Slapping and Insulting

frogprince2

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My girlfriend is really into the fantasy of aggressive guys who slap and insult her. I can't bring myself to do it, but she really wants it. Should I support her in fulfilling this? Or try to convince her that it's some kind of repressed trauma? She grew up in Uganda and did go through a lot.
 
If you're not into, don't force yourself unless you are willing to do it.

Don't try to make her feel bad for her fantasy.

Talking things out is best. ASK her where she thinks this may have developed, but don't be surprised if it isn't what you think.
 
If you're not into, don't force yourself unless you are willing to do it.

Don't try to make her feel bad for her fantasy.

Talking things out is best. ASK her where she thinks this may have developed, but don't be surprised if it isn't what you think.
We have both agreed that she should find a dominant partner who is into it, and let her fulfill this fantasy. She doesn’t want me to be present when we find the guy. It turns me on, but also scares me.
 
We have both agreed that she should find a dominant partner who is into it, and let her fulfill this fantasy. She doesn’t want me to be present when we find the guy. It turns me on, but also scares me.
I'm very glad that you have such a relationship that you talk and can share things. I wish you both the best!
 
If you're not into, don't force yourself unless you are willing to do it.

Don't try to make her feel bad for her fantasy.

Talking things out is best. ASK her where she thinks this may have developed, but don't be surprised if it isn't what you think.
I’ve asked her where she thinks it developed but she just shrugs and says she wants a rough partner who can make her feel like a submissive woman, etc.
 
If you're not into, don't force yourself unless you are willing to do it.

Don't try to make her feel bad for her fantasy.

Talking things out is best. ASK her where she thinks this may have developed, but don't be surprised if it isn't what you think.
I would never make her feel bad for her fantasy
 
How about I send my BF over? He likes to slap. I hate it. I wouldn’t take insults though. I guess I’m no help.
 
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