Spouse/SO admits a secret fantasy—did you love it or hate it?

[UtilityCurve]

What he said!
I don’t understand how someone can Not have fantasies but according to my wife, she has never had a fantasy

Common, even widespread (interesting word to pick) but in my experience, dishonest. Harsh. Let's dial that back to "untruthful."

It wasn't guys that made "My Secret Garden" a mega-best-seller in the 1970's, nor filled the cinemas for "50 Shades" or updated the "Garden" for the 2020's ("Want" by Gillian Anderson--yes, that Gillian Anderson).

 

[Sgts19]

She told you this scenario? With all the details? That’s insanely hot! Even if it never happens, just hearing that she’s thought this out in detail is enough to get me hard. Lol! That’s awesome.

She did tell me that although she probably knew I'd get hard as a rock. She's also told me about men she'd been with before me, who they were, what they did and how much she enjoyed this and that with them

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

If he () wanted me to engage in a fantasy with/for him, the answer is...

Fuck yes!!

Because I know his desires are not crude, rude or degrading to anyone... Especially me

I know what I know already... And love him, so I love his fantasies!!

 

[Solsurfer]

She did tell me that although she probably knew I'd get hard as a rock. She's also told me about men she'd been with before me, who they were, what they did and how much she enjoyed this and that with them

What a great woman. A true giver and honest sharer of details. I love it.

 

[sea7688]

my wife shared that she would like to fucked over her desk in her office by me

 

[Solsurfer]

my wife shared that she would like to fucked over her desk in her office by me

That’s super hot.

 

[IARainman]

my wife shared that she would like to fucked over her desk in her office by me

You gonna make it happen?

 

[sea7688]

i did. and she blew me in her chair

 

[eaee]

Two women with whom I've had detailed discussions have told me they had no fantasies. How their minds work I do not know because one of them "worried" a number of times that the wind would blow her skirt up around her head and loved to tease the neighbors by appearing on our deck in a bikini doing "things". The other woman denied having fantasies but got very aroused when a male companion told her he'd like to lick all over her body. Go figure.

 

[Mjr89]

New to the fourm and came across this.
I told.my partner of 10 years I wanted her to cuck me, was more her taking control from me.who was very dominant for years.

So this goes on for a while alot kf fantasy talk she got into it, SPH talk talking a out fucking friends, family members letting people know etc, all while having amazing sex life. But I took it to far with the joining in stuff trying BI stuff, she started to call.me a bitch and worthless day to day out with the bedroom. She ended up going out more and denied me sex after apart from giving her head normally if she we t out and had a drink she was crazy in bed.

Long story short...she ended up meeting someone else and fucking him daily, spli up with me and everyone know it was because of my fantasys....but I still want to the thoughts of it

 

[FD_23]

Goddam that makes me hard!!!

Glad I could make you hard. I enjoy the thought you may be playing with yourself to my story

 

[cadman7777]

Sounds like you wife was watching episode 4.3 of Industry.

Just started season 4 now

 

[cadman7777]

My wife claims she doesn't fantasize.....my ex said the same thing......I did with my ex all the time and she didn't want to go along with it for years but eventually I think I wore her down and she went along with it after some time

 

[Mostlyherefortheporn]

Once we had dated for awhile & she felt she could trust me, my girlfriend confessed that her ultimate fantasy was to be fucked by a werewolf then have her throat ripped out.

Um, yeah…

This was part of the same conversation she confessed she was turned on by pain and suggested what she would really like would for me to beat on her some as foreplay. Not that it mattered - I’m not slapping or punching a woman under any circumstances - but she didn’t want some sort of rough but safe roleplay. She genuinely asked me to beat the crap out of her.

I have no idea what I could have said or done to give her the idea that I might go along with this, but she misjudged me. I got out of there as fast as humanly possible and called her the next day to break up with her.

 

[Raybies93]

Glad I could make you hard. I enjoy the thought you may be playing with yourself to my story

Had a nice intense orgasm

 

[Raybies93]

Once we had dated for awhile & she felt she could trust me, my girlfriend confessed that her ultimate fantasy was to be fucked by a werewolf then have her throat ripped out.

Um, yeah…

This was part of the same conversation she confessed she was turned on by pain and suggested what she would really like would for me to beat on her some as foreplay. Not that it mattered - I’m not slapping or punching a woman under any circumstances - but she didn’t want some sort of rough but safe roleplay. She genuinely asked me to beat the crap out of her.

I have no idea what I could have said or done to give her the idea that I might go along with this, but she misjudged me. I got out of there as fast as humanly possible and called her the next day to break up with her.

I love slapping a woman’s ass tits and face IF SHE ASKS FOR IT This one sounds like a nut case. She needs a tattoo that says STAY AWAY

 

[Mostlyherefortheporn]

I love slapping a woman’s ass tits and face IF SHE ASKS FOR IT This one sounds like a nut case. She needs a tattoo that says STAY AWAY

So it seems. I never spoke to her again or heard much about her, so I never did find out what her deal was. In hindsight, there were plenty of signs that the side of her I started dating was a facade, but I was young at the time and she was attractive and the sex was great and… Young and dumb, lol. I definitely should have asked questions a month earlier when she got a tattoo and was super horny all weekend.

Chalk it up to inexperience. We only dated a few months, so I guess I should be grateful she didn’t wait intil two years in to rip off the mask.

 

[driveshaft]

My wife is also pretty conservative about sharing her fantasies. However, when she's horny, she can be a little more vocal. Recently, when we are being sexual, she talks a lot about someone watching us, or making videos and posting them. These fantasies are huge turn ons for me and I'd love to be able to share pics and vids of her. When sex is over and I ask about whether she'd really enjoy doing that, she just seems embarrassed and won't really talk about it. Based on what she has said, I think with some encouragement she might possibly open up more sexually and explore some of these ideas. She's not really aware of my own online activities here and similar places, but I wish she would play here.

Some of her ideas about people watching have also included them masturbating while they watch. Also super hot! I think she's hesitant about sharing because she's testing my reactions. I'm guessing she would like to have a threesome or even just sex with other men, but is scared to say. I'm slowly trying to push the lines a little further all the time!