Romance vs. Raunch

[kiten69]

*perks* What else is in the closet?

Why don't ya come in and find out lil girl?

 

[bashfull]

I'm surprised my computer screen didn't just melt

I actually laughed out loud when I read the hat comment *grins*

as long as you don't point and snicker at me naked, darlin! :O btw~welcome to my thread. "tis a pleasure to meet ya', darlin'. Oh, and I think my hat's over there in the closet...with Kitty.

 

[jimmy_love_fl]

That's a very good question. I am thinking through that myself right now, having discovered a dominate tendency in the bedroom. But knowing that I have a very caring heart. I would venture to guess that has to do with your intentions. If by being rough and raunchy, you are pleasing your woman, then it is a loving romantic act as well. I'm learning the amount of trust and respect it takes to do these things is so great that it can be more intimate than "normal" sex, and what's more romantic than intimacy.

That's one of the big questions I will be exploring in a book I am working on. I've posted chapter one, but it won't hit for another few days. It's going to explore BDSM from a sub woman's perspective. The differences between dominated by an ass hole, and dominated by someone who loves and respects her in all other aspects of life.

 

[bashfull]

That's a very good question. I am thinking through that myself right now, having discovered a dominate tendency in the bedroom. But knowing that I have a very caring heart. I would venture to guess that has to do with your intentions. If by being rough and raunchy, you are pleasing your woman, then it is a loving romantic act as well. I'm learning the amount of trust and respect it takes to do these things is so great that it can be more intimate than "normal" sex, and what's more romantic than intimacy.

That's one of the big questions I will be exploring in a book I am working on. I've posted chapter one, but it won't hit for another few days. It's going to explore BDSM from a sub woman's perspective. The differences between dominated by an ass hole, and dominated by someone who loves and respects her in all other aspects of life.

welcome, jimmy. there is a distinction. pull up a chair. care for a drink?

 

[kiten69]

Oh, and I think my hat's over there in the closet...with Kitty.

Why don't you come in and get it?

 

[bashfull]

Someone say hat? Like this one?

howdy whalee. welcome. drink?

 

[Morrigu]

This depends on mood.....................a touch of romance followed by days of raunch is good

 

[bashfull]

This depends on mood.....................a touch of romance followed by days of raunch is good

Or combine the two? simultaneous? makes the touch spark? the "shock" of that intimate caress?

 

[AphroditeReborn]

One of the best combinations of raunch and romance I have experienced is one lover who would caress my head and shoulders gently with his hands, replacing them with his lips and then biting my neck ... in just that right spot... made me cream every time he did it

 

[jimmy_love_fl]

welcome, jimmy. there is a distinction. pull up a chair. care for a drink?

I'll have a margarita. Thanks!

 

[Morrigu]

Or combine the two? simultaneous? makes the touch spark? the "shock" of that intimate caress?

Frisson of erotic excitement......yes

 

[molly_hunter28]

This depends on mood.....................a touch of romance followed by days of raunch is good

I'd have to agree with Morri....

 

[kiten69]

I'll have a margarita. Thanks!

I'll take one of those?

 

[bashfull]

I'd have to agree with Morri....

howdy, molly. good to see ya darlin'.

 

[bashfull]

I'll take one of those?

ahhhh...drink or riding crop?

 

[Morrigu]

I'd have to agree with Morri....

I fell it's that caress of the imagination followed by the body..............gorgeous as ever Molly

 

[molly_hunter28]

howdy, molly. good to see ya darlin'.

Pleasure to see you.

Are handing out drinks with this discussion?

I fell it's that caress of the imagination followed by the body..............gorgeous as ever Molly

I couldn't agree more. The imagination can be the cause of wonderful sensations....... thank you hun

 

[jimmy_love_fl]

I'll take one of those?

When do we start doing body shots?

 

[sultan_sd]

I couldn't agree more. The imagination can be the cause of wonderful sensations....... thank you hun

I agree..the imagination can cause some very wonderful sensations....
I could go for either right now ....Romance or Raunch

 

[kiten69]

ahhhh...drink or riding crop?

Can't I have both? *pouts*

 

[bashfull]

Pleasure to see you.

Are handing out drinks with this discussion?



I couldn't agree more. The imagination can be the cause of wonderful sensations....... thank you hun

sure thing, darlin'. *blush* for the kiss. What are you having?

And I agree about the imagination. "Seduce the mind, the body will follow." and I've always said that it is the light within that shines upon the canvass without. not that i mind a well painted canvass, mind ya' just that i believe that the inner person, the intellect, the sexuality, do more to enhance allure than the physical.

 

[bashfull]

Can't I have both? *pouts*

sure. if you can take a drink without spilling a drop when the crop lands, you get another drink.

 

[kiten69]

sure. if you can take a drink without spilling a drop when the crop lands, you get another drink.

*snickers* That sounds like a fun challenge!

 

[molly_hunter28]

sure thing, darlin'. *blush* for the kiss. What are you having?

And I agree about the imagination. "Seduce the mind, the body will follow." and I've always said that it is the light within that shines upon the canvass without. not that i mind a well painted canvass, mind ya' just that i believe that the inner person, the intellect, the sexuality, do more to enhance allure than the physical.

I'm a simple girl, jack and coke works...

So true. Without the intellect there can be no connection. While a physical attraction is nice, I need something more behind it. If you can tell me what you want, express yourself with words... I could be easily hooked.

 

[justNCmale]

gentleman and devil

I put a few off on first view; at 6'2" tall, shaved head, beard and broad shoulders and riding a Harley, but I manage a small people service business and I am professional and polite. There is an old biker saying "don't mistake politeness for fear".
Now in the bedroom I enjoy using my BDSM toys and the Dom/Master role - so yeah I think you are able to be both, like the song goes "some girls do and some girls don't" like the bad boy type. And for me I like a lady when we are out and a slut in the bedroom!

JM