Sex after 40
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Hamletmaschine
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just pet said:
Yup. What she said.
wetmarlene
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The three over-40 partners I have had certainly knew what to do !
The men that I have been with that were in their mid thirties and up were much better lovers, in every way. They are tender, romantic, unafraid of showing emotion, and know just the right moment to turn up the volume. They know that we don't wish to be "banged" from the get go. They are more into foreplay and taking a woman where they want her to go...so slowly. More than anything, they seem to seek the intimacy and don't mind letting you know it.
thumbs2_ca
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ditto on the over 50
I have found that sex in general improved as I got older.
I find the same problem occurs that has always been there though. My wanting it and my receiving it are way too far apart in numbers.
I have found that sex in general improved as I got older.
I find the same problem occurs that has always been there though. My wanting it and my receiving it are way too far apart in numbers.
Aphrodisiac
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I am dating a 37 yr old man and sex with him is ... like .... * dreamy sigh*
I must agree with intrigued older men know how to pleasure a woman and they know to take thier time and not rush things....
I must agree with intrigued older men know how to pleasure a woman and they know to take thier time and not rush things....
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WifeSeducer said:
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I agree that sex over 40 is great! Although, as MY-Sir- is located in England, and I'm in Fl.; it's not frequent enough!
Gotta get that plane tix soon! (pant, pant)
My
to MY-Sir- and all my 's too!
Gotta get that plane tix soon! (pant, pant)
My
to MY-Sir- and all my 's too!
activesense
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I'm 37...
I think the sex is better and can be even more passionate - though maybe not as frequent because people are more comfortable talking about what turns them on and more willing to really invest, rather than play games of hold back.
I dated a younger women for a couple of years when I was 30-31 and even though she was very eager, It took a lot of wokr to get to where the sex was great - she was so used to guys who just wanted to fuck, she really didn't know or appreciate foreplay and oral pleasure - she became a bif fan though .
I'm hoping it continues to get better, thoughI have read that sex drive changes as you get older depending on the individual...
activesense
I think the sex is better and can be even more passionate - though maybe not as frequent
because people are more comfortable talking about what turns them on and more willing to really invest, rather than play games of hold back.I dated a younger women for a couple of years when I was 30-31 and even though she was very eager, It took a lot of wokr to get to where the sex was great - she was so used to guys who just wanted to fuck, she really didn't know or appreciate foreplay and oral pleasure - she became a bif fan though
.I'm hoping it continues to get better, thoughI have read that sex drive changes as you get older depending on the individual...
activesense
ksmybuttons
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Since sex is in the mind and translated to the body, I have found I have enjoyed it much more since 40. My libido is on a much faster purr than it was when I was younger. I am limited only by my husband's availability to have a partner and readily take care of myself when he is not around.
I did come here for the stories.
I did come here for the stories.
T.H. Oughts
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Re: ditto on the over 50
I'm 39 and it keeps getting better. I agree with everyone else. The fucking days are over and it's all about making love with the slow rapture of giving and recieving with the knowledge of knowing what you are doing and how to do it....
Darlin if we were in the same time zone you would have it when the pleasure was yours... and of course it would be all mine to give it to you....thumbs2_ca said:
I'm 39 and it keeps getting better. I agree with everyone else. The fucking days are over and it's all about making love with the slow rapture of giving and recieving with the knowledge of knowing what you are doing and how to do it....
Lost Cause
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Like Shooting Pool With A Rope...
Not really, I haven't noticed any change in my libido since my thirties. I still jump at it if offered, and when alone I get off as often.
*"How can I say I love you when you're sitting on my face? The only words I can think of is........mmmppphhhff, mmmmpppphhhhfff."*
Not really, I haven't noticed any change in my libido since my thirties. I still jump at it if offered, and when alone I get off as often.
*"How can I say I love you when you're sitting on my face? The only words I can think of is........mmmppphhhff, mmmmpppphhhhfff."*
T.H. Oughts
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I mean it is no longer a process of 'wam bam' like it was as a teenager. There is a connection there that never was. I think it is part being in touch of who you are and being part of the person you are with.....marksgirl said:
