Seeking answers and advice regarding race play

[TheLobster]

The highest viewed story of the past week is called "Saving My Daughter from BBC Pt. 01".

Wow! I knew they were getting a bad rap as of late, but the author must truly be a craftsman to make a villain out of the British Broadcasting Corporation.

 

[Ianus4]

To put it more seriously, I consider BBC (not the company) not only racist, but also quite misogynistic.

 

[InvisibleHarvey]

To put it more seriously, I consider BBC (not the company) not only racist, but also quite misogynistic.

White supremacists use blackness to degrade white women and to humiliate white men. It's a white supremacist concept, just like race itself is a white supremacist concept.

If a person is titillated by racial fetishization, that doesn't necessarily mean that that person is "a white supremacist." It does mean that that person sees blackness as taboo or transgressive.

As a non-white person from a white supremacist culture, I find it repellant. I can only speak for myself, of course.

 

[EmilyMiller]

White supremacists use blackness to degrade white women and to humiliate white men. It's a white supremacist concept, just like race itself is a white supremacist concept.

If a person is titillated by racial fetishization, that doesn't necessarily mean that that person is "a white supremacist." It does mean that that person sees blackness as taboo or transgressive.

As a non-white person from a white supremacist culture, I find it repellant. I can only speak for myself, of course.

I’ve said it before and I’ll no doubt say it again. It seems at least possible that white men identify with the black bull, whose ‘animalistic’ behavior allows them to enjoy non-con guilt free. Or they identify with the LWG and her experience allows them to enjoy gay sex guilt free.

Beyond that, who gives a fuck about relative melanin levels ?

 

[Ianus4]

White supremacists use blackness to degrade white women and to humiliate white men. It's a white supremacist concept, just like race itself is a white supremacist concept.

If a person is titillated by racial fetishization, that doesn't necessarily mean that that person is "a white supremacist." It does mean that that person sees blackness as taboo or transgressive.

As a non-white person from a white supremacist culture, I find it repellant. I can only speak for myself, of course.

I don't consider it misogynistic primarily because of skin color, but because it suggests that women forget everything else when they see a large penis and begin to behave as instinctive beings. BWC is similar in this respect, but that's a less common fetish.

 

[EmilyMiller]

I don't consider it misogynistic primarily because of skin color, but because it suggests that women forget everything else when they see a large penis and begin to behave as instinctive beings. BWC is similar in this respect, but that's a less common fetish.

This

 

[SimonDoom]

I second what Bramblethorn wrote. Do your homework. Use Literotica's search feature and look for other stories that are similar in tone and content to what you are trying to write. This is FAR more valuable than soliciting advice here, because what you are going to get here is moralistic advice rather than advice about what "works" and what doesn't.

My experience, based on what I've read here, is that stories of the kind you seem to want to write are acceptable. But you should do your own research about that.

 

[RocketGrunt]

To put it more seriously, I consider BBC (not the company) not only racist, but also quite misogynistic.

Yes.
Although the British Broadcasting Company is also racist and misogynistic. There's been several scandals about it.

More seriously, the BBC trope denigrates women and denigrates people of color. It's not harmless. People have literally been murdered over it, as it allows white men to recontextualize fraternization between black men and white women as a form of assault that the white women need to be protected from.

That being said, this is a porn site where people write stories that are transgressive all the time. The Incest and Nonconsensual boards are absolutely filled with sexual fantasies that would be extremely harmful if they were not confined to the page. Ideally, that's why they are put onto the page in the first place.

I don't really "get" the racism as a source of sexualization. But then, I don't have to. It's not for me. I don't have to understand most of the works on the fetish board either.

 

[InvisibleHarvey]

With all of this being said, I think the story that the story that @intothebrothel is discussing doesn't sound like it's quite what we're talking about here. If I understand correctly, this would be a comedy about the performativity of race, about assumptions about other people, and about a person's desire to live up to those assumptions.

Writing about harmful behavior doesn't mean endorsing that kind of behavior.

Like, for example, I have a Korean friend who refuses to date white men because she's had too many bad experiences of being fetishized. I would love to read a story about that from someone with something to say about it.

 

[nice90sguy]

Like, for example, I have a Korean friend who refuses to date white men because she's had too many bad experiences of being fetishized

I'd fucking love to be fetished...

 

[big_cane_sugar]

White supremacists use blackness to degrade white women and to humiliate white men. It's a white supremacist concept, just like race itself is a white supremacist concept.

If a person is titillated by racial fetishization, that doesn't necessarily mean that that person is "a white supremacist." It does mean that that person sees blackness as taboo or transgressive.

As a non-white person from a white supremacist culture, I find it repellant. I can only speak for myself, of course.

I mean what's really going on is that white men have spent a few centuries projecting onto black men. White men could legally rape their slaves, and many did, so what would we expect them to fear?

It's not really about race; it's a bigger pattern probably going back to before our species evolved. A lot of men are lovely guys, but some are jerks; having a lot of power probably increases the jerks. So the powerful men who are jerks abuse people, including women and children, who are less powerful, and because they're powerful they almost always get away with it. Perhaps at a subconscious level (if not consciously) that's the main reason some men want power so badly. And then of course they fear that the men with less power want to do the same thing.

If you want to see unadulterated virtue and kindness, be very careful whose hearts you look into.

 

[InvisibleHarvey]

I'd fucking love to be fetished...

I feel like I've seen a thousand sit-coms and rom-coms about a fantasy world where women have a mediocre white guy fetish. I won't name any names so I don't hurt any feelings, lol.

NOT calling you a mediocre white guy. I'm just saying that I think the desire to be fetishized is not uncommon.

 

[big_cane_sugar]

Similar point with Asian women actually. For a few hundred years Western European and American men have regularly held the lives of Asian people in their hands in the British and French colonies, in America's wars in Asia. Thanks to the fundamental attribution error, most of those men attributed the behavior of the people they saw to the people rather than their situations. So they went back home thinking Asian women in general act the way people in general act when they fear for their lives and their family's lives, when they have little to no income compared to certain men, when they've been traumatized by violence and murder and rape. The same racist tropes have been applied to Latin American and Native American (or American Indian) women. It's just the way sex and power and lazy thinking operate in humanity. Anyone literate should be able to see through it by now.

 

[Ianus4]

I’ve said it before and I’ll no doubt say it again. It seems at least possible that white men identify with the black bull, who’s ‘animalistic’ behavior allows them to enjoy non-con guilt free. Or they identify with the LWG and her experience allows them to enjoy gay sex guilt free.

Which category would you put them in?

 

[EmilyMiller]

Which category would you put them in?
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Gay Male

 

[Ianus4]

Gay Male

I wasn't referring to Lit categories (the comments are from IR, by the way), but to the two possible cases you mentioned. To me, this seems like a third type.

 

[EmilyMiller]

I wasn't referring to Lit categories (the comments are from IR, by the way), but to the two possible cases you mentioned. To me, this seems like a third type.

TBH I threw up in my mouth pretty early on and stopped reading.

 

[nice90sguy]

Which category would you put them in?
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I assume these are AI prompts of some sort

 

[Ianus4]

TBH I threw up in my mouth pretty early on and stopped reading.

new thread: Comments that leave you throw up.

Edit:
By the way, at times like this, I wonder again why it takes 48 hours to review comments.

 

[EmilyMiller]

I wasn't referring to Lit categories (the comments are from IR, by the way), but to the two possible cases you mentioned. To me, this seems like a third type.

OK, I suppressed my gag reflex (years of practice) and read. The most telling text was “not gay,” that was just so .

Dude having your ass fucked by a guy is gay. It’s about as gay as it gets.

I also find the way men (not so much women) fixate on penis size interesting.

I’ve been with all sorts of sizes and it doesn’t correlate to how good the experience is, at least for vaginal sex.