'Sex Club' - looking for settings for the following idea

[SteelPoint]

The OP invited discussion of similar, related ideas. SteelPoint's words in the original post:

"I'd be interested to know whether there are other thoughts. I guess I'm really thinking of hobbies and leisure activities."

It's not disrespectful or beside the point to do exactly what the OP asked for -- engage in a discussion of a "sex club" that was oriented around hobbies and leisure activities, not necessarily a choir.

SteelPoint seems to have appreciated the wide-ranging discussion that ensued.

I don't see what there is to be angry about.

Nor do I, frankly. A thick skin is de rigueur on here. Yes, people go off topic but that goes with the territory.

If I had a particular gripe to give voice to, it would be the fact that people have frequently missed the business about forming a 'club within a club'... like our friend unpublishederoticawriter above. To me, this is at the heart of the idea I proposed.

Anyway, you just shrug and move on...

 

[Magineer]

The advantage of a yoga class or gym class is that it's an inherently sexy environment, full of fit, good looking people wearing sexy clothing. There's temptation from the outset.

A choir would be interesting in a completely different way -- if it's a church choir then it presumably would be a chaste environment. There would be tension between what the small group are doing and what everyone expects.

Since the OP wants to get the suspicious spouse involved, how about this:

Husband is a seemingly upstanding member of the church, but he's kind of a prig and a jerk, which will make us more sympathetic when his lovely wife joins the choir and gets involved in its "special" inner circle. She gets drawn into their group sex activities and is trying to avoid being caught by her jealous and suspicious but obnoxious husband.

Great idea about making it a church choir. Adds to the spice of all the infidelity in its thou-shalt-nottery.

 

[vanmyers86]

Speaking as someone who has sung with a lot of choirs, the main problem I see is that it's hard to keep something like that quiet - literally! Singers are loud, we notice everything around us (because part of choral singing is "tuning in" to the people around you), lots of us tend to be dramatic (especially the sopranos and tenors ), and yeah, we do gossip.

It's also true that many of us are intense personalities, and attractions in musical groups of all kinds are very common. So that part of the scenario is spot on.

I'll be interested to read the final product!

 

[Magineer]

Speaking as someone who has sung with a lot of choirs, the main problem I see is that it's hard to keep something like that quiet - literally! Singers are loud, we notice everything around us (because part of choral singing is "tuning in" to the people around you), lots of us tend to be dramatic (especially the sopranos and tenors ), and yeah, we do gossip.

It's also true that many of us are intense personalities, and attractions in musical groups of all kinds are very common. So that part of the scenario is spot on.

I'll be interested to read the final product!

The main problem I see is that humping practice will receive a lot more attention than perfecting their acapella skills!