Routine sex slows the libido.

[Voyeur2cu]

As my wife and I grow older our sex life has slowed significiently. After 24 years being together has our sex life slowed because we know each others sexual routine. If I were to experience someone other than my wife sexually would stimulate my libido like before?Does anyone have an opinion regarding this?

 

[CreamyLady]

I'd think more about changing the routine than changing partners.

But that's just me.

 

[DarlingBri]

As Creamy Lady suggested...

If you vary your routine, you'll also have a better chance of stimulating you wife's libido.

Doesn't that count?

 

[Problem Child]

"Extremism in the defense of libido is no vice."

Barry Goldwater

 

[Isolde]

Try experimenting with different things aimed at bringing the zing back into your love life. There are plenty of book on that subject alone.

 

[Charly]

The straight answer is:

YES

 

[nitengale]

Just labeling sex "routine" in itself seems a turn off.

 

[Mistress]

Hmm what about routine masturbation? Grins

 

[LongHardRocker]

Now, I suppose it would have to do with whom you're having
sex with as to whether or not it's "routine"! ~
But I feel it doesn't matter whether one is married 25 years
or just met..sex can seem routine either way, especially if
one is just "going through the motions" so to speak. Some
of the worst sex I've had occured with partners I'd recently met who knew all the right moves, but there was no passion involved! My advice to you would be to work on your
relationship with your wife..that could actually rekindle
things sexually for you both. Remember Also: The grass is
not always greener on the other side!

 

[Blackbich]

Yeah, what LongHardRocker said!!!

 

[LongHardRocker]

Yeah, what LongHardRocker said!!!

He He..thank you I suppose it's true..great minds
think alike! Or, is that depraved minds? I can never
figure that one out! LOL

 

[Blackbich]

LOL. I personally think it's a little bit of both <g>.

 

[LongHardRocker]

LOL. I personally think it's a little bit of both <g>.

Hmmmmmm I believe you're right..a great depraved mind
works for me anytime! LOL <g>.

 

[Mr.curious]

I think you should open up to more experimental sexual routine. You need to expand you mind.
I'm saying this from experiance, we're just reliving our sexual and romantic relationship.
And it's the best we ever had.