ROE with a webcam model

[alex4every1]

I prefer real women over plasticy porn dolls. From time to time I visit webcam sites and jerk off to ladies I find attractive.
I bumped into a model that is putting on a show almost daily. She is using a face mask but I had the feeling I have already seen her. I just couldn't recall where.

Now, usually, when I see a person, wheels start spinning in my head and I can almost visualize shelves organized in catalog order I run through until it's a bingo.
I couldn't figure this out for days. Shortly after seeing her for the first time, my brother posted something on FB and a I just ran into her commenting him.
He was starting a WhatsApp group for events he is running. Both her and myself are in, so now I have her number.
I'm 200% positive it's her. I was able to verify the hit by a unique piece of jewlery.
I know how it may sound, but believe me, I'm not an obsessed creepy stocker.

I know this for months now and hadn't done anything about it. We didn't talk before or met since I found out her secret.
Few days ago she asked something in the group, casual stuff, non sex related. I answered her and she found the info useful. She doesn't know me so she might have looked at my avatar (my photo).

I thought about getting online and play with her on cam. At first I thought about not showing my face fully. So that she might be able figure this out when we meet and my jawline will seem familiar to her. On the other hand, I could show my face as if I don't know her, and then she would recognize me for sure when we meet in person.

As for the events where she can see me, she was asking for a ride. I can pick her up. If I don't reveal myself on cam, and even if I do, I was split between bringing up I know she is camming and ask her about it or just keeping this to myself.

I know she is camming for the extra buck but she also seems to enjoy it.
I think I can tell if a model is there just for tokens or more into it...

What do you think? What would you do? Is it cool to engage or should I shut up and forget it?

 

[mhorny1984]

I would say don't over think it. If you make too much about it it's going to get weird, but also if she is wearing a mask don't make assumptions either. Just have a conversation and see where it leads.

 

[Britva415]

Play dumb. Don't disrupt her real life by making a thing of this. Pretend you don't know she cams and don't talk about camming, yourself, if you meet her in person.

I don't know what you'd even expect from "engaging." She's doing it for money and maybe thrills, not 'cause she likes you personally.

What does "ROE" mean, anyway?

 

[alex4every1]

Play dumb. Don't disrupt her real life by making a thing of this. Pretend you don't know she cams and don't talk about camming, yourself, if you meet her in person.

I don't know what you'd even expect from "engaging." She's doing it for money and maybe thrills, not 'cause she likes you personally.

What does "ROE" mean, anyway?

Rules Of Engagement. I'm military, sorry.

Of course she doesn't like me.
I am attracted to her sexual energy. Never had interaction with sexual workers or anything close. My experience and people around me are vanilla. I guess I have a fantasy about her getting horny around me. Or maybe join her putting on a show...
What drives me crazy is the connection. If I couldn't reach out, it wouldn't bother me that much...

 

[Britva415]

Right, so, what would you expect or hope for from engaging and outing yourself instead of just playing dumb?

 

[LeaHaven]

I was all excited. I thought this was going to be a discussion about the return on equity in a specific segment of the sex industry.

 

[jbird4]

No good can come from engaging with her in real life about camming. Don’t be that dude that thinks the stripper really likes you.

 

[alex4every1]

Right, so, what would you expect or hope for from engaging and outing yourself instead of just playing dumb?

If there is a lady you find attractive and fantasize about her, what can you want?
To have some sexy time, if she's interested too, of course.

Asking her about it is a bad idea, I get that and I'm not gonna do it.
But I'm still thinking... If we have a private session, both enjoy each other's company, and then we meet in real life... Of course I'd act as if nothing happened, but she might make a move if she wants....

 

[Bi4Older84]

Just leave it alone...I can almost 100% guarantee that you would come off as a creep and will probably make for a quick end to her camming. She may be doing it for money or she may be doing it for fun, but if she's found out she will probably quit doing it all together. This is real life, not porno-the scenario might sound hot, but it's probably not going to work out the way you'd like it to.

 

[Britva415]

Asking her about it is a bad idea

But isn't that kind of exactly what engaging in any way at all really is?

She'll know you're asking-without-asking. She's not going to appreciate the approach.

 

[magic_rat]

I know she is camming for the extra buck but she also seems to enjoy it.

You don't know why she's doing it. But you can be quite sure she has a really low opinion of the guys she cams for.

I think I can tell if a model is there just for tokens or more into it...

You can't.

What do you think? What would you do? Is it cool to engage or should I shut up and forget it?

Forget. Never go back there. Allow the woman her privacy. Don't be the jerk.

 

[Yarglenurp]

You know, in view of recent events, I say go for it.

Is there a good chance of it blowing up in your face? 99.99%.

But then you’d have an interesting story. One you can share with the rest of us.

If you do nothing, there’s no interesting story.

 

[curioustxn]

Rules Of Engagement. I'm military, sorry.

Of course she doesn't like me.
I am attracted to her sexual energy. Never had interaction with sexual workers or anything close. My experience and people around me are vanilla. I guess I have a fantasy about her getting horny around me. Or maybe join her putting on a show...
What drives me crazy is the connection. If I couldn't reach out, it wouldn't bother me that much...

She likely does this for a living, and if that is the case, the last thing she wants is for a customer to show up in real life. And it is also likely that she already has a man in her life. You found her sexually attractive, so why wouldn't another man who knows her personally find her attractive also? Women who entertain men online aren't looking for a man, they get paid, so don't expect her to welcome you with open arms if you show up in her real life.

 

[Yarglenurp]

She likely does this for a living, and if that is the case, the last thing she wants is for a customer to show up in real life. And it is also likely that she already has a man in her life. You found her sexually attractive, so why wouldn't another man who knows her personally find her attractive also? Women who entertain men online aren't looking for a man, they get paid, so don't expect her to welcome you with open arms if you show up in her real life.

Dude, get outta here with your reasonable advice. It’s way more fun to see a dude metaphorically blow shit up and talk about his train wreck of a meeting.

 

[MissNova]

I prefer real women over plasticy porn dolls. From time to time I visit webcam sites and jerk off to ladies I find attractive.
I bumped into a model that is putting on a show almost daily. She is using a face mask but I had the feeling I have already seen her. I just couldn't recall where.

Now, usually, when I see a person, wheels start spinning in my head and I can almost visualize shelves organized in catalog order I run through until it's a bingo.
I couldn't figure this out for days. Shortly after seeing her for the first time, my brother posted something on FB and a I just ran into her commenting him.
He was starting a WhatsApp group for events he is running. Both her and myself are in, so now I have her number.
I'm 200% positive it's her. I was able to verify the hit by a unique piece of jewlery.
I know how it may sound, but believe me, I'm not an obsessed creepy stocker.

I know this for months now and hadn't done anything about it. We didn't talk before or met since I found out her secret.
Few days ago she asked something in the group, casual stuff, non sex related. I answered her and she found the info useful. She doesn't know me so she might have looked at my avatar (my photo).

I thought about getting online and play with her on cam. At first I thought about not showing my face fully. So that she might be able figure this out when we meet and my jawline will seem familiar to her. On the other hand, I could show my face as if I don't know her, and then she would recognize me for sure when we meet in person.

As for the events where she can see me, she was asking for a ride. I can pick her up. If I don't reveal myself on cam, and even if I do, I was split between bringing up I know she is camming and ask her about it or just keeping this to myself.

I know she is camming for the extra buck but she also seems to enjoy it.
I think I can tell if a model is there just for tokens or more into it...

What do you think? What would you do? Is it cool to engage or should I shut up and forget it?

What is the site of the webcam

 

[MissNova]

I prefer real women over plasticy porn dolls. From time to time I visit webcam sites and jerk off to ladies I find attractive.
I bumped into a model that is putting on a show almost daily. She is using a face mask but I had the feeling I have already seen her. I just couldn't recall where.

Now, usually, when I see a person, wheels start spinning in my head and I can almost visualize shelves organized in catalog order I run through until it's a bingo.
I couldn't figure this out for days. Shortly after seeing her for the first time, my brother posted something on FB and a I just ran into her commenting him.
He was starting a WhatsApp group for events he is running. Both her and myself are in, so now I have her number.
I'm 200% positive it's her. I was able to verify the hit by a unique piece of jewlery.
I know how it may sound, but believe me, I'm not an obsessed creepy stocker.

I know this for months now and hadn't done anything about it. We didn't talk before or met since I found out her secret.
Few days ago she asked something in the group, casual stuff, non sex related. I answered her and she found the info useful. She doesn't know me so she might have looked at my avatar (my photo).

I thought about getting online and play with her on cam. At first I thought about not showing my face fully. So that she might be able figure this out when we meet and my jawline will seem familiar to her. On the other hand, I could show my face as if I don't know her, and then she would recognize me for sure when we meet in person.

As for the events where she can see me, she was asking for a ride. I can pick her up. If I don't reveal myself on cam, and even if I do, I was split between bringing up I know she is camming and ask her about it or just keeping this to myself.

I know she is camming for the extra buck but she also seems to enjoy it.
I think I can tell if a model is there just for tokens or more into it...

What do you think? What would you do? Is it cool to engage or should I shut up and forget it?

What is the site of the webcam

 

[curioustxn]

Dude, get outta here with your reasonable advice. It’s way more fun to see a dude metaphorically blow shit up and talk about his train wreck of a meeting.

Don't worry, he's not going to take anyone's advice. He's going to blunder right in, and get his dick stepped on.

 

[Britva415]

Don't worry, he's not going to take anyone's advice. He's going to blunder right in, and get his dick stepped on.

Rules of engagement?

You know what they say about rules.

Made to be broken!

 

[alex4every1]

What is the site of the webcam

It's xhamster's live section. Why do you ask?

 

[MissNova]

It's xhamster's live section. Why do you ask?

I want to watch too

 

[Mo_Bandy]

She is wearing a mask for a reason. Respect privacy.

 

[Yarglenurp]

Show up drunk at her house screaming obscenities and asking for a refund. That always wins over a woman.

 

[SPARTAN047]

You know, in view of recent events, I say go for it.

Is there a good chance of it blowing up in your face? 99.99%.

But then you’d have an interesting story. One you can share with the rest of us.

If you do nothing, there’s no interesting story.

Dude, get outta here with your reasonable advice. It’s way more fun to see a dude metaphorically blow shit up and talk about his train wreck of a meeting.

Show up drunk at her house screaming obscenities and asking for a refund. That always wins over a woman.

I don't believe in whoring around and don't pay for or ask payment for people to watch me on cam. I just had to chime in because this advice was really funny.

I agree it'll be a much more colorful story than taking the good advice others gave. And these are also the suggestions actual male friends give each other no matter what country you come from.

There's always that one friend in everyone's group who'll give the craziest suggestions or approve the mad thoughts of the group in general. Even if they talk about offing someone, he says, 'Yes, yes, yes, let's do it! What could go wrong?'