Sub/Princess/Baby Girl

Sweetsoutherndelight

More than one night
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I’m Sha 42 yo 5’2”, curvy in all the right places, dark brown eyes that say more than I will, light brown skin, shoulder-length hair, and a soft spot for structure and strength.
I’m a submissive who thrives under confident leadership — the kind of man who knows how to guide, protect, and provide. I want connection, consistency, and someone who understands that spoiling your sub isn’t optional… it’s part of the dynamic.
Support, generosity, thoughtful gifts, and real attention? Absolutely required.
If you’re dominant, steady, and know how to take care of what’s yours, introduce yourself properly.
 
I’m Sha 42 yo 5’2”, curvy in all the right places, dark brown eyes that say more than I will, light brown skin, shoulder-length hair, and a soft spot for structure and strength.
I’m a submissive who thrives under confident leadership — the kind of man who knows how to guide, protect, and provide. I want connection, consistency, and someone who understands that spoiling your sub isn’t optional… it’s part of the dynamic.
Support, generosity, thoughtful gifts, and real attention? Absolutely required.
If you’re dominant, steady, and know how to take care of what’s yours, introduce yourself properly.
I couldn't have said it better...I'm not a dom just a well wisher.
 
I’m Sha 42 yo 5’2”, curvy in all the right places, dark brown eyes that say more than I will, light brown skin, shoulder-length hair, and a soft spot for structure and strength.
42 yo white male, 5 foot 9, broad shoulders, compact masculine body, not a body builder, average body for a man. I have a cute face, or so women tell me. I have light brown hair that I've grown out a little bit so my lady love (hypothetical) can have something to really run her fingers through and grab onto while I'm pleasuring her orally.

I have dated non-white girls several times, some several years long relationships.

I am not a race kink kind of person, i just happen to love women of all colors shapes and sizes. Including very curvy women, though that is not a requirement either. I just love most kinds of women, and I say that but I'm only interested in one at a time. I just want one special person and I can find a woman attractive if they meet a wide range of ages, shapes, sizes, backgrounds.

I used to live in Orlando and I lived and worked in a very black neighborhood and had roommates and a romantic partner and a boss and work associates who all liked and accepted me even though I was a lily white guy in the hood. Yeah it was a hood, too. That's what everyone called it, not just me. Gangsta rap on the radio at work all day long, that's the kind of environment I was comfortable with.

It felt perfectly fine. I get along with everyone and I don't have a racist bone. I know subconscious racism is a thing so, I'm always open to the idea of more ways of improving myself, but the important part is I listen and I definitely want people to know I have their back.

I’m a submissive who thrives under confident leadership — the kind of man who knows how to guide, protect, and provide.
Yeah, I'm a service dom / soft dom / service top.

Essentially it's like a devoted sub that worships you, but I take the lead, gently, and provide some structure to our play, I learn all your kinks and everything you would ever want me to do, and I listen, and I lovingly suggest things to do in the bedroom like- "sweetie, can you please get on the bed on your hands and knees for me" and then I do things for you that will only ever make you feel good. And make your toes curl and give you lots of orgasms. That's why I love being a dom, is you are willing to trust me with your body and let me have access to your body so I can bring you to the absolute heights of pleasure.

And the more you experience that the more you trust me to play with you because you always feel, after we are done playing, that I cared, I listened, and I would never hurt you. You're so safe with me, always.

No pain. No abuse, no verbal degradation. Just love and affection, starting with the physical touch but extending deeply into our emotions and our personalities and our hearts and minds.

Something VERY intimate and special. Building trust. I would never break it. You are always secretly in control, just tell me to stop, slow down, go faster, slower, harder, softer. I take you where you want to go, it isn't a power fantasy for me. The fantasy is hearing you feel so happy, audibly, for hours. That's the fantasy for me.

That's all I want. Could you be that for me?

I will never hurt, always serve and protect and shower with love. You'll never feel safer anywhere in the world than in my bed, with my hands on your body. Nothing will feel more right.

I want connection, consistency, and someone who understands that spoiling your sub isn’t optional… it’s part of the dynamic.
That's all I do. I would spend every night just pleasing you over and over, and when you're finished, we cuddle and kiss.

I spoil you always, and in return, you trust me and follow my lead when I make gentle suggestions on what to do next.

You don't need to refer to me as some authoritarian, no Sir, no Mister, no Master, you don't even need to call me Daddy despite this account's user name.

If you want to call me daddy, I'd adore it. But that's something special.

We can have something special without it. A pet nickname is fine. Call me sweetie, babe, honey, darling, anything but my name, I'd be delighted.

You aren't just mine, although I do feel a little possessive of you during sex, I would be yours in return. It's not a one way feeling.

Support, generosity, thoughtful gifts, and real attention? Absolutely required.
You'd never have more attention or devotion.

I know that sounds like I am talking a big game, I have been at this for 24 years now and all my lovers have said the same thing.

So why am I single? Really simple explanation. Just hold your skepticism until you hear it.

If you’re dominant, steady, and know how to take care of what’s yours, introduce yourself properly.
Hello miss delight, I would be honored to have the pleasure of your company for a conversation.

I will be nothing but respectful and if I ever weren't, you could tell everyone here. But I know I'd never be anything but respectful and loving, so it's fine.
@Sweetsoutherndelight

May I contact you and show you a picture of my face and upper body, clothed?

I can tell you to expect a rather youthful looking man, doesn't look 42 at all, handsome and boyish, shiny silky wavy hair, glasses.

Someone you wouldn't expect to see on the arm of a beautiful attractive woman in certain neighborhoods but you know what, some people need to expect the unexpected.

I'm unexpectedly awesome for the right person.

And I don't like to brag or talk myself up ever, so that's probably the last time you'll ever hear me compliment myself about anything.

It happens to be true I think, but, I'm not egotistical and I only really have to talk myself up because this is a dating ad.

I have to try to sell myself a little. But I also happen to think everything in my sales pitch is dead on accurate.
 
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