Self Bondage?

[eric60red]

Why would somebody inflict this on them selves?

Seems to be very extreme. I can understand some body doing it to you, but not doing it to yourself .

http://www.moviefap.com/videos/b8d8602ec9d9dfeb6a15/my-friends-selfbondage.html

Can somebody explain please?

 

[DVS]

Seems to be very extreme. I can understand some body doing it to you, but not doing it to yourself .

http://www.moviefap.com/videos/b8d8602ec9d9dfeb6a15/my-friends-selfbondage.html

Can somebody explain please?

BDSM is full of extremes, because everybody is different. One person's torturous pain is another's delicious sensation.

Why would self bondage be any different?

My concern is...is that a double pole TENS? I don't think it is.

 

[eric60red]

BDSM is full of extremes, because everybody is different. One person's torturous pain is another's delicious sensation.

Why would self bondage be any different?

My concern is...is that a double pole TENS? I don't think it is.

ou

Thank you, I know all about extremes, and when and how to administer, but I can not
understand why somebody who has a normal mind should want to give them selves pain, to achieve pleasure, when somebody can fulfill their need and make it so much more sensual.

 

[DVS]

ou

Thank you, I know all about extremes, and when and how to administer, but I can not
understand why somebody who has a normal mind should want to give them selves pain, to achieve pleasure, when somebody can fulfill their need and make it so much more sensual.

There are people out there who can't find a compatible partner. Maybe they live in a small town and are afraid of being outed. Maybe they can't find one that will or can fulfill their sexual desires in the same way they can themselves. Maybe they just never meet up with that person. Do they just pick someone off the street and ask them?

And, in some cases, they aren't in a healthy emotional state of mind. They find it quite difficult to ask someone to do this because they are terribly shy, or very self conscious about their body or their fetish.

It's not at all uncommon for a very beautiful person to be unaware of their beauty and go through life without the sexual satisfaction they crave, just because they were emotionally insecure about expressing their desires to someone. They create their own self bondage schemes because it's easier than the emotional pain they think they would surely feel when (not if) someone rejected them.

I guess these are not what one might call "normal" reactions, but who in the world is normal? We all have our share of baggage to carry around. Phobias, insecurities, physical limitations and childhood traumas, just to name a few. Normal has a very difficult time cutting through all of that. It's much easier to use the DIY method...and it's safer, emotionally.

 

[RoseLeaf]

Now I'm frightened ...

... I complete the tasks from my online Master, but there are times I could be in harms way and that frightens me ... reading some of these responses ... I wish I could be with him in person but it is unlikely ... how do others do this?

Rose

 

[DVS]

... I complete the tasks from my online Master, but there are times I could be in harms way and that frightens me ... reading some of these responses ... I wish I could be with him in person but it is unlikely ... how do others do this?

Rose

No matter what someone tells you to do, if you will be the only person there, after you've done it, who's going to help you? So, my advice would be to think it through before you do it, making sure you can undo everything, afterwards.

No matter what any body says, no matter who they are, safety always comes first. And after you have thought it through and still can't figure out how you are going to undo something, DON'T DO IT! Do or say whatever you have to to keep from doing it, but don't ever do something you can't undo.

If you do get yourself into some kind of self bondage thing and you can't get out of it, what are you going to do? Who is going to help you? You've already said it's unlikely that your master could help you.

If anything frightens you that much, I'd just not do it. It isn't worth it. This isn't meant to frighten you even more or diminish your relationship with your master. It's just common sense, isn't it?

 

[Ahlam]

ou

Thank you, I know all about extremes, and when and how to administer, but I can not understand why somebody who has a normal mind should want to give them selves pain, to achieve pleasure, when somebody can fulfill their need and make it so much more sensual.

Sometimes when you want something done right, you must do it yourself! Is it abnormal to want to enjoy yourself (whatever your taste may be) without waiting around for someone else to oblige you? I don't think it is.

 

[BettyPoop]

Thanks for your concern. I got to the restaurant, had a glass of wine, and in the restroom I got my skirt and underwear off and made a pretty tight belt around my waist of one piece of rope. Then I looped another piece around the back of that belt, brought the two ends down my butt crack, then forward through/between my lips and then looped around the front of the belt and left some rope above my waist so I could pull it tight across my lips by pulling the ends from between my blouse buttons. I pulled my skirt back up. And ended up having dinner at this place, and I could pull that rope so tight from my asshole forward sitting at my table.

Using this same sort of arrangement, but with a section made from the straps of an old sleeveless dress, I wrapped that strap and knotted it and the base of a small butt plug. I went out to what I knew was going to be a boring business dinner last night and I was able to tug on the plug without anyone noticing.

 

[gretchenmilliner]

When you make your rope harness tying a few strategic knots in the rope that runs through your crotch can be very interesting. A big knot over your clitoris and another at your anus can supply quite a bit of added interest to the whole arrangement. Finally, I prefer to use a really tight leather belt rather than a rope around the waist, I find you can make the whole arrangement far tighter without generating rope burns.

Yes I know it's an old trick but I don't think anyone has mentioned it on this thread yet, sorry if I missed it.

 

[BettyPoop]

When you make your rope harness tying a few strategic knots in the rope that runs through your crotch can be very interesting. A big knot over your clitoris and another at your anus can supply quite a bit of added interest to the whole arrangement. Finally, I prefer to use a really tight leather belt rather than a rope around the waist, I find you can make the whole arrangement far tighter without generating rope burns.

Yes I know it's an old trick but I don't think anyone has mentioned it on this thread yet, sorry if I missed it.

I've had some of my string bikinis modified with a large bead which fit very snugly in my anus. I don't know if anyone noticed. Nobody said anything. But, a leather belt with lots of holes would make life easier for some applications.

 

[eric60red]

Sometimes when you want something done right, you must do it yourself! Is it abnormal to want to enjoy yourself (whatever your taste may be) without waiting around for someone else to oblige you? I don't think it is.

May be, but its more likely to be self inflicted pain syndrome (SIPS), I would not judge somebody for inflicting pain on them selfs, it show character and a strong will power, but it also shows a lack of contentment. An experienced Dominant can provide a more caring and painful experience. with satisfaction guaranteed.

 

[BettyPoop]

I've had some of my string bikinis modified with a large bead which fit very snugly in my anus. I don't know if anyone noticed. Nobody said anything. But, a leather belt with lots of holes would make life easier for some applications.

I did pick up a very sturdy but narrow belt with a simple buckle after work today and my shoemaker did holes all the way around. He did it while I waited. He's always so nice to me. He likes working on my expensive heels. He loves the way they're made. Anyway, the holes are the largest belt holes he can make with his punch. Rope won't fit through them though, so I bought some of those work boot shoelaces from him. I haven't experimented yet.

 

[Cumference]

SB has a large element of DIY.

There are perverts at the hardware store!

Some basic leatherworking will get you a long way, and when it comes to belts, a second hand store can give some real value for money.
Quite often they have a big box of used belts, that just need a bit of care to look great again.

With regards to holes, a leather punch is not expensive, and will give you the size of holes you want, where and when you want them.

Search for "hollow punch" or "hollow leather punch", and you'll see plenty of what you need.

http://www.amazon.com/SE-Leather-Punch-Set-Hollow/dp/B001700GYW

 

[gretchenmilliner]

Golly gosh, how involved, I never thought of threading the rope through the belt. To fix a rope to a belt I simply double the rope over to form a loop in the middle, place the loop behind the belt, feed the two ends around the belt, thread them through the loop and pull tight. Buckle the belt and the tail of rope around your waist, pull the rope down between your buttocks and up between your legs, either over or between your labia depending upon the effect you want to achieve, thread the two ends behind the belt at the front near the buckle, pull it as tight as you can stand it, pull it a bit tighter still and then loop each end separately around the belt once. If you've done everything right and it's all really tight the rope will stay secure for ages without any additional knotting. Personally, I do tie it off to make sure it cannot slip but you need not rush and if the rope is to go elsewhere you have a very secure anchor point.

As an alternative, just run the rope behind the belt and secure the ends elsewhere so if the wearer tries to straighten up or move in some way they pull the rope even tighter. The obvious warning applies here, the neck is a potentially very dangerous anchor point and the throat an utterly (possibly terminally) stupid one..

 

[eric60red]

Now its all getting very technical, and descriptive ;

 

[Aphro]

I shit you not, I actually found this on Pinterest.

Right next to the Easter egg cupcakes no less!

I love the internet.

 

[IrisAlthea]

I shit you not, I actually found this on Pinterest.

Right next to the Easter egg cupcakes no less!

I love the internet.

Heh, cool!

 

[Endless_Night]

I shit you not, I actually found this on Pinterest.

Right next to the Easter egg cupcakes no less!

I love the internet.

Holy Moly!

I can't believe no one has complained and had it removed.

 

[Aphro]

Holy Moly!

I can't believe no one has complained and had it removed.

On Facebook, when I "Pin" something to Pinterest, it shows up on my Facebook feed.

I wonder...should I Pin this one for all my inlaws and relatives to gawp at??? I have a Pin board for corsets and lingerie already that I am sure they love...

Mwahahahaha!

 

[eric60red]

On Facebook, when I "Pin" something to Pinterest, it shows up on my Facebook feed.

I wonder...should I Pin this one for all my inlaws and relatives to gawp at??? I have a Pin board for corsets and lingerie already that I am sure they love...

Mwahahahaha!

A few of my family would be interested, in the subject but they do not know that I have kinky thoughts all the time, some times about them

 

[BettyPoop]

I shit you not, I actually found this on Pinterest.

Right next to the Easter egg cupcakes no less!

I love the internet.

Thanks, it works! But, it took me some time.

 

[BettyPoop]

I went to visit my parents this past weekend.

They have several acres of wooded property behind their house, so I thought I'd do some experimenting just out of view of our house and those of neighbors. I planned everything during the day so I'd know which tree to use. I even put a bag with several different lengths of clothesline near it. I knew my way already, since I grew up playing in those "woods." My parents are used to me going out in the back yard late at night to relax at the picnic table, so I didn't have to sneak out when they went up to bed. It was cold out, but I went out in just a robe. I unbelted it as soon as got downstairs. Anyway, I took it off when I got near the picnic table and left it there.

After telling another woman on Lit. exactly what I had done, she suggested I not go into details. She said what I had done was dangerous, so the vanilla version is that using several lengths of rope to secure myself to that tree, my back being against the tree, I was able to put pressure on certain parts of my body by trying to pull away from the tree. My hands were free, so I must have been out there over an hour, totally naked, masturbating. I'm definitely going to experiment with something kind of out in public again.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

They have several acres of wooded property behind their house, so I thought I'd do some experimenting just out of view of our house and those of neighbors. I planned everything during the day so I'd know which tree to use. I even put a bag with several different lengths of clothesline near it. I knew my way already, since I grew up playing in those "woods." My parents are used to me going out in the back yard late at night to relax at the picnic table, so I didn't have to sneak out when they went up to bed. It was cold out, but I went out in just a robe. I unbelted it as soon as got downstairs. Anyway, I took it off when I got near the picnic table and left it there.

After telling another woman on Lit. exactly what I had done, she suggested I not go into details. She said what I had done was dangerous, so the vanilla version is that using several lengths of rope to secure myself to that tree, my back being against the tree, I was able to put pressure on certain parts of my body by trying to pull away from the tree. My hands were free, so I must have been out there over an hour, totally naked, masturbating. I'm definitely going to experiment with something kind of out in public again.

Just a gentle reminder to you that being smart and safe with your activities helps ensure you can continue to enjoy them

 

[eric60red]

It sounds so erotic, are there any self binding instructions for men?

 

[BettyPoop]

Just a gentle reminder to you that being smart and safe with your activities helps ensure you can continue to enjoy them

I think I'm being pretty careful. The only risk would be someone catching me.