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[jenlovesamy]

Ducklover, Nightswan, I love you both. Dearly.

 

[Lust Engine]

And if there is something wrong with you, I hope to hell it's contagious, we need more men like you!

Who needs to be cured?? Not I!

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[jenlovesamy]

Orchid, you take all the good ones!

Wait, I have a few good ones myself, hehe...

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Lust Engine]

LE: I think we'll have to quarantine you. There's room at my place

I understand your place is snug but I think I can fit in.

oh...you meant your place of residence.

 

[nightswan]

Ducklover,thanks for your contribution:i agree with you completely,especially about the happiness of my partner being the most important thing.There's must be a disease around.For me ,there's nothing better than takin' care of the person i'm with,from every point of wiew,making the edgness of everyday life a bit smoother and funnier with my actions.
I must add that,in a way,one of the feeling i was having was to be taken care of,in a new way.Believe it or not,i've felt like a baby again,like i was a little child and someone was cuddling me,holding me,,caressing me;her weight on mine,her mouth on my neck,kissing it,near my ear,whispering,feeling her excitement and emotions building up..i'm sure a woman can understand that.It's completely different from normal intercourse,where usually,i am in charge ,usually(because i want to take care of her).Total relaxation,trust and lettin myself go di make me feel no pain,and even i i would have felt it a bit,it wouldn't been important at all,there was so much going on.And she was so overwhelmed,what more i could 've asked?

Only one criticism,tough:i'm more than happy to the way this thread is evolving,but where are the contributions from the other half of the sky? Apart from the ladies who have been so kind in expressing their thoughts,it seems more like a thread where men do the main speaking.Maybe i should've changed the main question



Thanks,to all of you.I hope to have expressed myself properly.

 

[bharman4102]

well, this is all pretty interesting...loved hearing the guys experiences, especially since gf and i have been talking about this for like 3 months now. i've even looked at some toys at an adult store to just get an idea of what it might be like.

thanks for the posts, i might have to show them to gf later....

 

[jenlovesamy]

The strange thing is I had no interest in doing this until I read this topic, now, it seems to be all I can think about. The guy I'm interested in told me he's interested too so we're talking HUGE turn on for me now, but the main thing is, like someone said before, this isn't something I think I could do with a one night stand type of deal, this does have to be a matter of trust. Because I've been able to open my orifices sexually it does seem well, not just fair, but definitely a serious expression of trust that a man could do the same thing. I'll know our relationship has really hit the high point when he lets me share this with him.

And sorry if I've previously been too tongue tied to make any coherent sense, hehe...

 

[amsterdam]

Keep us informed...

Be sure to let us have all the details when it happens. Doesn't sound like it'll be too long!

Have you got a suitable "weapon" yet? If you have, put it on and take a snap to add to your already impressive picture thread. Cheers

Amsterdam

 

[jenlovesamy]

hehe, no strap on yet, and thanks for the compliment! I think I'm going to move here, my town is full of negative assholes, hehe...

 

[Lust Engine]

hehe, no strap on yet, and thanks for the compliment! I think I'm going to move here, my town is full of negative assholes, hehe...

Is it time to move onto greener pastures??

 

[jenlovesamy]

Yes LE, this IS greener pastures, hehe, I'm moving here!

 

[Guest]

well,since it's for research purposes......
I've loved the feeling of not being in control(yet i was,more than usual),of relaxing and just having someone taking care of me,her hands on me,her mouth,on my body,then there.Feeling her behind me,her gentleness and the complete trust on my side.Homosexuality fears didn't bother me at all,the only thing counting was me and her,together.
Then,her hands on me,the gently pushing, a long,slow breathing to relax myself,the incredible feeling of opening up in both a phisycal and emotional way,accepting her inside of me,wanting her there.
Then,slowly ,she was in,becoming a part of me.What a strange,beautiful sensation,a wonderful sense of surrender.
Her body on mine,her nipples caressing the skin of my back,her breast there,her hands on my hips .Most of all, the new sensation of experiencing pleasure from a totally different side of myself,like another world,our hearts beating together,our bodies like one thing.I was so happy to make her experience a bit of what i feel when i was inside her.And it was the same for me,understanding what goes on during penetration,from her side.
Pleasure-the physical one-did sink in,more and more,yet so strange,since no direct cock stimulation was involved.All the sensation did begin to roll up and mount like a wave,i did thrust backwards to feel more her skin on mine...til we both did come together,more for the overhelming emotions than anything else.It was a great moment,so intimate,maybe more intimate
than during intercourse,since there was a bit of role reversal.Hence more trust was needed and more baring of the soul was requested.
To cut a long story short(still awake there? ).I feel more a man,now,more complete,happy to have experienced that.And the pleasure was overhelming,at least to me.Mostly for the spiritual bonding.
I must add acouple things:
first ,i have liberated myself from all the stupid prejudices regarding what a man's supposed to be,and i feel more man now than before:Hence homophobia donsn't bother me anymore.So,maybe for me it's a different perspective.
SecondinkOrchid,i didn't have any prostate stimulation,yet the orgasm was way strong.I've tried that,without great results.I have another "magic" spot inside myself that makes me go crazy everytime it's involved in the play,triggering mindblowing orgasms.
there must be something 's wrong with me .
Thanks for all the great compliments,i hope to have explained a bit my point of wiew.For other details,i would prefer pm's.
Just a bit shy,believe it or not.

Best wishes to you all,




Nightswan

This was very very well said . Made me feel things ... And I am becoming quite bi-curious . I wonder if anyone can bring input from a F/F point of view . I know it's extremely sexy and very emotional to do this with a man you love and care for & trust ... but with another woman? I know my S/O would never agree to let me try strap on sex with him . But it is a fantasy . One that won't go away

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Guest]

Hmm. Do you think he'd let you fuck me with a strap-on if we let him watch??? I'd definitely like to try that.

*perk* I know he would ... any man who says no lol , would be lying! It's getting warm in here!

 

[nightswan]

you're both so cruel, .writing this .LOL

 

[Guest]

you're both so cruel, .writing this .LOL

awww feeling warm?

 

[islandman]

I'm going to stay on this thread for awhile........

 

[nightswan]

warm?i'm under the cold shower,ready to open it up!

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Guest]

So how would you like me, maybe bent over the couch, or do you have other ideas?

Missionary maybe so I can see your face as I enter you? Or maybe on the staircase in front of me so I can mount you doggy style and do a slow thrust ... building ....

 

[DuckLover]

The strange thing is I had no interest in doing this until I read this topic, now, it seems to be all I can think about. The guy I'm interested in told me he's interested too so we're talking HUGE turn on for me now, but the main thing is, like someone said before, this isn't something I think I could do with a one night stand type of deal, this does have to be a matter of trust. Because I've been able to open my orifices sexually it does seem well, not just fair, but definitely a serious expression of trust that a man could do the same thing. I'll know our relationship has really hit the high point when he lets me share this with him.

I'm glad we were able to inspire you! This kind of situation is a major part of what I love about the boards-- a mild curiosity can be explored, learned about, and safely develop into a serious desire to try something new in a safe, healthy, and positive way.

You're right about the trust and intimacy. Trust is crucial, and that doesn't develop in a one-night-stand, not even in most fuck-buddy relationships. And even if I did TRUST someone enough (say a long-term friend who was a fuck-buddy), I don't think I would share this level of intimacy with anyone to whom I wasn't seriously committed emotionally.

 

[DuckLover]

Woo hoo!

Hmm. Do you think he'd let you fuck me with a strap-on if we let him watch??? I'd definitely like to try that.

I enthusiastically volunteer to be the videographer!! And if MistressRain's bf decides he wants to butt in (pun intended), I'll make sure PinkOrchid doesn't get left out! ...by putting something in her!

 

[Guest]

Re: Woo hoo!

I enthusiastically volunteer to be the videographer!! And if MistressRain's bf decides he wants to butt in (pun intended), I'll make sure PinkOrchid doesn't get left out! ...by putting something in her!