Sex with someone much older

[melimelissa]

When I was 41 I hooked up with a woman who was 50 and for a year and a half I had the best and most abundant sex of my life.

You need to be bolder
To seduce the older:
For the sex is abundant;
And the chocolate is fondant;
For the nonsense will seed
The boldest of need...

*moustique*

 

[lily_wall_]

Has anyone, male or female, had sex with someone who was much older than you? I'm not talking about a person 10 or 15 years older; I'm talking about having sex with a person who was 30,40, even 50 years older. What was it like for you? I will start. In my early 20's, I was fortunate to have sex with a woman in her mid-60's; still one of the best I've ever been with.

My first long term relationship was with someone close to 50 and I was early 20s

 

[chrisatb5]

My first long term relationship was with someone close to 50 and I was early 20s

Did you get a lot of social friction about that? And how do you feel about it all now?

 

[lily_wall_]

Did you get a lot of social friction about that? And how do you feel about it all now?

A bit for the age difference but also because he was black and he was married.
I was too young and too rebellious and raised differently to give in to those society friction. I luved it back them and still luv the experience I had with him.

Also, all of my parters were older than me. Not all of them with such a big age difference tho

 

[chrisatb5]

A bit for the age difference but also because he was black and he was married.
I was too young and too rebellious and raised differently to give in to those society friction. I luved it back them and still luv the experience I had with him.

Also, all of my parters were older than me. Not all of them with such a big age difference tho

Cool that you have such positive memories in spite of going against the grain of others and of convention; other people's expectations can be weighty and constraining. Nice to know there are those it there who've found some freedom.

 

[melimelissa]

Did you get a lot of social friction about that? And how do you feel about it all now?

Social friction's a quite minor care,
When a woman finds "daddy" may dare
To be a total twit
Thinking that he's a bit
Of a devil: he makes me despair!

*moustique*

 

[TonyF862]

My GF mid 70s, her lover 33.

I would have dreamed of that gap when I was 33!!!

 

[JordynRose]

My current gf is 47, I am 22.

 

[Wageslave]

There are few people much older than me who are sexually active

 

[Sounding22]

I was carrying a heavy lamp in for a woman my mothers age, when I set it down and turned around she was at the door locking it telling me to strip, she liked me eating her most of all. Don’t think her generation did much of that?

 

[moni4delight]

My current gf is 47, I am 22.

Interesting, when i was 22 my gf at time was also 47. She even had 2 kids older than me. She taught me so much over the 3+ years we shared together!!!

 

[AdeptOralist]

Every time I read one of these age thread, I just shake my head. This is one place that I continue to have such a difficult time believing what Litsters post. I mean, usually I take what Litsters post at face value, because why would they lie here? There is nothing to gain at all. Or be afraid of.


I've read in numerous places (not to mention DMs) about younger guys really liking older women. And yet I can't believe it. I keep posting about my disbelief because maybe if I do so, I'll figure out why I'm having such a tough time.

And it's pretty hypocritical of me to boot - and I really don't like being hypocritical. I've always been attracted to older men, so why wouldn't I accept that a younger man would be attracted to older women? And why do I have such a difficult time making the leap when that woman is me? Mayb e because men age like fine wine and I think women tend to age like....well... maybe more like vinegar.

I have had a younger lover for 6 months now, and I'm still stunned that he keeps coming back. He's the most beautiful man I've ever had in my bed and I can't really figure out why he approached me. And then why he stuck around once he met me (I went arse over teakettle the first time I met him - not exactly a stellar first impression!). Of course, it doesn't help that he's the strong, silent type (definitely another trait that is out-of-the-box for me).

It's easier when I can see just two people - where age doesn't show itself in the interpersonal interaction. But when our schedules don't align, that's when the doubt creeps in. That I'm just some place for wick dipping that has advantages of 1) not costing him any $$ and 2) no by-products. And then I chide myself - I'm selling both of us short. Yet there it is.

So I guess this is my way of saying I appreciate that I get to read more posts where younger men like older women. Maybe it will sink in someday...

I have had two much younger women. Both told me that they were tired of boys who only wanted to get their rocks off

 

[Sounding22]

I have had two much younger women. Both told me that they were tired of boys who only wanted to get their rocks off

I’ve had younger and it was great till they opened their mouths, I think that’s wear the bag thing came from.
Some are dumb as a box of rocks as if you’re looking to just do that? Any brothel has better looking and will do more plus are D/F (tested) by law
No expensive date bs.

 

[NoFix4691]

When I was 23, I took an 18-year-old girl as a partner to a wedding. She was mature for her age and well-behaved but it still felt like being with a child. I only did it once. On the other hand at around the same time, a recently-divorced "cougar" latched on to me at work. She was very attractive and super-intelligent. I was in a relationship at the time so I didn't respond. I have come to regret that.

 

[melimelissa]

When I was 23, I took an 18-year-old girl as a partner to a wedding. She was mature for her age and well-behaved but it still felt like being with a child. I only did it once. On the other hand at around the same time, a recently-divorced "cougar" latched on to me at work. She was very attractive and super-intelligent. I was in a relationship at the time so I didn't respond. I have come to regret that.

It was good that the wedding was not
One where your Bride grumphed a lot
For you bringing totty,
Which was very naughty,
While enjoying her "childish" spots.

*moustique*

 

[TonyF862]

I recently met a hot wife 15 years my senior and her husband (82) and I (62) fucked her. She was magnificent!! Loved sex!

A few days later I met a 45 yo unicorn at a lifestyle club, who gave me the ride of my life!

So combined - an age swing of 32 years in less than a week!

 

[Uncut1969]

I recently met a hot wife 15 years my senior and her husband (82) and I (62) fucked her. She was magnificent!! Loved sex!

A few days later I met a 45 yo unicorn at a lifestyle club, who gave me the ride of my life!

So combined - an age swing of 32 years in less than a week!

Wow very hot thanks for sharing

 

[Lamia03]

I recently met a hot wife 15 years my senior and her husband (82) and I (62) fucked her. She was magnificent!! Loved sex!

A few days later I met a 45 yo unicorn at a lifestyle club, who gave me the ride of my life!

So combined - an age swing of 32 years in less than a week!

Forgive my naivety but what is a lifestyle club? Is that a euphemism for something?

 

[TonyF862]

Forgive my naivety but what is a lifestyle club? Is that a euphemism for something?

“Lifestyle” is a euphemism for people that “swing“ or the swinging lifestyle, if you will. People or couples who enjoy sex and share it with others, even if they are married or in a committed relationship. You may also hear the term “ethical, non-monogamy“ or ENM. Another way of saying I fuck people other than my partner.

So a “lifestyle club” is a club where “swingers” meet. Can be just to drink and dance etc, but there is almost always an area (usually restricted to just couple and single women) where people can “play” - another euphemism for having sex.

 

[RachelWalsh]

I would definitely consider

 

[Lamia03]

“Lifestyle” is a euphemism for people that “swing“ or the swinging lifestyle, if you will. People or couples who enjoy sex and share it with others, even if they are married or in a committed relationship. You may also hear the term “ethical, non-monogamy“ or ENM. Another way of saying I fuck people other than my partner.

So a “lifestyle club” is a club where “swingers” meet. Can be just to drink and dance etc, but there is almost always an area (usually restricted to just couple and single women) where people can “play” - another euphemism for having sex.

I had an idea it was going to mean that—just didn’t know the exact term since I’m not a participant of this lifestyle. I’m not against, just naive about it.

But it’s coming up on my radar—like your explanation and a few commentary podcast episodes about dating in it.

Thank you

 

[Littlesubgirl350]

l've been with an older lady (mid 40s l believe) twice now, and she's more insatiable than anyone I've ever met. She's also more physical and into restraints, but it was worth it to have her use me like that! I can't wait to get with her again

 

[SavannaT]

https://cdn.xgifer.com/6574/cuckold-captions-scaled.webpOldest i had was a man in his 70s, worth it though i feel i coulda gone older

 

[KatiiKatt]

Has anyone, male or female, had sex with someone who was much older than you? I'm not talking about a person 10 or 15 years older; I'm talking about having sex with a person who was 30,40, even 50 years older. What was it like for you? I will start. In my early 20's, I was fortunate to have sex with a woman in her mid-60's; still one of the best I've ever been with.

I was in my 20s and in college. I went out one night and met a guy at a bar that was around my age. He got pretty drunk but we went back to his place with the intent to have some fun. We got up to his room and he passes out and I am left horny and disappointed. I go to the kitchen with the intent to call an uber and get some water to drink when I run into who I assume is his roommate. It turns out to be his dad and we started talking. Turns out dad is really awesome and a lot of fun to hangout with. We talked for about an hour before we decided to head to his bedroom and it turns out dad was a performer in the bedroom and gave me a lot of satisfaction. I believe at the time his dad had around thirty years on me.

 

[Treeview]

I was in my 20s and in college. I went out one night and met a guy at a bar that was around my age. He got pretty drunk but we went back to his place with the intent to have some fun. We got up to his room and he passes out and I am left horny and disappointed. I go to the kitchen with the intent to call an uber and get some water to drink when I run into who I assume is his roommate. It turns out to be his dad and we started talking. Turns out dad is really awesome and a lot of fun to hangout with. We talked for about an hour before we decided to head to his bedroom and it turns out dad was a performer in the bedroom and gave me a lot of satisfaction. I believe at the time his dad had around thirty years on me.

Hi @KatiiKatt

Did son find out about you bedding his Dad?

Is there a story?