BadBard
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You are absolutely right. Sometimes it is hard to put yourself out there...but be an adult about it and let the other person know what's going on...don't leave them spinning in the breeze and wondering what happened!
Just to be stupidly emotionally honest for a moment in a bizarrely public way... a man I’ve been talking to from Lit for quite awhile was supposed to meet me this week. We had a time and a place and then he disappeared leaving me all worked up with no one to play with (after I’d altered plans to make space for him). It hurt a bit, now being ghosted by him for a second time (after the first he reached out multiple times apologizing claiming his insecurity gave him cold feet). I post this here to say please don’t do that to people. It felt like such shit and has popped back in my head occasionally this week leaving me wondering if he’s actually okay or if something happened or if he didn’t actually find me attractive so I was sort of a fool to get excited and I’ve had these ugly moments of insecurity.
If you change your mind about meeting someone or continuing to speak with them, just let them know. Lie or don’t. Don’t just stand someone up and ghost them.
This has been a public service announcement from Nameless Desiring.
The more you know. ::jingle::
You are absolutely right. Sometimes it is hard to put yourself out there...but be an adult about it and let the other person know what's going on...don't leave them spinning in the breeze and wondering what happened!