Stop a man from cumming

[JigglyJoan]

Hi peeps. It's been a while since i posted but i'd really like to hear any pointers people have for stopping a man from cumming. Now i'm not talking about the guy "holding it in" (pc muscle) but rather stopping a man from cumming.

i've read if u pulled gently on the scrotum and keep the balls from pulling up - this will work. however, i've had little success with my man when using this technique. i also read, just today in a cock ring forum that these are designed to prevent a man from cumming in the same fashion.

am i just doing something wrong? do i need to be a little more forcefull when doing the technique? ty

 

[Lust Engine]

He's got to want to do it.

You can help but if you think you have that power over him, then I think you've got it wrong. Why not ask him when he needs to hold back?? He can control it with his own rhythm. Only he knows when he's on the verge so have him take the responsibility.

 

[emap]

If he's about to cum and you don't want him to yet, wrap your hand around him and squeeze, he'll get the feeling of an orgasm somewhat, but he won't shoot and you can keep going after he's calmed down a little.

Tell you the truth though, I find it funner if he just slows down or stops until he's not close anymore and starts going again. Easier to manage unless your going down on him. That way he has a better orgasm and you will to, it's kind of like teasing during sex.

 

[cremebrulee]

He's got to want to do it.

You can help but if you think you have that power over him, then I think you've got it wrong. Why not ask him when he needs to hold back?? He can control it with his own rhythm. Only he knows when he's on the verge so have him take the responsibility.

I think the original post was more about not LETTING the guy cum and how to stop him from doing so ~ is that right? I was under the impression JigglyJoan was saying she was to be the one in control and the guy would have no choice, more of a Dominant and submissive situation?
Somebody correct me if I am wrong.
Last I heard, you sorta not-too-gently pinch the head and let go of all else til things settle down a bit, but I have not tried that technique myself.

Interesting...

~Creme

 

[usmale04]

Actually, it does sound like you were asking how to not allow him to cum, which at times can be very exciting. To take control of him for a time, tell him not to cum and then physically not let him cum. And yes, the "squeeze technique" works on most men I think (it does on me!). You can do a google search on it for more explicit directions, but the post about grabbing him is not really correct - I think that will have the opposite effect. You want to stop him for a few seconds (10 or so) and firmly grasp his head with your forefinger and thumb and squeeze. He will lose some of his erection, but that is the fun part....getting it back up again!

Good luck, let us know!

 

[Moi]

How do you stop a man from cumming?




Marry him.

Thank you.

You've been a lovely audience...

 

[cordite]

The squeeze method works. In my case (and probably others) the head has to be squeezed and held perfectly still or else the sensation will be intensely pleasurable and have the opposite effect. There's definitely some fun to be had with that method.

A more reliable method for me is to find what I think is the urethra running along the underside of the penis. I haven't checked out other men so I don't know in general but on me it's pretty easy to find as it is raised and runs down the center (looks kind of like a vein but it's very straight). Anyway, press at the base and hold. You'll have to discover what a comfortable but firm enough pressure will be. I've found that while I want to cum, this will keep me from doing so.

Good luck and have fun!

 

[Exciteher]

A more reliable method for me is to find what I think is the urethra running along the underside of the penis. I haven't checked out other men so I don't know in general but on me it's pretty easy to find as it is raised and runs down the center (looks kind of like a vein but it's very straight). Anyway, press at the base and hold. You'll have to discover what a comfortable but firm enough pressure will be. I've found that while I want to cum, this will keep me from doing so.

Good luck and have fun!

That method works well on me too, and its easy to do. Just do it soon enough!

Another thing that may work is to "de-tumesce" by giving a very strong "bear hug".Light touches are tumescent, a turn-on, firmer or hard touches tend to turn-off, full or widespread body pressure will help quickly dispell tumesense, by mixing light and heavy pressures or touches, one can keep their partner (male or female) on the edge of orgasm for an extended time (hours even) by controlling the feeling of wanting to cum. A tantra technique, takes some dicipline and practice.

 

[ultra99]

Bite his nipple.

Works for me.

 

[pinkeden]

Bite his nipple.

Works for me.

I'm not a guy (but I'm sure there are many who can agree with me here), but if someone bit MY nipple as I was about to come I think it'd probably make push me over the edge into a mind blowing orgasm - not stop it..



But then, we're all different

 

[pupper]

the "squeeze technique" works on most men I think (it does on me!).

When you master the squeeze technique it is the best way I have found to delay orgasm.Work those pc muscles through kegals and you can get to the point where "the squeeze technique"becomes second nature at a certain point though I can't squeeze it off.the point of no return so to speak.

 

[redfunguy]

if she poots during play then that will pretty much take care of it


crass, i know

 

[Scrofulus Scriv]

I can only hope that you're referring to delays instead of actual stoppage. The latter might possibly defeat the purpose of the entire exercise

 

[SummerMorning]

Like somebody said - press the urethra. Stops us ejaculating - at least for a while.

 

[therockap1]

never had that done, gotta have my lady try that on me

 

[James Bond 007]

How do you stop a man from cumming?




Marry him.

Thank you.

You've been a lovely audience...

Moi will be here all week. Tip generously and try the veal!



007

 

[pink swirl]

The squeeze method works. In my case (and probably others) the head has to be squeezed and held perfectly still or else the sensation will be intensely pleasurable and have the opposite effect. There's definitely some fun to be had with that method.

LOL! Last time we tried that, I ended up with an unexpected spray on my face. Practice makes perfect, I guess.