size does matter, big is beautiful..

[midnightwalker]

Thank you for the welcome.

 

[sachiaiko]

Welcome!

Welcome welcome! I'm new too, but everyone here is just absolutely wonderful.. I dont think i've experienced one mean or nasty comment yet, i just love it here!

Thanks to everyone who has been so sweet to us "Vigrins!"

 

[Native Alien]

to all the newer newbies

Welcome

Kallima, now there is an idea.

what about a how to thread for us bigger women on different ways to do things? perhaps one of the members who have been here longer would be able to word it better than i would. just my opinion.

 

[BrownEyes26]

Being sexy is definitely a state of mind. Being a size 14-16, I dont feel big. But comparing yourself to other people is going to get you nowhere. You can only work with what God gave you, and if He/She gave you a nice big body, then you should love and treat it well.
I find I have a lot more dates than my "thinner" gal friends. I think it has a lot to do with my confidence. And men are always attracted to a woman who likes herself, not to those who are always putting themselves down.

 

[sachiaiko]

I have a good friend of mine who is a sie 9, and i'm much larger then her, but i notice she speaks badly about her size or her body often. Its not just her, but many others of my "miniature friends" as i call them often talk badly about their bodies, saying they are fat.

Now, i'm large. And it just boggles my mind that they have such low self esteem, i always tell them that they are beautiful the way they are, but it still blows my mind that some one a size 9 could think of themselves as fat.

I think the confidance factor has a TON to do with how men look at woman. I have noticed the more outgoing and personable and sexy you feel, the more people notice you period.

Personally, if your physically comfortable, then i think big is beautiful.

 

[Huggles]

if i had a $ for evertime i heard...
...you have such a pretty face... [you know the rest]

But Kallima... You DO have a pretty face!

I can't comment on the rest, as I haven't seen it.. <wink> <hint> <hint> <nudge> <nudge>

<grin>

 

[John1980]

Everyone can find things to complain about... You should only watch one thing, what you're saying around people with another size than you. They might not see things the way you do, and you might end up hurting them, even without intending to.

 

[MsAngel]

Confidence

Confidence in how I look is slowly building. Even though I am trying to loose some of this weight... (I want to get back into my mini skirt). I am slowly but surely going to get there. But I live in a state where it seems Men only like the smaller women. Unless of course they are old enough to be my father..lol I had a male friend who's father was always flirting with me. But enough of that. Watching this thread I feel a bit more confident that there are decent loving men out there that will love me for the way I am. I just have to go through all the players and keep my heart intact before I find him. It has been broken many times and I guess that is where I lost some of my confidence. Confidence in myself and my appearance. Along the way I am finding it... slowly but surely!

MsAngel

 

[sachiaiko]

::BUMPS::

I really dont want this thread to die, its such a great thread

 

[GreenEyedGodess]

even venus the greek goddess of love is big n beautiful. love oozes from a a womans swollen belly, her well rounded hips and a bottom to match. it gives all the more scope for kissing her for a loooooong looooooong time.

Yeah, but skinny people need love too!

 

[Mysticcal]

HI all. Just stepping out of the Playground for the first time...kind of scary out here, but I have been posting on the BBW Pics site for awhile and see many familiar faces.

I am a BBW, have been most of my life....and I love myself, have been blessed with some wonderful men at different times during my life that appreciated me, and taught me to appreciate myself. I do hate the "you have a pretty face".....LOL not that I don't appreciate someone thinking that, but we all know what that means when said a particilar way

I really enjoyed reading the posts on here.....thanks for all that shared, and I will enjoy checking in now and then.

Mysti

 

[dreamer]

BBW Bump!

 

[sheath]

BUMP BUMP BUMPPITY BUMP

Piper...piper...piper.

THANK YOU!

S.

 

[Guest]

~~a bump ~~


and a thank you, piper

 

[BreadMan]

Size does matter


Size doees matter.

That is the size of the Heart

 

[CelticFrog]

bumpity bumpity bump bump bump

As I was flitting through old posts of sheath's... cause I love her so much and always get a kick out of the great ideas she presents in the weirdest of places...
I realized I just had to bump this thread because, well, it made me feel better about being big. And lately, I haven't been feeling too spiffy about it. Thanks, y'all... now I don't have to feel so bad about all the gourmet cooking without low fat crap in it that I've been doing lately. Mmm... gotta finish up lunch before I can eat it now.

Ang

 

[sweet T]

Thank-you! It's nice to be appreciated!

 

[sheath]

Re: bumpity bumpity bump bump bump

As I was flitting through old posts of sheath's... cause I love her so much and always get a kick out of the great ideas she presents in the weirdest of places...
I realized I just had to bump this thread because, well, it made me feel better about being big. And lately, I haven't been feeling too spiffy about it. Thanks, y'all... now I don't have to feel so bad about all the gourmet cooking without low fat crap in it that I've been doing lately. Mmm... gotta finish up lunch before I can eat it now.

Ang

Wow. You went THAT FAR back?

I think I'm going to go through my own old posts and see what I wrote way back when! lol

As to this thread...I'm still what would be considered a big girl, and I love it. I feel voluptuous and sexy and desirable. I have wide hips, just right for my man to hold onto...large breasts, just right for overflowing his hands...and a substantial body, so that I can give just as good as I get in bed. I'm not a lightweight, so he doesn't worry about hurting me with his strength. And besides that, he loves to see me in sexy dresses that show all that ample cleavage and just enough curvy leg.

And don't you stop that gourmet cooking! Like someone once told me, the woman who truly enjoys good, hearty food is a woman who doesn't mind excess and abundance in the bedroom.

S.

 

[jeepman6]

Re: Re: bumpity bumpity bump bump bump

Wow. You went THAT FAR back?

I think I'm going to go through my own old posts and see what I wrote way back when! lol

As to this thread...I'm still what would be considered a big girl, and I love it. I feel voluptuous and sexy and desirable. I have wide hips, just right for my man to hold onto...large breasts, just right for overflowing his hands...and a substantial body, so that I can give just as good as I get in bed. I'm not a lightweight, so he doesn't worry about hurting me with his strength. And besides that, he loves to see me in sexy dresses that show all that ample cleavage and just enough curvy leg.

And don't you stop that gourmet cooking! Like someone once told me, the woman who truly enjoys good, hearty food is a woman who doesn't mind excess and abundance in the bedroom.

S.

I couldn't agree with you more Sheath My wife is a larger woman and believe me when I say she doesn't mind excess and abundance in the bedroom, in fact she demands it and this is one husband who aims to please.

 

[watergirl]

Bump!

Hi, ladies!

This was such a nice thread to find tonight - I'm a bbw too, so this was great to see.... thanks to all the guys who shared their voices of love & admiration here!

 

[CelticFrog]

gourmet cooking is one of the best foreplay activities my husband and I have tried yet...

It's like, something about freshly baked bread that I had to slave over and get covered in flour to do...

something about the spices and flavors of food that you don't normally eat at home...

something about presentation of a dish you know you're going to devour in about five minutes so you can get to the bedroom...

I can't help it. I love food. Good thing the sex is great exercise!

Ang

 

[sheath]

something about presentation of a dish you know you're going to devour in about five minutes so you can get to the bedroom...



Ang

Or presenting a dish that will be devoured in the bedroom, eaten from each other's bodies?

Ahem...excuse me while I ask the Music Man what he's craving for...uhhhh...dinner!

S.

 

[juliet123]

nice

 

[prettykitty69]

Is there no more woman out there with an opinion?

Well okay here's my opinion. I happen to think that it's charisma, a glow that fills up a room, that makes people notice you, not your dress size...it really is just about self confidence. But having said I was always a very thin young woman but I put on a serious amount of weight a few years ago. It was really hard for me to accept that fact that I could no longer wear the sexy skimpy clothes and have it look as great on me as it did when I had the dancer's body, or when my breasts blossomed from a 34A to a 38C and couldn't get away with not wearing a bra. And to be honest I never really did accept it, and while I never actually hated myself so to speak I just couldn't stand the way I looked. It wasn't me and have managed in the past two years to go from 185 to 135 pounds, my wedding day weight and thanks to my 4X a week trips to the gym, I am back to being a tight and toned size 6 and am really really happy about it. Maybe I am more shallow than most, incrediably vain even but I love the fact that I'm in my thirties and yet my tummy is as flat and firm as a chick in her early twenties. Yet it's all about personal preference really so more power to women that love their bodies in what ever shape it has, refuse to be limited be it sexually or otherwise by their form, that know how to use their bodies...wink wink and kudos to the men that love those bodies that fit outside the desired/desirable norm...

 

[Tazidevil]

I dunno about the others out there but I would rather my lovely lady eat some ribs than show off hers in great gory detail. As for the rib being eaten, the bigger the animal it's from the better.