Secretly bi/bi curious husbands/partners

I love thinking about it

Want it, dream about it, just not game or unsure how to go about it.
 
Hi Ned and welcome to the real world!!!

ned440 said:
Masterbate all the time thinking about sucking cock, having cum in my mouth and all over my face, being controlled and used by a man or controlled by a women to do a man. Being feminised also excites... I though I was fucked up but after reading here I guess I am a bit like a lot of people...
 
Do it to me

KinkyLilKaren said:
I love to dominate males, especially my husband Robert. I tease him with a male or a female lover often. But to get to the point of this thread. He is supposedly straight but I love to force him to suck cock, or wank a cock. Watching men go at it is a driving passion with me.

I have found many men, supposedly straight arrows who will first submit to a little spanking, then some humiliation, finally I can force them into cock sucking.
I love to direct the proceedings.

"Reach into his pants and find his cock. Fondle it lovingly. You do the same to him. (this would be lovely with two men who have never touched a cock before) Fish it out honey I want to see you stroke it, caress it, make love to it with your hands. Tell him you love his cock..his big juicy cock. feel that velvety skin..look at each other's dick.. squeeze the head...make that eye open up. Plant a loving kiss on each others cock..Mmmm....let me hear you. Stroke each other's ass... Do you want to suck it? Hmm..whisper to each other but I wanna hear..Tell each other how much you want to taste his cock...

I would love to lead them through the entire process. I often lead Robert through step by step cock sucking. I love it..Does two of my fantasies at once...
klk

You sound like the kinky kind of teacher that could move me from curious to enthusiastic oral slut.
 
So I Thought I'd Try a Little Cock

I’m like you guys, attracted to women and get turned out by them, but I get really worked up thinking about holding a guy’s cock. Looking at guys doesn’t do anything for me but cocks certainly do.

The thought of holding a cock (someone else’s!), squeezing his balls, watching it grow in my hands is fucking hot! I love the taste of my own pre-cum and want someone to shoot their load in my mouth. Feeling the pulsing of his cock before he explodes. I do a lot of solo-ass play thinking about someone pounding me from behind, or with my ankles on his shoulders.

I’m painfully curious. I want to do it. I feel like I have to it and I sometimes feel like I’m aching for it. But… my wife would not be into it. I’ve met a couple of guys online for a discrete hook-up but chickened out both times.

One time, I was so hot for some guy’s cock and had been watching man-porn on the computer for a couple of hours, I decided it was time to go for it. I went to a xxx movie-theatre in town that’s known to be a cruising spot (they weren’t kidding about it being pitch dark in those places!).

So, I’m in this little room in July with the air-conditioning not working. Ok, it’s not comfortable but who cares, I’m there for something else and it wasn’t the raunchy hard-hard-hard-core on the screen. At first I couldn’t tell if there was anyone else in the room until eventually I heard someone rattle a belt-buckle in the back row. I looked back and saw that there were two guys there, sitting a couple of seats apart. Resigned to finally do something about this craving, I nervously walked up to the row in front of them. I thought, hey, if they’re playing with each other, maybe I can lend a hand.

It turned out they weren’t playing with each other and the one guy was rattling his belt-buckle to get my attention, like it was a mating call. The other guy kept leaning forward to look over my shoulder, presumably to see what I was doing in my lap (my fly was open and I was playing with myself). Finally, and really nervously, I reached back to the guy with the belt-buckle and put my hand in his lap looking for his cock to lend a hand and live out my craving. He quickly stood up, pulled his boxers down a bit and presented himself. I still couldn’t see, but I could feel his cock. I was surprised to find it soft.

So I’m sitting in a pitched-black screening room, fumbling in some guy’s jeans rubbing his flaccid cock. I’m in the row in front of him so, with him standing up, my face is right at his crotch. He thrusts forward and I decide the thing to do is to put his cock in my mouth. I was immediately surprised by how much his soft cock was filling my mouth and also by the smell. (He was a smoker and hadn’t showered before going to the movies.) I started to suck on his cock. I thought as soon as it gets hard, I’ll lick it and thrust on it like I’ve been fantasizing.

No such happy ending: I never noticed, but the other guy (were they friends?) had come around to sit beside me and started fumbling in my shorts. I did not want that at all. One thing, I wanted to focus on the cock that was still soft in my mouth. Another thing, I didn’t want this other guy to notice that I had completely creamed my shorts from nervous excitement. I kept pushing his hands away, but he kept fumbling for it. So, I was living through what teenage girls must when their boyfriends fumble around their naughty-bits. Eventually, the guy beside me gave up and stood in the isle. He pulled out his cock and started pulling it really fast, like he was angry with it. I was still turned around with my face in the guy’s crotch and his soft cock filling my mouth.

It was not pleasant. The guy whose cock was in my mouth was unpleasant smelling (and still soft!) and this other guy was too much for me. I didn’t like how the guy with the belt-buckle was pulling me towards his cock, either. It finally dawned on me that they were together and this is a threesome they had engineered. I panicked. I stood up, put myself away and did up my pants, and walked past the second guy who watched me while really going at his penis.

So, I’m a cock tease. But, that was really not how I wanted to do it. It wasn’t hot, not hot at all, it was creepy. The whole experience really turned me off the idea… for a while. I still really crave someone’s cock in my mouth, but I want to see that cock know what’s going on.

Back to the drawing board… working up the courage to follow-through on an online hook-up. I’m hoping to meet someone to have a regular thing with so I can explore my fantasy with more comfort.

So that’s my story of the bi-craving married guy nervous about hooking up.
 
London meet?

Like many others on this thread, I crave the experience of another man's cock. But also, like many others, I don't want more than that, and I'd need a gentle introduction. I'm in London a lot... I kind of have an idea that a meet, perhaps in a pub or something, might lead somewhere. Must be discreet. The fantasy goes, I reach across under the table, find my way up his leg, to feel his cock stiffening through his trousers... PM me
 
places

Seems like just about everyone on this thread has the same problem: how to meet and play with another man when all one's experience is with women, and most with one woman. The fantasy has to do with a stranger, not with a friend or colleague. That would be too intimate. So, is it bars, peep show glory holes (condom in hand, or on dick), hotels, gay bars.... I don't know. You'd think there would be opportunities in NYC, but no. Well, I'll do my research and report back and any pm's are welcome.
 
Hi all! Straight guy but having tried most everything feel there's still one great unknown! I want to try out bi sex - I have no doubt I'll be scared, but I've just GOT to try!

And right now, I want to show myself on cam! LOL
 
almostmarried69 said:
all i can say to this is wow...
i too am interested in trying bi-sex and i would definately not like it the way it happened for you. the only difference is my fiance is into the idea as much as i am so she is going to be with me when i finally get the chance to feel a hard cock in my mouth

That sounds awsome. Taking a cock in your mouth with the comfort of feeling your fiance's lips wrapped around yours. Or taking a cock in the ass while licking your girl. That's the way to do it... sounds great.

Has your fiance been in a mmf threesome before or will it be first time for you both?
 
Untapped Fun!!

There is alot of talk about wanting to do it, butno where to go.
The greatest supply of willing hot hard cock can be found in every major city, look up the male saunas. They always have a supply of males looking for straight up, no questions anonymous sex.
To give an example, being an rampant bi male, i left work at 3pm, stopped in at a city sauna, laid in the sun for awhile, a guy offered me a massage which i accepted. He rubbed me all over followed by oiling up my balls, working my cock until it was hard and loosening up my arse with two well oiled fingers.
This was within 20mins of entering the place.
I wandered upstairs into the dim lit areas where the cubicals are and tv rooms playing gay fuck movies. About 10-12 guys wandering around with only towels around them, and glory hole cubicals for a quick blow job.
To make it short and sweet, i sucked off two guys, swallowed their delicious cum, pulled another off and let him blow all over my cock and balls and rubbed it in which i personally find a huge turn on; had a 3 some with two other guys wanking them both off at the same time then let one of them, with the nice thick cock, fuck my hungry arse, as i sucked the other guy off. $20 well spent i say. No talk, no names...just delicious cock and arse.
This all happened in 90mins and then.............i went home to my lovely wife!!

Don't get me wrong, i love her heaps, but like many others here, i adore male cock and having my arse fucked which she isn't interested in.
How i would love to have her instruct another guy to insert his hard cock into me and share a blow job with her, as do others.
So close....yet so far!!
 
Hungry

You have a 'hungry' ass? What does it eat?
Where is this mythical city with a sauna out of pre-Aids NYC?
I don't believe a word of your little story, but if it is true, you had better got yourself tested, and fast.
 
East Coast

Okay, so I've been reading some of the posts on here and finding that I'm in a slightly different boat than some of you..
Like most, I'm curious. Have been since a young age.. When I was about 10 or 11 my best friend introduced me to anal sex as a way to explain what real sex felt like. I was extremely naive about anything and everything sexual, but, wanting to know more, I took in everything he said about it.
He told me that if I put my cock in his ass (obviously not the exact words he used at that age, but you get the picture) it felt the same as fucking a girl. After a little persuasion, we started going out to the fort we had built up in the hills behind our neighborhood and fucking nearly every day for a couple months until his family moved away.
We never had anything but anal sex.. a few times he asked if I wanted him to suck my cock but I said no (I was scared he would bite it :rolleyes: ).. the closest we came to oral was blowing (literally) on the end of each others cocks because it felt good and it made us hard quicker than just stroking. (I regret not doing that with him when I had the chance, but oh well.. hindsight's 20/20, right?) We never kissed or anything like that, for us it was just the feeling of cock buried in ass.
Since then, I've enjoyed the occasional finger (or available object) in the ass while masturbating alone. My girlfriend, I recently found out, is extremelyyyy turned on by the thought of me being with another guy, and is very supportive (to the point of almost being pushy) of me finding someone to fuck/suck, etc. When we're talking about it (telling stories to each other over the phone, mostly), she loves hearing about how I could have a boyfriend as well as be with her, how I want to take a male lover, etc...which I tell her when we're telling stories, just because she loves it and OMG does she come hard!! But in reality, all I really want is a cock, preferably one who doesn't know me or my girl, preferably one we would never see again (if we didn't want to) and who would have no idea who we were! Fucked up? Maybe..but I can't stand the thought of doing it with someone I'd pass on the street every other day (especially if it didn't work out well) ....! Anybody know what I'm talkin about here?
Like I said, I enjoy the thought, but only if I'm already turned on by something hetero, otherwise it just annoys me. Likewise, if we are fantasizing about me and another guy, and I come, it's nearly impossible for me to even try to get it up again. I guess if I were ever to be with another guy, we'd have to make sure he came first, and that I was kept hard enough to keep my interest in the game!
Anyone else feel the same?
DM

Wow, I didn't mean to go into it that much.. sorry! :D
 
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MWM, 44.. small town north of Tampa

Like many others I've fantasized about this but have just been to nervous tomake the real step. My wife would likely leave me if she found out and I don't want that to happen. But her health is such that our sex life is virtually nil (three times this year, last in July). I jackoff a lot and fantasize, but both are getting old.

My other issue is pure intimidation, I'm not very well endowed (4" hard) and recall being laughed at many years ago in the dreaded high school locker room. I'm past that with my wife but worry that another guy would find my size to be amusing. I just don't need that ego blow.

But I am very orally oriented and just love going down on my wife (and GF's before we were married). But I have desired to feel a cock in my mouth for years. I've also fantasized about licking a couple as he slides in and out of her (especially if she is shaved, so I can see clearly). But I guess one step at a time.

I'm just not sure where to turn to even explore this. I drive to Tampa and St.Pete a time or two every month. I thought I had a chance once when I was hired to shot nude photos of a couple, but he backed out and I just photographed the woman while staying professional.

I have always been shy with woman, and the same seems true with meeting men in public. If I'm ever going to make this happen, I need to find a way to arrange it in advance.

I'm excited by the prospect but scared at the same time.
 
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