Seeking A Master

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[brioche]

Oh FFS.

You know where the Personals are, you've posted on them.

 

[the captians wench]

The best lovers I've had have been over 35

 

[ImOnIt]

Don't come at me asking me what I want because i Just don't know quite yet. I don't like to answer a million questions right off the bat.

Oh cool, a mystery box. The mystery box could be anything... even a boat!


Are you a boat?

 

[CutieMouse]

The best lovers I've had have been over 35

The best I've had were closer to (if not over) 50.

 

[Etoile]

Already posted the same thing in BDSM Personals so I guess there is no reason to move this...?

 

[Stella_Omega]

Especially in the BDSM racket. Most guys-- women as well-- at 35 are maybe two or three years adult, and just starting to get their feet under them. Vanilla lovers, no problem, but the man who can honestly dominate another person at age 35? Very rare.

And ESPECIALLY when the sub is a woman who doesn't know what she wants.

 

[chy_girl]

The best lovers I've had have been over 35

The best I've had were closer to (if not over) 50.

See! I knew there was a good reason for being attracted to people much older than me! (Ok, so the minimum isn't so much older than me now... only 8 or 10 years.)

Already posted the same thing in BDSM Personals so I guess there is no reason to move this...?

And deny us our fun? Come on, Etoile... can't you please think of it as a late winter holiday gift? Or an early Valentines day present?

Especially in the BDSM racket. Most guys-- women as well-- at 35 are maybe two or three years adult, and just starting to get their feet under them. Vanilla lovers, no problem, but the man who can honestly dominate another person at age 35? Very rare.

And ESPECIALLY when the sub is a woman who doesn't know what she wants.

Some of the last psych/human services classes I took in college discussed the theory that the human brain doesn't even finish cooking till a person hits 28 or 29. It would make sense that it would take someone a good few years after that to acclimate to the adult sense of self and acknowledge/accept/settle into their preferred PYL/pyl role. Especially in a society with such a lingering essence of Victorian ideals surrounding sex as well as the shift of what is considered acceptable treatment of one's partner over the last 40 years or so. And that's before we even toss in the taboo factor of BDSM.

 

[midwestyankee]

Some of the last psych/human services classes I took in college discussed the theory that the human brain doesn't even finish cooking till a person hits 28 or 29. It would make sense that it would take someone a good few years after that to acclimate to the adult sense of self and acknowledge/accept/settle into their preferred PYL/pyl role. Especially in a society with such a lingering essence of Victorian ideals surrounding sex as well as the shift of what is considered acceptable treatment of one's partner over the last 40 years or so. And that's before we even toss in the taboo factor of BDSM.

I've always been a bit of a late bloomer. I wonder if this explains the slight smell of burnt toast I get every morning when I wake up.

 

[teknight]

The best lovers I've had have been over 35

The best I've had were closer to (if not over) 50.

Especially in the BDSM racket. Most guys-- women as well-- at 35 are maybe two or three years adult, and just starting to get their feet under them. Vanilla lovers, no problem, but the man who can honestly dominate another person at age 35? Very rare.

And ESPECIALLY when the sub is a woman who doesn't know what she wants.

Why the ageism, ladies?
*le sigh*

 

[catalina_francisco]

Already posted the same thing in BDSM Personals so I guess there is no reason to move this...?

Yes there is, because it doesn't belong here, and as mods that is our responsibility....don't want to encourage this place into becoming a second personals.

Catalina

 

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[rktktvi]

older guys are not attractive to me, just as I am not attractive to everyone. Honestly.. aren't I allowed to not want to be with someone I'm not attracted to? as to not knowing what I want yep... its true, and I'm willing to help other Doms learn what they want, I love to explore and discover, its in my nature.

Well, speaking as a guy that you're ruling out due to age, I'll offer you some support in this. I don't think there's anything wrong with you deciding who you are and are not going to be atttracted to. Just because you've drawn the line in a certain place doesn't mean it's right for everyone, but it's right for you. Sure, you may miss out on exactly what you need, but then again... you might be narrowing the screening process to help you find it sooner. Who's to know?

Good luck. I hope you find what (and who) it is for which you are searching.

 

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[rktktvi]

so do I.... and have people stop asking me what I am looking for i just don't know lol

Nah... none of us really do. Somehow, it changes when you start looking for Ms (or Mr) Right instead of Right Now. Sometimes the reality is that you want both, and to make it even worse, sometimes that's not even the same person!