Slapping and Insulting

[frogprince2]

My wife is really into the fantasy of aggressive guys who slap and insult her. I can't bring myself to do it, but she really wants it. Should I support her in fulfilling this? Or try to convince her that it's some kind of repressed trauma? She grew up in Uganda and did go through a lot.

 

[barefootgirl69]

If you're not into, don't force yourself unless you are willing to do it.

Don't try to make her feel bad for her fantasy.

Talking things out is best. ASK her where she thinks this may have developed, but don't be surprised if it isn't what you think.

 

[frogprince2]

If you're not into, don't force yourself unless you are willing to do it.

Don't try to make her feel bad for her fantasy.

Talking things out is best. ASK her where she thinks this may have developed, but don't be surprised if it isn't what you think.

We have both agreed that she should find a dominant partner who is into it, and let her fulfill this fantasy. She doesn’t want me to be present when we find the guy. It turns me on, but also scares me.

 

[barefootgirl69]

We have both agreed that she should find a dominant partner who is into it, and let her fulfill this fantasy. She doesn’t want me to be present when we find the guy. It turns me on, but also scares me.

I'm very glad that you have such a relationship that you talk and can share things. I wish you both the best!

 

[frogprince2]

If you're not into, don't force yourself unless you are willing to do it.

Don't try to make her feel bad for her fantasy.

Talking things out is best. ASK her where she thinks this may have developed, but don't be surprised if it isn't what you think.

I’ve asked her where she thinks it developed but she just shrugs and says she wants a rough partner who can make her feel like a submissive woman, etc.

 

[frogprince2]

I'm very glad that you have such a relationship that you talk and can share things. I wish you both the best!

Thanks! I want her to be sexually fulfilled and I don’t want to police her fantasies

 

[frogprince2]

If you're not into, don't force yourself unless you are willing to do it.

Don't try to make her feel bad for her fantasy.

Talking things out is best. ASK her where she thinks this may have developed, but don't be surprised if it isn't what you think.

I would never make her feel bad for her fantasy

 

[goodMoaning67]

This is her

She looks stunning!

 

[frogprince2]

She looks stunning!

Thanks! Would you slap her ?

 

[goodMoaning67]

Thanks! Would you slap her ?

Absolutely. I'd love to dominate her!

 

[frogprince2]

Absolutely. I'd love to dominate her!

Excellent that’s what she’s looking for. Someone who isn’t afraid to slap her while they fuck her

 

[frogprince2]

I personally don’t get it - such a cute face and wants it to be slapped and to have her neck grabbed

 

[Jada59]

How about I send my BF over? He likes to slap. I hate it. I wouldn’t take insults though. I guess I’m no help.

 

[frogprince2]

How about I send my BF over? He likes to slap. I hate it. I wouldn’t take insults though. I guess I’m no help.

How hard does he want to slap?

 

[goodMoaning67]

I personally don’t get it - such a cute face and wants it to be slapped and to have her neck grabbed

I don't know, I can understand why she like ro be submissive tho

 

[frogprince2]

PM me if you want to explore the rough / slapping fetish that many women love

 

[Say_Oy]

Based on Urban Legends I have heard (may or may not apply as true.)
There is a danger to face / head slapping if it shakes the head too much. Think boxers who get Parkinson from getting punched in the head or check out concussion studies. Can also cause retinal damage/detachment, especially in very near sighted people. She should set a Limit on how hard her face gets slapped and possibly have her head held against the forearm (grasp hair, rest cheek on forearm, slap with other hand) or against a wall.
Tit slapping is fun but you should not punch - can cause tumors. Flat hand slapping might be OK, particularly if focused on the surface rather than deep tissue. I like to put my sub on all fours or have her riding me then slap from the side and watch the slapped tit bounce against the other. Basically bat them into swaying. Other patterns let me pretend to be creative.
Ass slapping is fine. I practice that all the time as spanking variations as well as slapping and grabbing a handful while fucking. I also slap the back above the kidneys (but not in the kidney area), pussy and thighs.
When in the mood, my sub loves to be on top while I grab the hair on the back of her head, lay her face against my forearm and then slap her face - not too hard and NOT leaving bruises. Sends her into sub space and turns her on. I do watch for her mood to be right so as not to make it routine.