Serious question - how small is too small?

[johnlooking16]

I'm blessed/cursed with a very small penis. Maybe 1" soft, 3.5" hard. I've only been with 3 women, including my wife. One laughed when we undressed, one was a one time only, and then there's my wife. She only enjoys it when I go down on her - before and after. She likes it when she uses a "average" size dildo. I've never been able to give her an orgasm without oral after.

So I'm I just too small?

 

[Stopokochac]

I think anything below 5 inches