Seeking a special submissive woman

[Gentledom45]

Still looking for a Sub to connect with and have a relationship. Let’s chat

 

[Gentledom45]

Weekend bump

 

[Gentledom45]

Still looking who wants to chat and see where things could lead too.

 

[Gentledom45]

It’s been awhile. Still searching for a Sub

 

[Gentledom45]

Who is looking for a serious relationship that comes with daily chats and attention and caring. Looking to make a real connection with someone. Willing to train if need be.

 

[DawnStorm]

I'm looking for a new submissive woman in my life. I say submissive rather than sub because submissive women are special. They have a rare gift to give a dominant man. The words dom/sub are commonly used just as D/s but every true submissive woman is special.

Trust is a key piece to this form of relationship and I take time getting to know the submissive. Her life is very important and I am the type of dominant that wants to know the woman i have this relationship with. Her feelings will be heard from me. I am someone who communicates quite regularly and that can make the submissive feel a sense of care and belonging. I want her to belong to me but not overnight. In reality, that's not real and not true trust. I will take my time to get to know you. Talking often and exploring together what each of us wants/desires/needs. Taking time understanding one another's lives. I want to provide strength, guidance and support to my submissive.

Safety is important to me and that's what I do for a living. I want my submissive to feel safe with me with whatever is discussed or explored. Exploration is key. I'm open to exploring my submissive's needs in and out of bedroom discussions / activities.

Naturally I aim to be in control as it is a need for me as a dominant male. Her comfort is important and if something doesn't feel right, we stop or discuss. Look at other ways of doing something. After care is also very important to me. Yes, even online. Experiences should be discussed so we are both on the same page.

I don't want to give everything away in this ad for the special submissive woman reading this but naturally I enjoy certain things. I don't know if a public post is the right way to go about explaining everything so please reply. We can initially PM and move a conversation to KIK or Skype.

That was very well thought out. I wonder if you ever found her.

 

[Gentledom45]

That was very well thought out. I wonder if you ever found her.

I did and then lost her after 3 years

 

[DawnStorm]

I did and then lost her after 3 years

I am sorry to hear that. It stings specially when you lose that connection no matter what way it happens.

 

[Gentledom45]

I am sorry to hear that. It stings specially when you lose that connection no matter what way it happens.

very true and hope one day I can make another connection

 

[DawnStorm]

I hope you can too

very true and hope one day I can make another connection

I truly hope you can as well. I have only ever had that connection one time. It hurt me badly when I had to walk away for good. There is a part of me that wants to talk to him still even feeling in the end I was not good enough and he wasn't either. There were just way too many red flags.
Having only one way to communicate is the reddest of flags.

 

[Gentledom45]

I hope you can too

I truly hope you can as well. I have only ever had that connection one time. It hurt me badly when I had to walk away for good. There is a part of me that wants to talk to him still even feeling in the end I was not good enough and he wasn't either. There were just way too many red flags.
Having only one way to communicate is the reddest of flags.

Yes I know

 

[Gentledom45]

Looking for a serious Submissive that is looking for a serious online relationship. I’m looking for daily chats to get to know each other and see if we connect on personal level. Also looking for a sexual connection and someone who wants guidance. Also into pic and voice and cam when trust has been earned. If your interested let me know.

 

[000zing]

Hmm... interesting.

You've been on here for the best part of 8 years with a relatively friendly and interesting ad and frequent "bumps".

So how's it going with the search and what's your assessment of the actual likelihood of a Dom ever finding a female submissive on Literotica? I mean of course an authentic female rather than the kind who think that a female-sounding username will fool you.

I know exactly what percentage chance I personally would give it...

 

[AnnieLit]

Hmm... interesting.

You've been on here for the best part of 8 years with a relatively friendly and interesting ad and frequent "bumps".

So how's it going with the search and what's your assessment of the actual likelihood of a Dom ever finding a female submissive on Literotica? I mean of course an authentic female rather than the kind who think that a female-sounding username will fool you.

I know exactly what percentage chance I personally would give it...

He already answered this question:

I did and then lost her after 3 years

 

[Gentledom45]

He already answered this question:

Thank you Annie

 

[AnnieLit]

Thank you Annie

I just don't like naysayers too much. It is almost five years for me, so when people say that it's impossible ... Well, they are wrong.

 

[Gentledom45]

I just don't like naysayers too much. It is almost five years for me, so when people say that it's impossible ... Well, they are wrong.

Well thank you for taking time to comment

 

[Gentledom45]

Been awhile hello everyone.

 

[Gentledom45]

Well too bad no Subs out here looking for a Dom