Strap on?

I'm bi female and have been lucky enough to have taken part in several threesomes with male/female couples. Obviously for a bi-sexual there is little as enjoyable as this situation :) almost to the point of being spiritual. Toys seldom play a part in these activities, six hands, two pussies and a cock are complicated enough. :D However probably one of my most erotic experiences was with a couple and a strap-on. I'd put on the strap on so that he and I could DP her, he in her mouth and I in her pussy. We fucked her good, thoroughly enjoying this amazing strong woman in such a submissive position. Afterwords I had pulled out and was sitting back on my knees panting from the unaccustomed exertion of thrusting into her, when he turned to me, went down on the dildo of the strap on and looked right up into my eyes. My heart literally stopped, I'd never seen anything so erotic. I realized at that moment I had put this hunky, sweet man into a box with a simple label. Looking down into his beautiful lust filled brown eyes I saw the complexity and depth that I had missed, the mysteries that still lurked, wonderfully hidden and just waiting to be explored.

We humans are such amazing creatures!:heart:
 
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Well I try to keep in casual contact with him. Letting him know that I am studying my 'instruction guide' and watching 'educational videos'. How uninterested can a man be? lol:confused:
Can not say it is from your lack of trying, the only way you could try harder would be to tie him down and take him LOL... That is how I had it the first time, I will never forget that, however it could get you arrested so I do not suggest it.
 
I'm bi female and have been lucky enough to have taken part in several threesomes with male/female couples. Obviously for a bi-sexual there is little as enjoyable as this situation :) almost to the point of being spiritual. Toys seldom play a part in these activities, six hands, two pussies and a cock are complicated enough. :D However probably one of my most erotic experiences was with a couple and a strap-on. I'd put on the strap on so that he and I could DP her, he in her mouth and I in her pussy. We fucked her good, thoroughly enjoying this amazing strong woman in such a submissive position. Afterwords I had pulled out and was sitting back on my knees panting from the unaccustomed exertion of thrusting into her, when he turned to me, went down on the dildo of the strap on and looked right up into my eyes. My heart literally stopped, I'd never seen anything so erotic. I realized at that moment I had put this hunky, sweet man into a box with a simple label. Looking down into his beautiful lust filled brown eyes I saw the complexity and depth that I had missed, the mysteries that still lurked, wonderfully hidden and just waiting to be explored.

We humans are such amazing creatures!:heart:

That is soo sweet and a truly erotic experience. I was once the man with brown eyes too and I assure anyone that it was THE most eoric thing Ive ever done.
 
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huge fantasy but my woman asks if I'm gay when i casually bring it up! what do I do???

You could try telling her that it has nothing to do with sexuality of the individual but has more to do with the feelings from the experience. Point out that men have a P spot (The prostrate) and that when it is massaged with a strapon it is a new and wonderful experience for a man. He can experience an new orgasim that he can't enjoy in just manipulation of his penis.
 
You could try telling her that it has nothing to do with sexuality of the individual but has more to do with the feelings from the experience. Point out that men have a P spot (The prostrate) and that when it is massaged with a strapon it is a new and wonderful experience for a man. He can experience an new orgasim that he can't enjoy in just manipulation of his penis.

Yeah that's easy to say. But the reality is most women would not view a guy wanting a strapon experience as 100% heterosexual. Especially if he's made to suck it and do the full role reversal.
 
Yeah that's easy to say. But the reality is most women would not view a guy wanting a strapon experience as 100% heterosexual. Especially if he's made to suck it and do the full role reversal.

there's a grain of truth there

I sometimes imagine I'm a guy while I'm fucking my husband . . .
 
Yeah that's easy to say. But the reality is most women would not view a guy wanting a strapon experience as 100% heterosexual. Especially if he's made to suck it and do the full role reversal.

Interesting... I've never actually gotten that response once I conveyed that I simply wanted to have *her* fuck my ass... not just anyone.

Maybe I've just been lucky.
 
Interesting... I've never actually gotten that response once I conveyed that I simply wanted to have *her* fuck my ass... not just anyone.

Maybe I've just been lucky.

I believe a lot of women would equate a man's interest in having her use a strapon on him to him being bi-curious. That alone is an uncomfortable tag for many guys to have their girl think of them.
 
I believe a lot of women would equate a man's interest in having her use a strapon on him to him being bi-curious. That alone is an uncomfortable tag for many guys to have their girl think of them.

I hear ya... I guess I've just never been much into labels... and as a result I think I've probably avoided those who tend to label things. Always a bit 'out there' as a kid, teenager and adult... I'm fairly used to not meeting anyone elses idea of what I should be, or how I should act...

Then again, most of my girlfriends/partners have been a bit 'out there' too!! :)
 
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