Small cock / penis dom?

Dredden

Wannabe Harem Master
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I’m below average 4.5” x 5.5” but feel very dominant sexually. My wife and I really do have great sex together, but I’ve always fantasized about having a sub or two. I know im probably in the minority, (and I am East-Asian American), but are there any people out there who prefer doms / bulls on the smaller side?
 
The first trans woman who ever fucked me had a cock the same size as yours. She was a sexual dynamo! The first time she fucked me she had an orgasm and then stayed in my ass for a moment until she got hard again and then fucked me to completion a second time. Later that night, she fucked me three more times coming in my ass each time.

In the following days she continued like this, repeatedly fucking me in various positions and coming in my ass several times a day. At night while asleep I would feel her hard cock up against my butt and then bare my ass for her to use until she had her orgasm.

So, there is nothing stopping you from being a bull. This trans girl with her small cock was my bull.
 
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The first trans woman who ever fucked me had a cock the same size as yours. She was a sexual dynamo! The first time she fucked me she had an orgasm and then stayed in my ass for a moment until she got hard again and then fucked me to completion a second time. Later that night, she fucked me three more times coming in my ass each time.

In the following days she continued like this, repeatedly fucking me in various positions and coming in my ass several times a day. At night while asleep I would feel her hard cock up against my butt and then bare my ass for her to use until she had her orgasm.

So, there is nothing stopping you from being a bull.
BW, I'm not being critical by saying this, I truly want to know, but how do you get over the fact that she is really a man? Is the mental aspect different? Surely your rational mind knows the difference. I ask this because I've seen some jaw-dropping trans women out there, but I don't know if I could overcome having sex with them knowing they're really a man, which I'm not attracted to at all.
 
BW, I'm not being critical by saying this, I truly want to know, but how do you get over the fact that she is really a man? Is the mental aspect different? Surely your rational mind knows the difference. I ask this because I've seen some jaw-dropping trans women out there, but I don't know if I could overcome having sex with them knowing they're really a man, which I'm not attracted to at all.
Before I met this woman for the first time, I had the same thoughts. I worried that I would freak out when I saw her cock. When the time came, it was just impossible for me to see her as anything other than a woman. Even seeing her cock, for me it was a woman's cock. This is her.
https://imgbox.com/BhvSy4hg
 
I’m below average 4.5” x 5.5” but feel very dominant sexually. My wife and I really do have great sex together, but I’ve always fantasized about having a sub or two. I know im probably in the minority, (and I am East-Asian American), but are there any people out there who prefer doms / bulls on the smaller side?

Out of curiosity is your wife East Asian as well? I would say many women in that particular lifestyle you'll find are size queens but there are still plenty of other women who aren't and like the man more your size.
 
Before I met this woman for the first time, I had the same thoughts. I worried that I would freak out when I saw her cock. When the time came, it was just impossible for me to see her as anything other than a woman. Even seeing her cock, for me it was a woman's cock. This is her.
https://imgbox.com/BhvSy4hg
She’s quite pretty to me. Both of you are lucky I guess!
 
I’m below average 4.5” x 5.5” but feel very dominant sexually. My wife and I really do have great sex together, but I’ve always fantasized about having a sub or two. I know im probably in the minority, (and I am East-Asian American), but are there any people out there who prefer doms / bulls on the smaller side?
I find that particularly attractive! With lots of charisma I think my wife would too.
 
Before I met this woman for the first time, I had the same thoughts. I worried that I would freak out when I saw her cock. When the time came, it was just impossible for me to see her as anything other than a woman. Even seeing her cock, for me it was a woman's cock. This is her.
https://imgbox.com/BhvSy4hg
Yep...I see what you mean. I guess when you get pass the mental stigma of your ingrained conditioning, you would probably wonder why you didn't enjoy this type of love sooner. Thanks for your honest response...
 
She’s SE-Asian but not first gen or a size queen and she genuinely seems to have fulfilling orgasms with me. It’s just hard to find any media with smaller guys being the dom

If by media you mean things like amatuer stuff. I think a guy's who are smaller than average are less likely to want to show it on camera than say a guy whos 7 inches or bigger. I wouldnt go off of porn alone. Even still I don't see why you should have any issues courting other women and getting them into bed. Its more about mindset. Im a bit over 7" down below and im sure there are some women who might find me repulsive.
 
If by media you mean things like amatuer stuff. I think a guy's who are smaller than average are less likely to want to show it on camera than say a guy whos 7 inches or bigger. I wouldnt go off of porn alone. Even still I don't see why you should have any issues courting other women and getting them into bed. Its more about mindset. Im a bit over 7" down below and im sure there are some women who might find me repulsive.
Agreed that it’s more about my mindset and presentation (confidence) than my physical attributes. Thanks for your reply!
 
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