Seduce my Wife - FFO

[aledon]

Here is the challenge...

My wife and I are in our second marriages and are middle aged, exercise regularly and watch what we eat and we both have excellent blood work. We both must work for a living and we both put in a substantial amount of hours making sure our home looks nice both on the inside and outside. I am an administrator and my wife works in banking.

Years ago, we split up for almost a year and my wife moved in with a female friend of hers... My wife and I got back together and the female friend with whom my wife was living would have nothing to do with my wife. Even when my wife went through severe emotional and mental trauma, this female would not hold out a hand of comfort nor would she make any contact with my wife.

While my conclusion may be faulty logic, I believe that the reason this took place is because my wife and this lady were lovers, and when my wife returned to me, this other lady was a lady scorned....

If my wife went through this sexual adventure once, it is my belief that she can be motivated to go through it again. Except this time, I would like to be there and watch.

I have not interest at all in participating...

Now, as I am sure you could have guessed by now, I am looking for a female who would like to meet my wife, get to know my wife, and seduce my wife into another lesbian affair.

Is there anyone in the East TN area that might be interested in giving that a shot, please let me know. Yes, it is a challenge but I believe it is doable...

She watches lesbian type shows and makes no comments, but when she sees two males together, she says nasty...

Let me know what you think?

 

[limplizzard]

LOL & good luck

 

[Vail_Indigo]

ok let's put aside the fact that this 'plan' us unbelievably manipulative...

Think about what you are asking.
you are asking for someone to come into yourlife and get your wifeyo agree to cheat on you (I assume you would not step in until she'd agreed already).

You are also not considering that this might be a real emotional situation for your wife, not just sexual.

Look, if you want to watch your wife have sex with another woman, thats cool, but be honest and upfront about it.

No woman with an ounce of selfesteem would put up with the game you are playing

 

[bondslave]

Love to, but your a bit far away for me.... sigh

 

[aledon]

Thought I was being up front about it

My wife may or may not have had an experience and she may or may not be interested in women. But, what I am suggesting is that another woman become friends with my wife... Then, through that friendship, perhaps a romantic adventure follows, perhaps it does not. If it does and she wants me to watch fine, if not that is fine also. I don't have to join in...

At the very worst my wife makes a new friend and has an adventure that she will remember that may be shared. My wife is old enough to say "no."

 

[Vail_Indigo]

My wife may or may not have had an experience and she may or may not be interested in women. But, what I am suggesting is that another woman become friends with my wife... Then, through that friendship, perhaps a romantic adventure follows, perhaps it does not. If it does and she wants me to watch fine, if not that is fine also. I don't have to join in...

At the very worst my wife makes a new friend and has an adventure that she will remember that may be shared. My wife is old enough to say "no."

thats amazing. You have no understanding of women.
this plan is very manipulative and could very much hurt your wife by putting her in a situation where she feels the desire to cheat on you. You see a difference because its with another woman. Her heart, very likely, will not see the distinction. All she will know is that she was. Willing to violate your marriage.
I have few doubts that if you proceed, you will do great harm to her and your marriage.

 

[Vail_Indigo]

are you planning on telling your wife, before she meets thus woman, that you are setting her up with a potential partner?

 

[aledon]

Please Understand

The fact that my wife is cheating on me is beside the point. At the present time she is having an affair with another man from our church... so, I am sure that she will not get hurt by this... all I am trying to do is receive a little pleasure from her affairs.

They are very arogant about it. I actually asked him to stop seeing her one sunday in sunday school when she had to miss. The following week he showed up where she worked and wanted to know what I had said that to him. She told me about this from the standpoint that they were insulted but the minister and several other members have brought it to my attention because they have seen them together....

I cannot control her actions and I will not divorce as I do not want to split my assets again......

 

[Vail_Indigo]

The fact that my wife is cheating on me is beside the point. At the present time she is having an affair with another man from our church... so, I am sure that she will not get hurt by this... all I am trying to do is receive a little pleasure from her affairs.

They are very arogant about it. I actually asked him to stop seeing her one sunday in sunday school when she had to miss. The following week he showed up where she worked and wanted to know what I had said that to him. She told me about this from the standpoint that they were insulted but the minister and several other members have brought it to my attention because they have seen them together....

I cannot control her actions and I will not divorce as I do not want to split my assets again......

Jeez, you are in a whole new world of twisted self-destruction.
I'm really sorry.

 

[lrichil]

Wow, im sorry too... what the hell is that twisted... stuff.

 

[aledon]

Ya know

You just gotta make the best out of the cards that you are dealt...

 

[Vail_Indigo]

You just gotta make the best out of the cards that you are dealt...

sounds to me like you are deciding your life is over just so you don't have to deal with splitting your stuff.

 

[Colton_White]

All I want to say is

The fact that my wife is cheating on me is beside the point. At the present time she is having an affair with another man from our church... so, I am sure that she will not get hurt by this... all I am trying to do is receive a little pleasure from her affairs.

They are very arogant about it. I actually asked him to stop seeing her one sunday in sunday school when she had to miss. The following week he showed up where she worked and wanted to know what I had said that to him. She told me about this from the standpoint that they were insulted but the minister and several other members have brought it to my attention because they have seen them together....

I cannot control her actions and I will not divorce as I do not want to split my assets again......

You've to do something concrete to settle down the troubles peacefully, or u'll end up hurting urlself/her/ur family- kids if you have any/ spoiling ur health due to stress etc.etc.etc. I'm afraid so.

I wish you Good luck.

 

[Colton_White]

I meant

you rather meet some marriage councel / psychiatrist than seeking some female to flirt lesbionly with your wife.

anyway, its your life and i'm no body.

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lets laugh out all these problems----

Husband and wife


[1]
Two times a week, we go to a nice restaurant, have a little beverage, good food and companionship. She goes on

Tuesdays, I go on Fridays.

[2]
We also sleep in separate beds.
Hers is in California and mine is in Texas.

[3]
I take my wife everywhere.....
But she keeps finding her way back.

[4]
I asked my wife where she wanted to go for our anniversary.
"Somewhere I haven't been in a long time!" she said.
So I suggested the kitchen.

[5]
We always hold hands.
If I let go, she shops.

[6]
She has an electric blender, electric toaster and electric bread maker.
She said "There are too many gadgets and no place to sit down!".....
So I bought her an electric chair.

[7]
My wife told me the car wasn't running well because there was water in the carburetor.
I asked where the car was; she told me "In the lake."

[8]
She got a mud pack and looked great for two days.
Then the mud fell off.

[9]
She ran after the garbage truck, yelling "Am I too late for the garbage?"....
The driver said "No, jump in!"

[10]
Remember:
Marriage is the number one cause of divorce.

I married Miss Right.
I just didn't know her first name was Always.

[11]
I haven't spoken to my wife in 18 months.
I don't like to interrupt her.

[12]
The last fight was my fault though.
My wife asked "What's on the TV?"
I said "Dust!"

 

[aledon]

Not over

This is my second marriage and I have been through a nasty divorce before. Neither of us are young anymore and starting over is not as easy as it is when in 30's or 40's. As one approaches retirement, splitting us assets and retirement income is not always a smart thing to do. And, viagra is not always the answer either as it is costly.

As I have said often, "I may be too old the cut the mustard but I can still lick the jar."

I am trying to embrace infidelity and see what I can get out of it to satisfy my needs...

The easiest solution is not always the best solution.

Let me add on additional wrinkle..... I have Lymphoma and the health insurance is through where she works..... If I go anywhere else it is a pre-existing condition....

 

[Colton_White]

Well then

This is my second marriage and I have been through a nasty divorce before. Neither of us are young anymore and starting over is not as easy as it is when in 30's or 40's. As one approaches retirement, splitting us assets and retirement income is not always a smart thing to do. And, viagra is not always the answer either as it is costly.

As I have said often, "I may be too old the cut the mustard but I can still lick the jar."

I am trying to embrace infidelity and see what I can get out of it to satisfy my needs...

The easiest solution is not always the best solution.

Let me add on additional wrinkle..... I have Lymphoma and the health insurance is through where she works..... If I go anywhere else it is a pre-existing condition....

I'll pray for you tonight. that's all that i can do.

Good luck And Have a nice day.

 

[dave's thing]

Jeez, you are in a whole new world of twisted self-destruction.
I'm really sorry.

I agree. Sorry aledon but I am as twisted as any one and I have to side with Vail and Colton on this one.
Really you should do inner soul searching either on your own or with help from some one, because you have it all wrong here no matter how you try to shuffle the cards.
I too will pray for you

 

[aledon]

I understand what you are saying but I still want and/or need sexual satisfaction myself, ya know

 

[Vail_Indigo]

I understand what you are saying but I still want and/or need sexual satisfaction myself, ya know

which i understand. but you are missing the larger point that you've chosen keeping your stuff over getting into a healthy life (which would also include good sex).
I can't imagine any of thise is good for your self-esteem, and its gotta be battering you down.
But still you choose stuff over life.

I know I'm overstepping my bounds and I know I sound judgemental, but I think it should be said

 

[dietcherrycoke]

I'm just really shocked that women aren't jumping on this opportunity. I mean, you have good blood work and everything...

 

[Vail_Indigo]

I'm just really shocked that women aren't jumping on this opportunity. I mean, you have good blood work and everything...

sarcasm aside, I agree that this is the kind of situation to run-don't-walk away from.
there's at least half a dozen ways this could go bad for the third party

 

[dietcherrycoke]

sarcasm aside, I agree that this is the kind of situation to run-don't-walk away from.
there's at least half a dozen ways this could go bad for the third party

LOL, can you think of a single way it might not go bad?

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[aledon]

Thanks for your comments

I want to thank everyone for what they are saying and have said and it is all constructive and appreciated...

I have had a very full life with many experiences and opportunities. I have traveled throughout Europe, been into East Berlin before the wall came down, was at Woodstock as well as in Vietnam. I have had two marriages, loads of affairs, have a wonderful daughter who has an exciting career. I have a very wealthy brother and fantastic parents who, despite some of their choices in raising me, provided me with an excellent body, and an excellent mind. I am employed in a professional job where I can help people with their future....

However, I have lived a typical and normal life when it comes to my sexual experiences. And, while I appreciate the prayers, it is said that we should not get attached to things of this world... I also believe that the real life comes after death - our eternity - and when one compares 80+ years of life on earth to an eternity in heaven or wherever, then one can easily see that this life is not real at all but a metaphor the the real life, our life after death.

Whatever my wife is or is not doing while it may be her choice, the outcome of her choices have already been seen by God. Therefore, her choice while seemingly hers, is really being directed by a higher power. If God created everything, then He created the devil and sin (whatever sin is???). Sin could simply be separation from God. But be that as it may, God can lead us into temptation or away from evil as is stated in The Lord's Prayer - so there is a higher power that has been and will always be in control. Consequently, whatever I do or do not do is exactly what I am supposed to do...

I am wanting to experiences some aspects of life that I have not experienced before and if that is seduction of my wife by another female, then, what is the harm as it is again a matter of choice by two consenting adults. If she does not want to be seduced she will not let herself be seduced and our life will continue as it is, and she will continue to have affairs behind my back with both males and females. Again, this is what she is supposed to do... regardless of what I want... it is the will of the higher power - our creator...

There are tons of stories on this website about all sorts of sexual adventures and this forum is designed to explore those topics as well. My request is simply part of this forum and another sexual experience in this world.

Just as my topic and comments have seduced you into responding, so too am I asking a female to attempt to seduce my wife into an experience that I can participate in by watching... What is the harm if all of us agree.....?

 

[Vail_Indigo]

I want to thank everyone for what they are saying and have said and it is all constructive and appreciated...

I have had a very full life with many experiences and opportunities. I have traveled throughout Europe, been into East Berlin before the wall came down, was at Woodstock as well as in Vietnam. I have had two marriages, loads of affairs, have a wonderful daughter who has an exciting career. I have a very wealthy brother and fantastic parents who, despite some of their choices in raising me, provided me with an excellent body, and an excellent mind. I am employed in a professional job where I can help people with their future....

However, I have lived a typical and normal life when it comes to my sexual experiences. And, while I appreciate the prayers, it is said that we should not get attached to things of this world... I also believe that the real life comes after death - our eternity - and when one compares 80+ years of life on earth to an eternity in heaven or wherever, then one can easily see that this life is not real at all but a metaphor the the real life, our life after death.

Whatever my wife is or is not doing while it may be her choice, the outcome of her choices have already been seen by God. Therefore, her choice while seemingly hers, is really being directed by a higher power. If God created everything, then He created the devil and sin (whatever sin is???). Sin could simply be separation from God. But be that as it may, God can lead us into temptation or away from evil as is stated in The Lord's Prayer - so there is a higher power that has been and will always be in control. Consequently, whatever I do or do not do is exactly what I am supposed to do...

I am wanting to experiences some aspects of life that I have not experienced before and if that is seduction of my wife by another female, then, what is the harm as it is again a matter of choice by two consenting adults. If she does not want to be seduced she will not let herself be seduced and our life will continue as it is, and she will continue to have affairs behind my back with both males and females. Again, this is what she is supposed to do... regardless of what I want... it is the will of the higher power - our creator...

There are tons of stories on this website about all sorts of sexual adventures and this forum is designed to explore those topics as well. My request is simply part of this forum and another sexual experience in this world.

Just as my topic and comments have seduced you into responding, so too am I asking a female to attempt to seduce my wife into an experience that I can participate in by watching... What is the harm if all of us agree.....?

I appreciate what you are looking for but...
Its fair to say that your relationship with your wife is strained, at the very least.
In these situations, a 3rd party cna easily get caught up in things.
Jealousy, anger, and, actually, legal raminifactions can follow.
Lets suppose you get a girl to seduce your wife, who is to say that won't lead to that girl having to give a deposition should you or your wife decide to divorce?
Further, lets suppose that you or your wife decide that the whole thing was an insanely bad idea and you focus your anger on the 3rd party?

You are certainly in an unfortunate situation, and while I don't think there is anything wrong with what you want, per se, it simply isn't a very safe situation for anyone else to enter into.
I don't think there's anything ethically wrong with your plan, all things considered, I just don't think its very wise, at least for the 3rd party.

 

[lesbiaphrodite]

I just find it all incredibly banal. If a woman meets your woman and fucks her, great. If you try to arrange it, well, that's just boring.