Silly thought

[Allexus_TN]

OK. This is a silly thought for a 29 year old, some of you will think. Others may identify.
Ever just been overwhelmed by an event(s) and thought "I want my mom" lol Remember when you were a kid and it really was that simple? Things got bad, you went home and Mom made it better?

Or the magic hole theory. You crawl into a hole and close the lid and POOF
all your problems disappear for a while. Love this idea. You disappear, the problems disappear, and its so easy.
*sigh*

 

[Rupali]

Mom

I still want my mom every time I get sick, and I haven't lived with her for about 8 years now. I guess some things never change.

And I still think about her when I'm hungry and too lazy to cook

 

[unclej]

sweeety, that is so not silly. everyone feels that way at times. i'm 55 years old, 6'1" tall and over 200lbs. there are time when i'd like nothing more than to be able to crawl up into someone's lap and give up all the cares and responsibilities of life and have someone just hold and rock me for a few minutes.

you can sit in mine if i can sit in yours when you're through

 

[cybergirly]

I want my mommy all the time. I don't think that's something I'll ever out grow. I wish my dad were around everytime I have something that needs to be fixed too.

 

[Sillyman]

This is not my idea, and I resent my trademark being bandied about so.

Normally, when things get really bad, I don't think about my Mom. Unlike a lot of people, my mom preferred not to really deal with me when I had problems. I view her as a friend, but not a real source of comfort.

 

[Allexus_TN]

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you can sit in mine if i can sit in yours when you're through

I think I can deal with that!!

 

[LukkyKnight]

I've lost your dad's number.

I want my mommy all the time. I don't think that's something I'll ever out grow. I wish my dad were around everytime I have something that needs to be fixed too.

Me too, can you send him over here to look at my garage door opener, please?

 

[unclej]

good, now i can go to bed with a happy thought.

 

[cybergirly]

Re: I've lost your dad's number.

Me too, can you send him over here to look at my garage door opener, please?

Sure.

Just don't let him touch anything having to do with plumbing.
My damn sink still leaks...

 

[OpposingBalance]

Hmm.
I haven't thought that in a really long time.
I remember it though, now that I think about it.
I don't know if it saddens me or not.

 

[Allexus_TN]

I'm not sure if it saddens me, either. It leaves me with an odd feeling tho. As if stress wasn't enough.

 

[Devilish1]

I always want my mama

Even though we have a Love-Hate kind of realtionship, shes is still my mom.
I have gone to her and just said,"Mama, i need a hug." It felt good to be held by her. She is very sick and is on Oxygen 24/7 so it felt good that she can still be here for me.

No matter what kind of problem im having, if i chose to go to her and ask for her advise, shes always there. And will normally give me her OPINION rather i like it or not....LMAO
But thats my mom.

 

[desert spike]

I've not been able to say mom, make me feel better. But thats OK, she wanted us to grow up independent. Me, my sister and older brother.

I would like to have had her comfort me though, make all the pain go away. Not that there was really any pain. I was lucky.....I grew up in a small rural town playing in the woods.

Trouble, just did't happen that way. Mom provided for my education as she could. I love her. Even if don't see her often, she's in my heart, even if she doesn't see me often and hear me say it, I my heart I know she knows that I love her. Take care mom, I love you.

OK I won't steal this threat.....what was it about.....I forget....I was thinking of my mom.

 

[Vinny]

Darling

I see nothing wrong with this. As humans we tend to regress when we have stress and or problems. There is no one better to go to than Mom. I have lived away from her since 1984 and rareky see her but I still call and her too when advice is needed. If mom is not close to you, I would be honored to hug you for her<hugs>

 

[sacremento]

Mothers are funny creatures sometimes huh

I never needed my mother so much as when my ex husband and I seperated. Big drama when he left.

So I'm driving around town crying my eyes out, went to my girlfriends house, she wasn't home.

So I stop and call my mom from a Walgreens payphone. Crying and sobbing, barely getting the words out.

As I should have expected, her response was not warm and fuzzy, it was more like "Do you know what I'm going through right now!" blah blah blah, Fuckin yelling at me! I dropped the phone and left her talking to herself.

Since then though, during this rough time of mine, I had a talk with her. I said, Mom, sometimes I just want you to listen to me. I am hurt and don't need to be judged or scolded, just listened to. I don't want you to fix anything, just listen.

It seemed to help, and now I can talk more openly with her than ever before.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

i always want a hole to crawl into whenever things get bad.

when i'm at school, i talk to the stars and it makes me feel relaxed

 

[pipercatt]

When I seperated from my husband a little over a month ago, my mother found out from my sister, and it made her mad that I hadn't told her first. She was angry and hurt, and she didn't know the whole story. When I tried to talk to her about it, she asked for some time to get over her anger, so that she and I could talk about it in a rational manner. Days of waiting turned into weeks, and I got angry over her inability to communicate with me.

Around the 4th of July, I woke up one morning and said to myself, "You know, I don't care if she is angry about this situation, I want my MOM!" And I made the attempt to contact her again. This time she was receptive to talking, and I went and spent the day with her, talking, getting comfort, and just being with my Mom. She apologized, I finally got to tell her the whole story, and basically, I got my Mom.

 

[LukkyKnight]

Re: I always want my mama

No matter what kind of problem im having, if i chose to go to her and ask for her advise, shes always there. And will normally give me her OPINION rather i like it or not....LMAO
But thats my mom.

Oh good, send her on over, I was going to ask cybergirly's dad to look at my garbage disposal after he got done with the garage-door issue, but your mom sounds a lot more reliable in that arena.

 

[Allexus_TN]

Re: Darling

I see nothing wrong with this. As humans we tend to regress when we have stress and or problems. There is no one better to go to than Mom. I have lived away from her since 1984 and rareky see her but I still call and her too when advice is needed. If mom is not close to you, I would be honored to hug you for her<hugs>

I plan on getting that hug sweetheart!

 

[Vinny]

Darling

I have alot of hugs saved up for you<hugs>

 

[Kitte]

I want my Mom....I want a magic hole to crawl into...somewhere along the line I lost my ability to do that.
I just know that I could really use my Mom right now....anyone want to fill in?

 

[Vinny]

Mom

Kitte ofcourse I do not have the mom mentality or parts, but what is wrong, I do have a big shoulders to lean on

 

[Rambrat]

Or the magic hole theory. You crawl into a hole and close the lid and POOF
all your problems disappear for a while. Love this idea. You disappear, the problems disappear, and its so easy.
*sigh*

I like the security blanket. No monsters can get to you under the security blanket.