Spankings-Naughty or Nice?

Very interesting thoughts

Stocking Girl
Love your thoughts on the subject and I am a huge fan of silky sexy legs
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Both.
She has to be naughty to get my attention. Then, I give her said attention, which is me being nice.
 
I have recently discovered my submissive need. I love to be spanked and then caressed with light touches and kisses. I love to see the red mark on my ass cheek. It makes me so wet.
 
Male over goddess knee

It seems all the posts are about women getting spanked by men. Are there no women who like to take a man over their knee? I get so horny and hard thinking about being laid across someone’s lap and having my bare ass spanked with their hand. After the hand maybe we could advance to a ruler. The spanking administered for my pleasure. To relinquish all control.
 
I give and receive spankings go to pleasure only. My first BDSM play involved a spanking with a hairbrush. I loved it and cried when she stopped. It felt so good and hurt sooooo much and she was so wonderful.
 
It seems all the posts are about women getting spanked by men. Are there no women who like to take a man over their knee? I get so horny and hard thinking about being laid across someone’s lap and having my bare ass spanked with their hand. After the hand maybe we could advance to a ruler. The spanking administered for my pleasure. To relinquish all control.

the relinquishing of control is the secret , for that moment to be purely some one elses toy ,oh my
 
spankings for pain or pleasure

spankings , are not something you can put a label on, for me and my girl, they are always pleasurable,
For the bum I'm spanking it would be a mixture of sharp stinging , to a warm heat, it's more than causing pain, I don't spank to hurt, it's the enjoyment of control, the fact that she is allowing you, is such a powerful feeling,
It is not that she has to do something bad, to be spanked, but her need to please you, that she offers her bare bum for your pleasure
 
My wife and I experimented with spanking only once. I bent her over our bed. Then gave her bare ass a number of swats. I absolutely loved it. But unfortunately she did not.
 
My wife and I experimented with spanking only once. I bent her over our bed. Then gave her bare ass a number of swats. I absolutely loved it. But unfortunately she did not.

Did you consider trying that with roles reversed?
 
I prefer giving spankings over the knee to submissives. I make sure their clit is against my knee and give erotic spankings (fast upward motions). I thought I'd like to give a spanking to someone grabbing their ankles, but the lady kept falling over. Spanking a sub bent over with their elbows on a bed is OK, but just not the same for me
 
It completely depends on my partner. Gentle and easy spankings in a caring and paternal way for beginners, or strict behavior modification sessions for experienced ones. Hand is my favorite since it's more intimate and sensual
 
I love a good spanking but for me it’s the pleasure. I haven’t ever been into punishment spankings
 
What is your favorite method to give a spanking? Is it for punishment or pleasure?
I would love to give either. I am in a relationship where I can get spankings. Very hard ones. But my partner is not into receiving.

I would love to be in a situation where I can set a safe word and try to take a woman to the edge of what she can take. So it could be considered a punishment but I would want her to be enjoying it in some way.
 
Myself personally.. spankings are to be playful and used in such manner... *spank good girl*, *spank c'mon we're gonna be late*, *spank... time to fuck* 😊
 
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