan of the ghosters. Never thought women get ghosted. But would not be surprised

 

[Noor]

I get the players. Not a fan of the ghosters. Never thought women get ghosted. But would not be surprised

We have a few serial ghosts here, one who has been at it for decades, I’ve lost count of how many alts he’s had but it’s a lot.
I never thought men got ghosted, but I guess it’s not specific to sex.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

We have a few serial ghosts here, one who has been at it for decades, I’ve lost count of how many alts he’s had but it’s a lot.
I never thought men got ghosted, but I guess it’s not specific to sex.

Yes it's frustrating getting ghosted. I understand when you don't click but nit when you have a good convo going I stopped trying to figure it out.
I've become very particular in who I DM with. Mostly for my own sanity LOl

 

[Noor]

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Yes it's frustrating getting ghosted. I understand when you don't click but nit when you have a good convo going I stopped trying to figure it out.
I've become very particular in who I DM with. Mostly for my own sanity LOl

i understand. Its hard when you’ve been friends for years and they take down their lit alt, their various messenger/whatspp/gtalk/video
Accounts and make it like they never existed, then a few months or longer later, they come back as someone new, except you know who they are, you always know who they are.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

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i understand. Its hard when you’ve been friends for years and they take down their lit alt, their various messenger/whatspp/gtalk/video
Accounts and make it like they never existed, then a few months or longer later, they come back as someone new, except you know who they are, you always know who they are.

WOW ! That's a ghost I never experienced. I don't blame you for being pissed

 

[Noor]

WOW ! That's a ghost I never experienced. I don't blame you for being pissed

I can introduce you to

Unfortunately, it’s not just me who experienced this.

 

[Noor]

I just read this on Facebook by The Empowred Muse and I suspect she is right.
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The intelligent woman isn't ghosted because she's too much.
She's ghosted because she's too accurate.
And here's the peer reviewed data on exactly why:

Finding 1. She sees him more clearly than he sees himself.
Her pattern recognition is elite. Within weeks she has already identified his potential, his limitations, his unresolved wounds and the gap between who he presents himself to be and who he actually is at 11pm on a Tuesday when nobody is performing.
And he feels it.
Most men are not ready for it.

Finding 2. She unconsciously raises the standard of the entire experiment.
Not through demands, nor ultimatums. Simply through existing at her level — she creates a gravitational field that makes average feel insufficient.
And average is comfortable: it doesn't require him to abandon the more convenient version of himself that he has been running for years.
She does. And the moment he realizes what staying would actually require of him — He disappears.
Not because she failed.
Because evolving is terrifying. And ghosting is easier than growth.

Finding 3. Her depth activates his inadequacy.
The intelligent woman doesn't just want a relationship. She wants a partnership between two people equally committed to their own evolution.
This is not a high standard.
This is the minimum viable requirement for a functioning relationship.
But to a man who has never been asked to show up at that level — it feels impossible.
And impossible feels safer to avoid than to attempt.

Finding 4. She doesn't chase. And chasing is what he knows how to respond to.
The intelligent woman doesn't send the follow up text.
She simply continues existing magnificently without him.
And a man who doesn't know that a woman's stillness is not an exit ticket — reads her dignity as indifference.
And leaves before he can be left.

Finding 5. She was never the problem. She was the mirror.
The ghost isn't about her at all.
It is a man's most honest response to seeing the distance between who he is and who he would need to become to deserve her. He didn't ghost her because she was too much.

He ghosted because she made too little feel exactly what it was. And too little always runs “