Sexless Marriage- Ladies Thoughts

[mitchs56]

Ladies, are you in a sexless marriage ? What are your thoughts .emotions, and feelings ? Do you think the same way a man like me in a sexless marriage does ? Would you cheat for hot, self satisfing, fulfilled ,passionate sex ? Lets talk about it.

 

[satanicbubblegum]

If my S/O wasn't touching, barely talking or just plain avoiding me? Honestly? I've been in this situation. They turned out to be gay. We were together for 5 years. The first couple years were great but the last three years were miserable for both of us. He started staying out later and later. We barely spoke. Then one day he disappeared for 3 days (to his lovers house).

I started packing his stuff into bags and found a burner phone with a grinder app on it. I needed no further explanation. He came back 2 days later to get his things I left on the porch and was surprised to see me (I called off work). I slapped him in the face for lying to me when I confronted him so many times about being gay and or cheating and started crying and went back into the apartment while he packed the rest of his things.

Now? If a dude tells me he's bi? It's sadly a deal breaker for me...and I politely turn them down to date.

 

[SmokingFap]

If my S/O wasn't touching, barely talking or just plain avoiding me? Honestly? I've been in this situation. They turned out to be gay. We were together for 5 years. The first couple years were great but the last three years were miserable for both of us. He started staying out later and later. We barely spoke. Then one day he disappeared for 3 days (to his lovers house).

I started packing his stuff into bags and found a burner phone with a grinder app on it. I needed no further explanation. He came back 2 days later to get his things I left on the porch and was surprised to see me (I called off work). I slapped him in the face for lying to me when I confronted him so many times about being gay and or cheating and started crying and went back into the apartment while he packed the rest of his things.

Now? If a dude tells me he's bi? It's sadly a deal breaker for me...and I politely turn them down to date.

I'm sorry to hear about your experience. I knew a married couple in which the husband finally came out as gay after having two kids together. Now, anyone EXCEPT his wife would have known he was gay. He was VERY gay. But because he finally came out of the closet on his own and was very considerate and loving when he confessed to her, they had a very amicable divorce and essentially continued to raise their kids as a family, just from separate homes, but still did all the family stuff and holidays together.

Anyway, I hope that experience didn't sour you on all men, or committed relationships in general.

Have a great day.

 

[satanicbubblegum]

well good for them I suppose. No it did not sour me on all men...just the bi ones lol