Straight or Gay or Bi...or just curious

[Guest]

Damn...I've been looking around for the longest time. I can't find anyone I know personaly that I'd approach. I can't believe you guys are so lucky. Good for you...enjoy!

 

[eddie03]

Even though I have yet to have the pleasure of being with a man I know that I am bisexual. I am married and my wife supports me 100% being bisexual. She has even so far as to let me know that if Mr. Right comes along I am to jump on it/him. The biggest issue that keeps me from taking the next step is std's.

The closest I have come to being with man was that an exgirlfriend who had a male friend that could never get laid and so she wanted to give him a sympathy fuck. She didn't mind me being with other women and would watch but never join in. I came home from work one night and found her nude spread eagle on the bed. He had came over and dumped two loads in her and I missed him only by a few minutes. I didn't realize that they hadn't used a condom until I tasted his cream. For a split second I was shocked (not sure why) but then quickly became a turn on and I sucked and swallowed his load from her. While we fucked she fingered me and asked me if I liked his cum. I told her that I did and later she attempted to arrange it so he and I could play but he only seemed interested to only do me to get more pussy from her which wasn't a turn on for either of us.

More recently unfortunately I made the mistake of when my best bud 10+ years told me that he had man on man experiences when he was younger. I thought that he was hitting on me and could see him looking at the growing tent in my pants and I his. But when I suggested that we 'experment' he got upset and or friendship ended. Its really a bummer since he would have been a perfect guy on the side. I still look back at that night confused.

Sorry to ramble on there but yeah I would consider myself bisexual and two guys kissing to me is just as much of a turn on as two girls kissing but thats just me.

 

[Cycle Tom]

I guess I would be classified as curious. I would like to know what another man's cock woould feel lie in myhand an my mouth.

 

[flint9]

definitly curious,would luv to try oral and anal,giving and recieving.

 

[tortuou5]

Even though I have yet to have the pleasure of being with a man I know that I am bisexual. I am married and my wife supports me 100% being bisexual. She has even so far as to let me know that if Mr. Right comes along I am to jump on it/him. The biggest issue that keeps me from taking the next step is std's.

More recently unfortunately I made the mistake of when my best bud 10+ years told me that he had man on man experiences when he was younger. I thought that he was hitting on me and could see him looking at the growing tent in my pants and I his. But when I suggested that we 'experment' he got upset and or friendship ended. Its really a bummer since he would have been a perfect guy on the side. I still look back at that night confused.

yes. std is the main concern if you're married cuz you don't want to spread it to your wife.

i'm sorry to hear about the end of your friendship with your best bud. i have a best bud like yours too. well, he didn't actually tell me about any man on man experience but he had kinda hinted something like "it's probably easier being with a man" a few times when he was having relationship problems with his long term girlfriend (they broke up eventually). i hadn't realized i was bi back then and he's now married with another girl. and now i always wonder if he really had that in him. and being best buds and all, i don't think i'd risk our friendship by trying to find out.

 

[george51]

I know it is easier said than done, but I think a separate friend for these purposes is the way it would work. Just finding that type of friend may be the problem.

 

[mannis]

What ever you fancy

Guys, this is a great thread, but the more I read the more I conclude that taking that first step is the biggest obstacle. I found that joining a website and advertising your needs is a great doorway to achieving your craving. There are several sites which cater for Bi guys, I,ve registered with two and I,ve met quite a few men who are similarly inclined, i.e undie wearing, dressing, wanking, sucking and if the moment takes you, fucking. But mainly it,s getting over the nervousness and taking that great step into another world of sex. But think about this guys, imagine dying without knowing!?, just keep that though in your head next time you are fantasising and wanking yourself off.

PMs welcome guys.

 

[Wyldfire]

Not having read the whole thread I have to say I am sexual. Does one gender or the other really constrain us? I am in a poly relationship though so I guess that makes me the real odd bird huh?

 

[debbie92]

I'm Bi but i'm a virgin, i've kissed both boys and girls and a female friend has touched me but i not sure if i would have a full relationship with another girl but wouldnt say no without actually trying that.

 

[Tomr]

Straight but VERY bi-curious. LOVE to look at pictures of cut cocks and ass. Would even love to suck one someday. I can deep throat dildos.

 

[AliasAl]

Results so far

This thread seems to confirm what I thought when I started it. Lots of guys who are 'straight' seem to harbour thoughts of activities of some kind or other with another guys cock.....wanking, sucking or fucking either way. But no man on man kissing!! you cannot beat male/female kissing. I love to see guys cum as I relate to what they are feeling...so I guess many guys would love to feel a cock pulse, shoot and cum..either in hand, moth or ass. a cock is more dynamic than a soft, smooth, wet pussy..more to see and feel. It's a pity I didn't know more bi-guys....

 

[Cabeza]

I think a lot of guys start out just fantasizing about cock, but once you've done it a few times, kissing and other things start to feel natural and hot.

 

[drifter1962]

Very curious married guy

Never touched or tasted another guy's cock, but I'd love to try! I dream about rubbing and licking and sucking a hot musky cock, and feeling it throb and pulse in my mouth before it shoots cum down my throat and on my face.

 

[ilike2try]

FWIW, Bethany, I'm one guy that love kissing another man, as a prelude to going down on his erect cock and sucking him off. I'll get oral with a man all over, in every way. Deep, passionate, tongue -sucking kissing is about as oral as it gets. Besides, it makes a male partner even harder and hornier and ready for milking.

I'm bi. I love kissing and making out with other girls while my boyfriend watches and masturbates. But I think it's interesting that so many guys' comments here say they aren't interested in kissing... just sex. To me, kissing is SUCH a turn on!

-Bethany

 

[klippert]

Not an out looking Bi

straight enough. though I have had three separate M/M experiences. One involved kissing..... didn't much care for it. The last was the best.... A summer hook-up with a married cpl...... the other two all oral....

90% of the time... I'm checking out the ladies...

 

[rm1969]

the best of both worlds

I am definately bi, but so far only orally. I have a regular couple of guys I get together with to suck cock, but I have yet to find the guy to fuck my ass. My wife fucks my ass with strap on and we both love that but I want to find somebody that I'm comfortable enough with to take my anal virginity. I keep looking and hope that this is the summer of action!!!

 

[SilverOkie]

I am a bi sexual male, an older one being 63 year old, but I have only been doing anything for about two years ago. Curiosity got the best of me and I asked a bi friend of mine if I could suck his. Why did I waste all of those other years? I liked it and I found out how good men can suck cock.

 

[Chrissi]

Well I guess I don't have to say what I am

 

[Hitchiker69]

It's interesting how a lot of the guys here are pretty clear about the no kissing thing - I'm exactly the same. I just don't really find men attractive - I couldn't fall in love with a guy like I can with a woman.

Having said that . . . when I'm horny, I'm horny, and I'll have sex with anyone!

I'd love to try anything and everything with a guy. I love things in my anus, and the idea of something warm and alive inside me is incredible, especially if the guy is reaching around and masturbating me.

The same thing the other way around is just as enticing, with me buried deep inside him, reaching around and playing with another cock.

Even just masturbating each other would be pretty exciting. I mean, something so familiar, yet at the same time completely different would be a very interesting and sexy experience.

I think the experience would be best with someone completely anonymous and unknown to me, otherwise I'd probably just feel too inhibited.

Like others have said, PM me if you want to talk about this more.

I'm like you...all my man on man sex has been one nighters anonymous sex with guys I'll never see again. That's allowed me to cut loose all inhibitions, and fully enjoy every thing we could do together.
Man on man sex is SO GOOD! Guys really know how to please each other. And I remember beibg so surprised that guys wanted to rim me, and then have me fuck their asses. I'd never thought of the anus as a sex organ.
And what a switch....girls are so soft, curvy, wet and yielding/receptive. Guys are hard, hairy, muscular and sometimes agressive, sometimes passive/receptive.
I'm so glad I didn't miss out on gay sex. I would have missed so much pleasure.
I get hard just thinking about all the gay sex that I enjoyed, and I fantasize about that which I missed out on....coulda woulda shoulda...
I lived in Sydney for a few years. A very gay town. Opportunities were everywhere. I enjoyed a lot of them, and missed a lot too.

 

[mrpbx]

I know it can be hot....

Many years ago I had a fling with an older man; he was in his 40's and I in my 20's. He seduced me and, though it confused me somewhat at the time, I must say the sex was very hot: as hot as any sex I've had with women. It was a real eye-opener: I realize that sex is sex regardless of gender and that it can be good or not-so-good either way. Lucky for me this sex was great because it was my 1st same sex experience. Shortly thereafter I had a little hookup with someone else and it was not so good: furtive, nervous, impatient; basically a waste of time. I haven't had any male encounters since then.....I got married 20 years ago and though my wife knows I've been with guys in the past, I've never pursued anything.
Lately I've thinking about it and even answered a couple of CL adds but never gotten past the email phase: sorry to flake on you guys! The correspondence gets me pretty worked up, but I haven't quite found the right person yet. It might happen though!

 

[Pittdude1972]

I know...too bad I'm not in Idaho.LOL

Hi. Just giving my two cents worth. I have never done anything, but I have had a few friends that I know that I grew up with that came out of the closet that I wish I would have known that they were gay back when we had sleepovers when we were back in Junior high. I am still friends with one of them, but he is not the cleanest person, nor does he know I have fantasies of sucking cock, Because he knows my wife too and might say something to her. I'd say that if I were really presented the opportunity, here's how it would go, They'd have to be clean though: I'd push whoever the guy was down on the bed and go straight for his zipper, pull his pants off and go apeshit on his dick with my mouth, I'd really like to deepthroat it and slobber all over that cock, I'd grab it with a hand and jerk it while I slathered that knobhead with my mouth, then when he was about to come, I'd have him stand up and I'd continue my mouthwork on my kness and let him shoot all over my face, in my mouth, I'd love to feel it splatter all over the side of my face, all over my forehead, and I would make sure to catch some on my lips and in my mouth too, then I'd suck his head until every last drop oozed out on my tongue and I'd rub it on my face to get some cum off of my face and I'd lick it off his cock too, then I'd show my mouth filled with cum to him, then swallow it to turn him on some more. Too bad no one is in Idaho.

 

[shark968]

I'm straight, but very curious. So I guess it would be bi-curious. Just too big of a chicken to do anything about it. Had something setup once and cancelled it before the other person could head my way. Very nerve wracking.

 

[in4more]

FWIW, Bethany, I'm one guy that love kissing another man, as a prelude to going down on his erect cock and sucking him off. I'll get oral with a man all over, in every way. Deep, passionate, tongue -sucking kissing is about as oral as it gets. Besides, it makes a male partner even harder and hornier and ready for milking.

Actually you'd have to put me in the "I don't mind kissing" category too. I agree with you both that hot kissing heightens the anticipation of what might take place. The one time I made out with a gay friend of mine when we'd both had a little to drink at a club was the first time I actually said out loud to another man that if he'd take me home, I'd let him do anything to me if I could do the same for him. His boyfriend got a bit jealous because we both knew he'd had a crush on me and they left shortly after even though I told him I'd let them both do me if they wanted.

I think that in my situation, anything that goes on when I finally get the chance to be with another guy will be good as long as we're both enjoying it. And if that includes some hot kissing to get things rolling, then open your mouth because here comes my tongue.

 

[jays78]

Actually you'd have to put me in the "I don't mind kissing" category too. I agree with you both that hot kissing heightens the anticipation of what might take place. The one time I made out with a gay friend of mine when we'd both had a little to drink at a club was the first time I actually said out loud to another man that if he'd take me home, I'd let him do anything to me if I could do the same for him. His boyfriend got a bit jealous because we both knew he'd had a crush on me and they left shortly after even though I told him I'd let them both do me if they wanted.

I think that in my situation, anything that goes on when I finally get the chance to be with another guy will be good as long as we're both enjoying it. And if that includes some hot kissing to get things rolling, then open your mouth because here comes my tongue.

I'm bi-curious, and agree with you 100%. If I'm goinf to be with a man I want the whole experiance, kissing, groping and fucking.!!!

 

[haurni]

On the straight side of bi, here. Had a few MM experiences in my teens and just recently met up with a guy I met here and sucked his cock a few times, which I really enjoyed. I believe that I could have an ongoing intimate relationship with a man if I really liked him but, all other things being equal, I'd go with a woman.