Sexual Positions for BBWs

[cresteada]

Recently started being with a BBW. Very nice lady. Penetration is a little difficult considering her size. I don't want to offend her so I thought I'd ask other BBWs - What are the best positions for your sexual pleasures? I'll test the waters and discuss openly with her after I've tried a few. Thank you.

 

[red_jane_doe]

I guess it depends on her shape and what the issues are. I'm a big girl and I don't have issues with any of the positions. I'm big all over. It's not concentrated in any certain area. Personally, my favorite is to be on top. However, there's not much room to go up and down so I rock back and forth on my hands and knees.

 

[SweetErika]

Could you be more specific about what positions aren't working for you, and why (i.e. what's making it difficult)? Having that info will help us make better suggestions.

 

[redneckgirl]

Honostly, I don't have any problems with any positions, wish I could help you, I don't know her size either, some women are bigger than others and this causes problems that others don't have.

 

[sunandshadow]

Using pillows to adjust positions can help - for example pillows under the butt may make missionary position work better. Personally I have had no problems with cowboy but never quite got doggy to work. And me on the bed and the guy standing up worked fine.

 

[Emes]

I am a BBW and have NO problem with any position!

 

[AboutFace]

Well - I'm not a small woman, but I would guess her size and body shape would matter a LOT more than mine.

But - MY favorite position is being on top with his back and head propped up on pillows. Allows me more control, too, which I love.

As suggested, please be more specific what really isn't working for you so far, and you may get better suggestions. Also, remember - creativity is always fun, and can lead to many interesting things.

 

[short_circutz]

Most of my exes are BBW...I'm of average length, so spooning is usually out of the question...but missionary, doggy, and her ontop usually work most of the time...

 

[GeekySub]

I'm a size 14, 5ft3, 185lbs and never really had any problems with any positions. How big of a girl is she?

 

[cresteada]

Thank you

She's 5-foot 7-inches and weighs maybe 210 to 220 pounds. Most of her weight is in her belly. I too am what you call "extra padded" and, I think, of average length (6-inches) so when we did it missionary, our belly's sort of got in the way? I was able to penetrate but not as deeply as I thought I should have. When she was on top, she was not able to get much penetration from me when she tried to completely sit on me so she had to kneel on one leg and brace herself up with the other leg (looked uncomfortable to me). We tried doggy but her butt is of a size that while I got penetration, I didn't think she was getting "all" that she could have. Perhaps the "pillow" thing might help. I just want to be sure she is getting ALL that I can provide becuase her enjoyment is important to me. Thank you for all the answers so far. I'lll stand by for more.

 

[cinnpanabar]

Try this. On her side, you straddle on leg, the other pulled up toward her tummy. This usually allow fairly deep penetration and you can hit her G spot with the right angle. Practice helps. Also a comfortable position for a switch to anal.

 

[red_jane_doe]

The suggestion with her on her side and you straddling one leg is an excellent one. Also, using the pillow/s under her butt while you stay up on your knees leads to deeper penetration. If her on top didn't get good penetration because of the two bellies being in the way, maybe she needs to try turning around and facing your feet.

 

[cresteada]

GREAT! Excellent positions to try. I'll leave the thread open and "brief" you on my success? LOL. Thanks again.

 

[SweetErika]

In missionary, can she pull her legs up toward her chest (but open) and wrap them around you? That allows for deeper penetration.

You might want to try reverse cowgirl -- her on top, but facing your feet. I find it's easier on my legs and I don't tire easily in that position.

Same goes for being on top when he's sitting/reclining on the couch. If the bellies are an issue, she can try holding on to the back of the couch and leaning back.

Was she sitting up fully when she was on top? It sounds like one of the issues might be with flexibility, so perhaps you could both do a stretching routine daily, and/or get into yoga.

In doggy, you might have more luck if she leans her head and chest down on the bed, keeping her ass in the air. We find that gives us deeper penetration, and just feels great!

Try different things with her on the bed (or even a sturdy table that's the right height), maybe with pillows under her butt, and you standing. See if she can lay on her back and put her legs on your chest/shoulders, or spread them wide (you can hold the outsides so it's not too tiring), or pull them up toward her chest.

You might also want to look into positions recommended for pregnancy, too. There are lots of sites that have pics and descriptions for working around the belly and general weight gain.

 

[NaiveOne]

Hmmm, your girl and I are about the same size and shape.

I reccomend that when you are doing missionary, hold her legs up (her feet up by your ears) with your back straight not hunched over her. It's a very good way to hit the g-spot hard. And if she can put her heels on your shoulders or against your chest she should be able to hold herself in that folded position.

Like someone else said, do doggy with her ass high in the air and head/shoulders low on the bed. Definately hits all the deep spots!

I'm not a big fan of being on top, but if she kneels and uses her upper legs to bounce up and down should work fine.

Good luck!

 

[olivefun]

Here, little doggie!

I love being fucked doggy style with my ass in the air and his hands on my hips, on my big round ass.
I love him having my flesh jiggle when he slams me.
My hands play with my nipples this way.
Oh, it is so hot.